Duh....  

ShyWhisper2006 53F
8597 posts
5/19/2006 1:18 pm
Duh....

Oh I know...it is a sex site...it is a fuck site...yes , yes I know that and realize unfortunately that I am still on it no matter what my mind tells me.
Yes I have a picture up for those that say that I may be hiding something because I had no photo up....
Yes I have a *bleep bleep* chest...I am a WOMAN...like hello...we do tend to have one somewhat unlike the male counterparts to some degree. And yes each woman's chest is different in size shape and color than all the others.
Yes I am in a pissy mood today,...due to frustration and the idiotic messages that I receive from men that are "trying" to get my attention...like come on...try to be a little respectful...I manage to answer all that write to me and even to those that comment on my blog as well...
I do not get that many messages, and I am glad of that...it would be too overwhelming to me if I did. I get some awesome messages and believe it or not...not all want to meet me, they just would like to talk and find out a little about me...and I LIKE THAT...
I happen to think that sex should be a bonus which occurs between two unattached people that find some sort of spark between them that is hard to deny...a means to become closer to another.
As to the comment made to me one night...I realize that it may be a rare possibility that an actual "real" relationship of any length can happen from a site like this. But it is still a possibility.
Do I want to be treated as a receptacle for another's needed relief...NO
Do I even like sex?...Hell yes...I am human after all*looks down and checks*...At least it is what I believe.
I am sorry if I am not willing to think that it is alright to "f**k" someone at the first meeting. I am not like that and would hope someone does not think that less of me to think that I would. There are some who will...go find them...you can even pay others to service you if that is your choosing...I will not judge your decision.
Can sex on a first meeting ever be possible?...Yes...if I have been given the chance to get to know you by messages...email...phone...messanger and if there is an attraction and a mutual desire to do so.
If this is still unclear to those that wish to not bother reading my profile...*shakes head* ...sorry move on...I have tried to be pleasant and "nice" and not rude...but I am hardly a patient saint...I mean really.

For those that read hear...I apologize for my attitude today...please disregard and forgive me if you can...thank you.

....rant over...*blushes*

Have a great weekend all...be well and take care

*smiles*


rm_Highlite 66M

5/21/2006 1:15 pm

WHy would you have to apologise here tfor stating your beliefs. You don't have to do that for anyone, least of all in this place. I agree with you about sex wehen you meet for coffee, as I said elswhere if the just want the plesure pay for it or get the and out... there is more to peole than just screwing each other. It has to have some kind of feeling, some kind of attachment , even if it a casual relationship you still have to have an attraction and desire not mearly and erection or wet panties to want sex with anyone that you can talk into it. Sit in an ice water tub that may solve your problem.


rm_funstuff124 63M
5 posts
6/22/2006 12:34 am

nicely stated , on this site much is bs but somewhere there is some truth once you get to know them .


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:45 am

    Quoting rm_Highlite:
    WHy would you have to apologise here tfor stating your beliefs. You don't have to do that for anyone, least of all in this place. I agree with you about sex wehen you meet for coffee, as I said elswhere if the just want the plesure pay for it or get the and out... there is more to peole than just screwing each other. It has to have some kind of feeling, some kind of attachment , even if it a casual relationship you still have to have an attraction and desire not mearly and erection or wet panties to want sex with anyone that you can talk into it. Sit in an ice water tub that may solve your problem.
Thank you highlite...it means alot to me to be validated by a man here...*smiles*


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 12:45 am

    Quoting rm_funstuff124:
    nicely stated , on this site much is bs but somewhere there is some truth once you get to know them .
Thank you funstuff...I agree...and so far so good...*smiles*


KC_JJ 53M

6/21/2007 7:32 pm

Ahhhh! yeat another quite thoroughly uncrowded post!!!!!

I really enjoy fooling myself into thinking that I actually get some "secret" private time with you away from the hustle and bustle of "the big mean world" out there when i do this

Hee hee!!

Somehow I feel like those other new posts are all filled with a bunch of guys as if they were were at some sort of he-man body building flex off all trying to win your flavor. ( misspelling deliberate )

I almost wonder if that sort of makes me a wimp for not joining the big flex off?

But maybe I am joining it anyway just in a more private setting?

OOps I'm speaking my secret mind here!

You weren't supped to hear that!!!

I like that picture of the cat. It does not look like it's having the beszt day!

Beszt as in Ferençe Liszt! ( or Franz as it is sometimes spelled. ) I think the way I spelled it with the funky C is the Hungarian way.

I almost want to not say anything about what you posted just because I've been doing such a consistent job so far in already doing that.

But I will now break with that consistency!

you wrote...

Do I even like sex?...Hell yes...

All I have to say to that is...

Hallelujah!!!!.



It's sort of frustrating not even having ANY capaity to view profiles when it is such an important thing to actually to do.

But blogs have indeed served me well as a pretty damn good substitute!

It's all I really got to go on!

I would just bet that if someone were to give themselves like ten or 20 years or so that they could find a simply OUTRAGEOUSLY compatible partner here. I'm not by nature a very patient person but within that span of time I figure I'll beable to at least grow some patience!!!!



Screw people who say this site is only for "sport sex" I would never tell anyone this, particularly not in any sort of public forum. But I swear I am going to find the love of my life here!!!!





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ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
6/22/2007 7:21 am

    Quoting KC_JJ:

    Ahhhh! yeat another quite thoroughly uncrowded post!!!!!

    I really enjoy fooling myself into thinking that I actually get some "secret" private time with you away from the hustle and bustle of "the big mean world" out there when i do this

    Hee hee!!

    Somehow I feel like those other new posts are all filled with a bunch of guys as if they were were at some sort of he-man body building flex off all trying to win your flavor. ( misspelling deliberate )

    I almost wonder if that sort of makes me a wimp for not joining the big flex off?

    But maybe I am joining it anyway just in a more private setting?

    OOps I'm speaking my secret mind here!

    You weren't supped to hear that!!!

    I like that picture of the cat. It does not look like it's having the beszt day!

    Beszt as in Ferençe Liszt! ( or Franz as it is sometimes spelled. ) I think the way I spelled it with the funky C is the Hungarian way.

    I almost want to not say anything about what you posted just because I've been doing such a consistent job so far in already doing that.

    But I will now break with that consistency!

    you wrote...

    Do I even like sex?...Hell yes...

    All I have to say to that is...

    Hallelujah!!!!.



    It's sort of frustrating not even having ANY capaity to view profiles when it is such an important thing to actually to do.

    But blogs have indeed served me well as a pretty damn good substitute!

    It's all I really got to go on!

    I would just bet that if someone were to give themselves like ten or 20 years or so that they could find a simply OUTRAGEOUSLY compatible partner here. I'm not by nature a very patient person but within that span of time I figure I'll beable to at least grow some patience!!!!



    Screw people who say this site is only for "sport sex" I would never tell anyone this, particularly not in any sort of public forum. But I swear I am going to find the love of my life here!!!!




*smiles*...Yes another uncrowded post of mine
Are there a bunch of guys flexing to win my "flavor?
Ok I want names..
Seriously...I get better if not more in depth "views" from people on my blog ..than on my profile...to me anyway it is a clearer picture of the person than a few lines in an email in my in box. I recently got a one word message...Not sure what the individual thought that would result in
If not the love of your life..at the very least you will find encouragement and support in everything you do...from individuals that care and are genuinely "real" in what they say. Not to say that there are not a few..."interesting " folks on the blogs..but they are much fewer in number than on the main profiles/emails.
Have a wonderful weekend!!
ps...I love the picture accompanying your family reunion post.


KC_JJ 53M

6/23/2007 11:56 pm

    Quoting ShyWhisper2006:
    *smiles*...Yes another uncrowded post of mine
    Are there a bunch of guys flexing to win my "flavor?
    Ok I want names..
    Seriously...I get better if not more in depth "views" from people on my blog ..than on my profile...to me anyway it is a clearer picture of the person than a few lines in an email in my in box. I recently got a one word message...Not sure what the individual thought that would result in
    If not the love of your life..at the very least you will find encouragement and support in everything you do...from individuals that care and are genuinely "real" in what they say. Not to say that there are not a few..."interesting " folks on the blogs..but they are much fewer in number than on the main profiles/emails.
    Have a wonderful weekend!!
    ps...I love the picture accompanying your family reunion post.
Glad you like my Grandpappy and his brothers. I had thought the central guy in that picture was the eldest but I just found out that my grandpappy was indeed the "first born".

He was a genius in school to until he conked his head on a bad fall once too. Not that he became stupid after that either but he started out life being one of those "instant recall" photographic memory" types.

I can't say that I am that way but it's good to know that the potential lies somewhere in the genes.

Wish you were going to Hunyholes but it will already be so overwhelming I am wondering how I'll handle it!



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ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/1/2007 9:45 pm

    Quoting KC_JJ:
    Glad you like my Grandpappy and his brothers. I had thought the central guy in that picture was the eldest but I just found out that my grandpappy was indeed the "first born".

    He was a genius in school to until he conked his head on a bad fall once too. Not that he became stupid after that either but he started out life being one of those "instant recall" photographic memory" types.

    I can't say that I am that way but it's good to know that the potential lies somewhere in the genes.

    Wish you were going to Hunyholes but it will already be so overwhelming I am wondering how I'll handle it!


Yes I wish I was going as well..I am sure you will do fine ..and have a wonderful time *hugs*


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