Riled and Ranting  

ShyWhisper2006 53F
8597 posts
5/13/2006 8:53 pm
Riled and Ranting

I am looking for a diversion tonight. Not sure what form it will take.
I want to take my mind off tomorrow and the things that need doing.
Some thoughts were wild uninhibited sex....alot of rum....trying cyber shit...or just write whatever comes to mind.
Given that there are no offers on the first and second ideas...guess where and what I am doing...blogging...grrrr
Why is it..that a man can be larger and it is accepted yet, a woman is shunned? I mean for example...look at Ron Jeremy ...a porn "superstar" (no I have not seen any of his "films" )...he is no Greek Adonis by any means...and yet he is flocked to by women...screw the idea that he may have a member of some supposed proportion...He is chubby.
Goddess forbid a woman has a few more extra curves because of child bearing and nature and genes on her. She is avoided by many...I dont get it.
I was even told by some supposed "professional" business married individual that he has a freaking weight restriction on the women that he will be willing to service....*shakes head*...
Needless to say..I am sure he found his barbie doll plaything and I hope he got what he deserved for his requirements.
Then there are the men that say they are athletic...and when they are seen...it is not my definition of athletic by any means...do I point that out to them...no...it is their own definition obviously...who am I to dispel their ideals.
I know how I am sexually.
I know I can please someone.
I know how to do things that are pleasureable.
I treat others as I want to be treated.
I was asked if I am wild in the bedroom....I am not sure...I think if given the right acceptance I could be and if allowed to just be ...yes I am.
I like to be pleased and to please who I am with.
So I do not come in a perfect package...does it matter really?
everyone has their flaws....I am no exception.

Damn...this is not sounding the way I want...
I am human and a sexual being.
Is it so difficult to acquire that like mindedness from another?

I may be back to post again tonight....lol
Unless some kind of offer arrives before than.



rm_blue061245 71M
331 posts
5/14/2006 12:02 pm

We are not all perfect, and thank heaven for that!

If we were, we would all be exactly the same - what a depressing thought.

Vive la difference!


peguiz 60M

5/14/2006 2:53 pm

It is what is in the head and the heart that matters. The idea of a perfect package is a myth....and who defines what is perfect....and what are flaws.....it is all dependent on perception and who is judging ...and to the men who are athletic.....so what.......maybe it is what you have suggested....just a term of useless measurement that has no meaniing or significance when you are talking about making a connection with someone....so maybe you summed up all that is important when you said I am human and a sexual being!

And to echo Blue, Vive la difference!


reechard 61M  
249 posts
5/14/2006 5:31 pm

Hang in there, not every guy is like that.
I take a different viewpoint. I am more interested in the passion in the lady than her shape. I can still admire the "Barbies" all I like but I don't have to put up with their self-centred attitudes or the air of "I am doing you a favor".

Absolutely, "Vive la difference!

Richard


rm_DOFSE 45M

5/15/2006 10:08 am

ShyWhisper2006 ... a question for you ...are you open to chat with a married man ?
DOFSE


SirMounts 102M

5/16/2006 11:37 am

Someone as beautiful as you, within and without, should never accept anything less, than the very best. *smiling*


rm_Highlite 67M

5/21/2006 1:06 pm

Well I read the comments here made ny a few and maybe they are all sincere and maybe some of you arranged to meet Shywisper the fact of the matter is although you want a woman for the passion or the sex and don't care about her being a little heavy is not the same a shaving a womn for a friend and a lover. How many of oyu at this site would want to date Shywisper if there was no sex involbved at all. Not many if any. I am a man too and have a few extra pounds but like she says no one seems to care about that. It is unfortunate we can all make comments to her to make her feel better about herself but she is now at the satge of not trusting anything any of us say. WHy I think when someone else came a long you dropped her with out any thought of what you were doing. Don't tell stories to her and give fluffy little messeges. DNot to her or anyone like her. They are people they ahve feelings and when they are hurt and abused you get a woman angry at all of us. If you just want her for the sex but insside do care about looks and wieght get a hunk of liver and work yourself over rather than hurt someone for your own satisfaction. I speak to you that stood her up and made her feel worse now than is doisplayed here.


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/4/2006 8:56 pm

    Quoting SirMounts:
    Someone as beautiful as you, within and without, should never accept anything less, than the very best. *smiling*
Why thank you SirMounts...I believe so as well..*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:48 am

    Quoting rm_blue061245:
    We are not all perfect, and thank heaven for that!

    If we were, we would all be exactly the same - what a depressing thought.

    Vive la difference!
blue...I totally agree...with all our imperfections...it makes us all so very interesting...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:49 am

    Quoting peguiz:
    It is what is in the head and the heart that matters. The idea of a perfect package is a myth....and who defines what is perfect....and what are flaws.....it is all dependent on perception and who is judging ...and to the men who are athletic.....so what.......maybe it is what you have suggested....just a term of useless measurement that has no meaniing or significance when you are talking about making a connection with someone....so maybe you summed up all that is important when you said I am human and a sexual being!

    And to echo Blue, Vive la difference!
pequiz...*smiles* well put...and it is nice to see a male perspective as well...thank you for visiting


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:50 am

    Quoting reechard:
    Hang in there, not every guy is like that.
    I take a different viewpoint. I am more interested in the passion in the lady than her shape. I can still admire the "Barbies" all I like but I don't have to put up with their self-centred attitudes or the air of "I am doing you a favor".

    Absolutely, "Vive la difference!

    Richard
reechard...Yes exactly...our differences make us unique to say the least...*smiles* thank you for visiting


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:51 am

    Quoting rm_DOFSE:
    ShyWhisper2006 ... a question for you ...are you open to chat with a married man ?
    DOFSE
Dofse...I like chatting with anyone as long as they are respectful...as I am with them...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:54 am

    Quoting rm_Highlite:
    Well I read the comments here made ny a few and maybe they are all sincere and maybe some of you arranged to meet Shywisper the fact of the matter is although you want a woman for the passion or the sex and don't care about her being a little heavy is not the same a shaving a womn for a friend and a lover. How many of oyu at this site would want to date Shywisper if there was no sex involbved at all. Not many if any. I am a man too and have a few extra pounds but like she says no one seems to care about that. It is unfortunate we can all make comments to her to make her feel better about herself but she is now at the satge of not trusting anything any of us say. WHy I think when someone else came a long you dropped her with out any thought of what you were doing. Don't tell stories to her and give fluffy little messeges. DNot to her or anyone like her. They are people they ahve feelings and when they are hurt and abused you get a woman angry at all of us. If you just want her for the sex but insside do care about looks and wieght get a hunk of liver and work yourself over rather than hurt someone for your own satisfaction. I speak to you that stood her up and made her feel worse now than is doisplayed here.
Highlite...Thank you so much for this comment...what others will not say outright..you stated clearly...*smiles* thank you for your honesty


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