Diarreah of the brain - relationships  

SincinnatiHO 37M
16 posts
3/10/2006 9:03 pm

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3/13/2006 10:12 pm

Diarreah of the brain - relationships

I'm currently in the blossoming stages of a relationship - well, its past the wooing portion & the fun "lets go out & do everything wild and crazy to impress/entertain eachother" to a more serious relationship. I'm happy with the woman and she most everything about her is good, but I'm still torn. Why do I still want different pieces of ass? Why do I think of the term "settling down" as just plain settling? Why is 'monogomy' so close to 'monotonous'? Definition of monotonous - Tediously repetitious or lacking in variety...is this what the future holds?

I am killing myself looking for a relationship that will never grow old, never become tedious? Maybe I just need to invest more in keeping the relationship alive and not on what the next best thing is. I believe that I can turn her into a pervette (as expatbrit49 would categorize) - or at least bring her up to my speed...

The eternal internal debate - when to stop looking for greener grass...

corrupted_nurse 33M

3/10/2006 9:44 pm

there will come a point in time where you will be saturated with ass and you don't want it anymore. Yes, the first stages is fun (as it is like getting-to-know-you-more stage) and truthfully, the next stages are utterly boring (if you focus too much on the sexual perspective). The more you grow old, the more you will treasure your partners company. I don't know if love is corrupting your senses but it's true. Companionate love I think is what it is called. Nevertheless, men are men. Pigs are pigs. There are some men who just can't keep their hands on those asses. But my advice is try something new, some variety. Try going out. Try activities that you have never done before. And before you knew it, you're old and with your lady. Don't concentrate too much on sexual activities because there are tons of activities in this life that is left to do. Try going to places or countries. Relationship will never grow old as long as the gardener takes care of it.

But still, it's your decision. You had the ball men. Either shoot or pass.


SincinnatiHO 37M

3/11/2006 9:55 pm

corrupted nurse - I think part of what you are saying is true. I think part of the thing that fades in a relationship is discovering new things out together. When you are 1st together you don't know how the other is going to act at a horror movie - will she hide her eyes, will she comment on how fake it looks? And those new reactions, emotions, are enjoyable to see - sort of like opening a christmas present. But, after a while you learn each other's tendencies & actions, sort of like opening the same gift over & over. No matter how much you loved it the 1st time, it just loses it's luster...

I try not to focus on the sexual too much- it peaks my interest at this point, but eventually I'll get to the point where other things will, but then again there's viagra, maybe not

MZHunyhole - true, I do enjoy doing what I do...I just hope that I don't pass on something great for the longterm b/c of something good in the short term.

lifeisablast333 53M

3/12/2006 12:46 am

Dude, keep wooing, when you stop, they get bored......

SincinnatiHO 37M

3/13/2006 10:11 pm

lifeisablast - so is she supposed to woo too?

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