Paying Attention?  

Sindudas 33F
26 posts
8/13/2006 12:00 am

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10/13/2007 8:59 pm

Paying Attention?

Do you actually read and pay attention to profiles and their preferences or do you just ignore it and contact anyway?
Yes, I actually read profiles and listen to preferences
I read and contact regardless of their preferences
No, I don't read them at all I just wink and send notes


spark125 46M
52 posts
7/8/2008 3:48 pm

Hey Sindudas:

I feel everything you say and though you posted this almost 2 years ago, I want to say I have read your profile and the reason why you will continue to get responses from people outside your profile list is simply because some people will look at the tone and texture of what you have to say and still want to be your friend if not for sex but just because they are attracted to your personality.

Some of us like to treat people like people regardless of what some might consider a handicap. I have a sister with MS and I take her to Shows with me , movies and the theatre, there are other family members who never invite her anyplace becausees she is wheel chair bound, but she is still a human being and loves going out and doing things. I had one brother say wow dont get made but your sista is mad, sexy and too cute to be in that wheel chair. I told him " well chief if you really feel that, I'm her brother and though I am checking you out, you really need to talk to my sistas and let her know you think she's a cutie and be a man and step up and ask her out. Dont let the wheel chair fool you my sis is a real person.

So like I said some people might think you are cool and still want to have a friendship. I think you are cool but hey if dont respond, I dont have a problem because I am out your age range. but I just wanted to respond to your blog.


rm_spaccadet 38M
13 posts
4/23/2008 9:10 pm

i read profiles butt i just like to add my two cents somtimes especially if i like what i c thx 4 da time


chubby552 44M

9/15/2006 4:58 pm

i live in mt vernon yes im older than 27 but i can still read your profile and answer it i still think you are a very sweet person


Sindudas 33F

8/13/2006 12:03 am

In case you are wondering. I put up this poll because I get so many responses from people who I know clearly have not read the profile or they just think that they will be the special one. Yup even though my profile says in plain english who should not contact me. So I wanted to get an idea of who really pays attention to what we write because if my profile says no one over 27, why are you 40yrs old in my inbox or winking? If I say no one out of my local area, why are you in PA or KS? Get it? What's your comment?


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