My new favorite addiction  

Singlechick25 36F
253 posts
10/12/2005 7:53 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

My new favorite addiction


After being a member of this site for roughly three months I have just recently come to appreciate areas such as Blogs and of course the mag.

I've found myself walking in the door after work and heading straight for the computer. After 8 miserable hours of sitting where?? In front of a computer!! And where can you find me after I wake up in the morning, still rubbing the sleep out of my eyes before preparing myself for another day of a** numbing computer work? Why, logging onto xmatch of course!

I fear my eyes will become permanently bloodshot, friends and family will start greeting me with "hitting the bottle kind of early aren't you?" To which I may respond "I thank you for your concern regarding my alcoholic tendancies but the reason for my bloodshot eyes and trouble focusing is caused by addiction to a sex site. So please, don't worry about me. It's not booze...it's sex."

If only it were the sex! I end up having more fun and meeting a larger variety of people by reading and posting on the advice lines. And to think I may never have experienced this new and exciting interaction were it not for a particularly frustrating mindset I was in after a poor ending to a potentially good relationship.

To be perfectly honest I am spending entirely too much time here, considering how little "free time" I actually have. But let me see, would I rather be washing dishes, doing other household chores or checking on the mag and blogs I've become so interested in? In case you're having trouble guessing, my dishes are still sitting in the sink and I don't do windows anyway so...

In actuality, until I started corresponding with people, generally men, on this site, I didn't realize how small my world had become. I see the same people everyday and night. I've known them all so long that we all know each others opinions and stories. I don't get the chance to use my limited amount of intelligence to engage in a meaningful conversation or exchanging of ideas and opinions.

In short, or rather long, I'm enjoying my time here and I've particularly enjoyed reading profiles, posts, rants, and blogs. Thank you so much to everyone that contributes to making this site so damn fun.

rm_TwiztedCharm 56M
456 posts
10/13/2005 10:21 pm

The blogs are the whole reason I'm here...It's my therapy and I'm much better because of it

Everyone wants romance, most wont admit it...... and fear it


jim5131 55M
1296 posts
10/17/2005 1:19 pm

ditto to twizted's comment: the romance at a distance is safe...I bypass the Austin women and make superfriends with women 200 miles away...even as far as the Philippines, etc..

We become 'blog johns' for the 'comment whores'...there's a little joke in there...somewhere.

I get some laugh-out-loud funnies from this site..some of the writers are a scream...but more importantly, many of the writers are divorced and many are lonely and have suffered several broken hearts in a row. There are sensitive feelings and they all need a hug. I foud these to be my best friends.

Enjoy...you're on the best side of the site. You'll get the come-ons from the cockguys, but you've got to expect that in an adult site. Soon, you won't go anywhere else BUT the blogs..and you'll tell your friends about it..but you might not name it by name..


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