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Big girls need love, too.
Big girls need love, too.
Over the college years I have made manyacquaintances but few friends. One such friend is Nina, a french horn player I've known for three years now. She and I have always had good conversations and limited contact due to completely different schedules. However, I have always been sexually attracted to her for some reason. Now,
Now, Nina is a short girl, around 5'0", but probably weighs close to 160-170+ lbs. Don't get me wrong, I do not discriminate on a basis of weight, but I'm a small, atheletic guy who ultimately needs a slim, atheletic girl. Thus I had not really dated a big girl before.
Well, it was the first nice day of spring a few days ago. I was in an adventurous, horny mood, and Nina and I had agreed to hang out during the afternoon. She met me outside the Math building and we went for a quick drive to my apartment, and then headed to a local park to enjoy the weather.
Now, Nina and I had never really talked about sex. So it came as a surprise when she asked me if I was a virgin. "No," I replied. "Well, are you gay or staight?" she continued.
"I'm bi." I answered, not sure of where this was going.
"Really?!" she exclaimed. "Thats interesting."
"Is it? I asked. "So, what questions have you got?"
We went through the normal round of, "How did you find out," and "What was your first time with a guy like," etc., etc. By this time we were out and walking around the park, enjoying the sun, when the conversation suddenly took an unexpected turn.
"So, would you ever consider doing anything physical with me?" she asked.
Well, yeah. I've thought about it plenty of times. Its not exactly the easiest subject to broach though, y'know?" I replied. Was this going where I thought it was?
"So you've though about it? I've thought about you a lot. I have this thing for skinny guys..." she confessed.
to be finished. Time is very limited these days...
3/29/2005 8:34 pm
Do it. Being a larger girl myself, you'd be doing her a huge favor. You're right, we need love too. My last boyfriend was skinny and he didn't have a problem w/ my weight. It was never a concern. I'm like her, I like skinny guys too. Well, not necessarily skinny, but well muscled. Even though I'm too lazy to work out, I like guys who do. There used to be a time when larger women were sought after. But Hollywood has severely skewed how we see each other physically and it's a real shame. Did you know that Marilyn Monroe was a size 12? In this day and age, size 12 is a plus size. Anything over 10 is considered plus. I have discovered that I'm bi-curious and I wouldn't mind having sex w/ a bigger girl. Besides, which would you rather have? A skinny girl w/ nothin to hold onto, or a larger girl that you can sink your fingers into and hang onto for dear life? Or think of it this way. Do you wanna sleep on a pillow top mattress or the floor?|
4/4/2005 11:14 pm
I hoped that you did give her a try. Gemdragon,you are right that Hollywood and Park Avenue had screwed up the preception of people's bodies. What about Mae West too? She had many men drolling when she sayshayed by. So many people miss out when they let the size template that has been subliminally given to them block out the essense of person that they might enjoy getting to know better.|