Mild Bliss  

ShyWhisper2006 53F
8597 posts
8/4/2006 6:28 am
Mild Bliss

Random thought day I think...*smiles*

I want to cut my hair..or something . I haven't quite figured out what I want to do with it, just yet..but perhaps a change of some sort . Then again I may chicken out at the last minute and just get a trim or a light thinning of it...much too hot out to keep it this thick.(Yes my hair on my head...sheesh)

Thinking of removing my photos, again, from my profile as I keep getting emails on how provocative they are (as if)...they are quite tame from what all I have seen...*rolls eyes*...I am still debating on that one...

I am actually shivering right now...it seems so cold in my house at the moment...hmmm me thinks slippers and a cozy sweater is in order..*smiles*

I was reading blogs tonight...random ones and it never ceases to amaze me, the thoughts that others have and how well others write...I just love blog land...so many treasures to be found...little gems hidden away and yet wonderful when you find them

OOh and I was reminded yet again *rolls eyes*...that this is a SEX site..did you know?....lmao
Why didn't someone tell me sooner...all this time ...I was under the impression that it was a good old "friend finding" site...sheesh...and here I thought that the "Oh God's"...and "sweet Lawd's" and other exclamations heard in these hallowed halls were some religious group meeting going on that I did not get the memo to attend...*shakes head*

Yes, I am being sarcastic and no I won't point fingers...no point in it...not worth my time or effort to keep explaining ..WHY ..I am here...WHAT ...I am looking for...WHO...is my ideal match....HOW...I like certain things..WHERE...I want anything to happen....gets old after awhile explaining, so much ...so I am not anymore...nope *grins*...to know me or about me..read my blog...most if not all lies therein...

And if, I decide to answer those kinds of questions...they will result in bizarre answers, that I am not held responsible for...*giggles*

Think I will go try more HTML stuff on a web page...see what mess or success I can manage...*smiles*

Have a great day...and a great weekend...TTFN!!


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/4/2006 10:07 am

I have seen your pics, and they are not provocative at all. You're right. Many around here have very provocative photos, maybe they should just be quiet.

I see your in Calgary, nice place. A few years back, a friend I knew in High School found me through the internet (20 yrs later) that now lives in Edmonton. I flew up there to see her, and we made a road trip through Calgary, Banff and Liberty. Calgary was very nice. We had dinner at a restaurant on the river there by a bridge. Forgot the name of the place, but it was very nice.


goboi_go 55M

8/5/2006 7:45 am

You can evoke, with enigmatic photos, like the one that is you as we know it, such statements from men of that sort. From what I understand, the ratio is 65:1 women/men and not all men want the same naked body shots over and over so pics like yours might open you to comments from those that want some mysterie. So....don't be surprised if the mystery presented by your pic may drive some a bit nuts.

I really think your picture is fine. To me your pose is almost a physical representation of your writing. Sexuality wise most of the elements are at least partially there and visable as is your deameanor pictorally expressed by your hand in front of your hidden breasts. And the lips - oh my my pouty girl.

When I look at other pics, the enigmatic ones start the imagination rolling and when accompanied by such soft loving language - you are a sitting duck. Check out some other girls pics, ones you may find nice, and take some more in your own way. I think your best chance of achieving your said goals of finding someone is to continue to show some sort of pic - please don't leave it blank. But, that's just my 2 cents.


SirMounts 102M

8/5/2006 1:02 pm

shy...
Well, being here is a process... and can be an eye opening experience, too. In a way then, I feel what this post really says, is that you have sort of "arrived", as an experienced member of A.f.f. - and an experienced blogger, too. Because, as the old song goes, "you can't please everyone, so you've just gotta please yourself".
And because of your extraordinary gifts and talents, when you Do please yourself in what you write... you please a great many others too in the process. *smiling broadly*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/5/2006 11:08 pm

    Quoting IviesBidesJuste:
    I have seen your pics, and they are not provocative at all. You're right. Many around here have very provocative photos, maybe they should just be quiet.

    I see your in Calgary, nice place. A few years back, a friend I knew in High School found me through the internet (20 yrs later) that now lives in Edmonton. I flew up there to see her, and we made a road trip through Calgary, Banff and Liberty. Calgary was very nice. We had dinner at a restaurant on the river there by a bridge. Forgot the name of the place, but it was very nice.
LBbackdoorman ...thank you...yes I know of the place I think that you are speaking of...Le Caille on the Bow....I have not been there myself...but heard it was very exquisite to go to...thank you for visiting my blog...nice to meet you...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/5/2006 11:09 pm

I do try to....


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/5/2006 11:17 pm

    Quoting goboi_go:
    You can evoke, with enigmatic photos, like the one that is you as we know it, such statements from men of that sort. From what I understand, the ratio is 65:1 women/men and not all men want the same naked body shots over and over so pics like yours might open you to comments from those that want some mysterie. So....don't be surprised if the mystery presented by your pic may drive some a bit nuts.

    I really think your picture is fine. To me your pose is almost a physical representation of your writing. Sexuality wise most of the elements are at least partially there and visable as is your deameanor pictorally expressed by your hand in front of your hidden breasts. And the lips - oh my my pouty girl.

    When I look at other pics, the enigmatic ones start the imagination rolling and when accompanied by such soft loving language - you are a sitting duck. Check out some other girls pics, ones you may find nice, and take some more in your own way. I think your best chance of achieving your said goals of finding someone is to continue to show some sort of pic - please don't leave it blank. But, that's just my 2 cents.
goboi_go....Oh my, me pouty?...
*runs down the hallway to go check said photo...giggles and runs back*
....well..given I have to take said photo alone and not in the most ideal photographic setting as I would like...it was more of a scrunching up of my face..*smiles*
Said comments that upset me...well they kind of disappeared...once a certain button was pressed...lol
I thank you for your kind words and I am not moving any photos and may try to take others if I feel up to it ....thank you for visiting me...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/5/2006 11:25 pm

    Quoting SirMounts:
    shy...
    Well, being here is a process... and can be an eye opening experience, too. In a way then, I feel what this post really says, is that you have sort of "arrived", as an experienced member of A.f.f. - and an experienced blogger, too. Because, as the old song goes, "you can't please everyone, so you've just gotta please yourself".
    And because of your extraordinary gifts and talents, when you Do please yourself in what you write... you please a great many others too in the process. *smiling broadly*
SirMounts....*smiles* ..I like the way you put that Sir...makes me feel like a .."debutante" of sorts...*giggles*...always wanted to..."arrive"...
I feel somewhat undeserving of such praise....I read so many others blogs that for me...are more meaningful than my lil offerings...but I do appreciate your comments...thank you SirMounts


IviesBidesJuste 55M
3658 posts
8/6/2006 10:46 am

    Quoting ShyWhisper2006:
    LBbackdoorman ...thank you...yes I know of the place I think that you are speaking of...Le Caille on the Bow....I have not been there myself...but heard it was very exquisite to go to...thank you for visiting my blog...nice to meet you...*smiles*
That could be the place. When we got there, we had booked a room at a place only blocks from the river across from the main city. This reastaurant, was a seafood and steak place that was recommended to us by the hotel clerk. There is a bridge next to it, because we took a walk on it after we ate.

It was an October when I was there. Even then, it seemed to be getting a bit nippy out. Far cry from Southern California.


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/7/2006 6:14 am

*smiles*...ic an be nippy at any time of the year here...then again lately it is been so hot....yes I believe that is it then..as far as I know...if I am mistaken I am sure other calgarians will put their two cents in...*smiles*


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