*sighs*  

ShyWhisper2006 53F
8597 posts
4/17/2006 10:55 am
*sighs*

I have been debating with myself for the past few days on whether or not to delete my account on this site altogether. I think I am out of my league as far as the site goes.
Many want something right away and I am not like that. As one "kind" person mentioned...it is a "fuck" site so what is your problem.
That being said however, I have messaged with a few who are genuinely friendly and respectful. I have found that many have not bothered to read the profile and only looked upon the picture that I posted...so I have taken that off now.
I am disappointed somewhat by the lack of respect that has been shown.
I know that they probably don't mean to...given what type of site this is and all...but there is something to be said about being respectful towards someone that puts you in a good light to the one whose eye you are trying to capture.
Was told by a recent coffee date....that yes I was wonderful and had alot to offer to the world...but that I differed from him economically, culturally and professionally.
Wasn't sure what to make of this really. Having communicated with him for some time and feeling as though there was some connection, only to be told this.
Makes me wonder, ...being that I do not judge others and their lives, and this person said they didn't as well. I hope I do not do the same unknowingly.
I will continue to debate with myself till I either find a better suited site for myself, or I figure out whjat I am doing that needs to change...perhaps a rewrite on my profile..who knows...*smiles*



GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
4/17/2006 12:46 pm


respect is very hard for some it seems. As long as you know what you want and don't play games you'll b ok. Disappointment is part of the package (especially in the beginning). There are very gud and nice people on here, sometimes they're just a bit harder to find

and .... a belated welcome to da blogz....

sayz she who's a figment of her own imagination....


pandoo5 59M
398 posts
4/17/2006 1:56 pm

Full moon, I can not read your profile because I am keeping my self as standard member but as I read your blog I felt like answering you on the question of respect, we should show it, canceling from here and going elsewhere means you are still on the site, we write about ourself and people who like it they respond, some becomes friends and just the names but we are talking to people we don't know, learning from them or teaching them, so my unknown friend keep writing people are listening. Site has nothing to do with ideas thats us, walk away from what you don't like.


milfseeker27b 35M

4/17/2006 5:53 pm

hey shy - I would say you should stay. Don't let the ignorance and lack of class of a few ruin the fun and friendships that you may find here. There are lots of people here not looking to just "fuck." I would say just ignore the people sending bad energy your way. You can always set your email filter - or turn it off completely. We need the sweet girls of the north on here.

Welcome to blogsville - we're happy to have ya

~milf


blue061245 70M
331 posts
4/17/2006 6:36 pm

ShyWhisper

Like Pandoo, I have not read your full profile - as a standard member it is not available to me. I have no doubt that many guys are in exactly the same boat.

As far as "wanting something" right away goes, no doubt there are quite a few of them. on the other hand, there must be many who are somewhat more discriminating and who view that "something" as an experience to be shared and savored - something that is often more enjoyable if you wait and get to know the person first.

Don't give up yet!


JudeL5 46M
1535 posts
4/17/2006 10:52 pm

The "kind" man who said it was a "fuck" sight can make what he wants of the site.

Make it what you want to be... or rather get out of it what you want or need... and make no apologies for it


calibanshe 60M

4/18/2006 6:28 pm

Like many of the others who have written before this post I too have not read your profile or seen your photo. I too am a standard member and am new on here. Just finished reading all that you have written and think you are a very interesting woman who has not been treated well by some people who obviously do not know the meaning of respect or value sincerity. Part of the problem for many is that you are too real. If you feel like contacting me I would consider it a privledge to talk with and get know a person like you.
I hope you stay on this site. I would like to come back and continue to read and think about what you share in your posts.
Whatever happens, Shywhisper, the best to you.


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
7/8/2006 1:22 am

Thank you all very much...GoddessOfTheDawn ...pandoo5 ...milfseeker27b...blue061245 ...JudeL5 ...calibanshe
Your comments are all appreciated so very much...thank you for visiting..*smiles*


rm_Benkai7 55M
2358 posts
8/10/2006 11:04 am

Dear "ShyWhisper2006".

... spend some time in your blog and enjoyed being here ... and I`m happy and glad to read you´ve made up your mind to stand your ground ...
as long as you stay as yourself everything will be right ... thank you for sharing ...

Benkai7


ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
8/11/2006 6:39 pm

    Quoting rm_Benkai7:
    Dear "ShyWhisper2006".

    ... spend some time in your blog and enjoyed being here ... and I`m happy and glad to read you´ve made up your mind to stand your ground ...
    as long as you stay as yourself everything will be right ... thank you for sharing ...

    Benkai7
Benkai7...Thank you for visiting my blog and it is most appreciated as well ...Yes I have decided to stay...I am accepted more readily on my blog than on the main site. For that I feel I have found my little niche. To me it is not what the outer of the person looks like as the inner workings and thoughts hold more power and consist and do not vary as much as the outer ..realm , so to speak.
Your quite welcome to enjoy my sharing here...*smiles*


firstflight694us 57M

3/2/2007 4:45 pm

Interesting post. I joined, it appears, about the same time as yourself. Ironically, I struggled with it as well.

That struggle ended a while back when I immersed my time here specifically in this land of the blog. It is here that I have met the like minded people I believe I was seeking. There is a comfort now with being here that I do recall not having those many months ago...

So? A belated welcome to you and a thank you for your visit to my little world earlier this day....

Life is a journey, just ride~
~[post 974853]~


ShyWhisper2006 replies on 3/2/2007 5:57 pm:
*smiles*...Thank you firstflight and welcome to my lil blog...
Yes I have found I spend most my time in the blogs reading others mostly and posting to my own from time to time..and you are most welcome for my little visit ..take care *hugs*

KC_JJ 53M

6/2/2007 9:05 pm

Ahh, Yet another relatively uncrowded post!

Even when I may have wanted it to be this site has never been a good "fuck site" so I never really think of it as such for myslef anyway. But I lack much skill at all at "just fucking" and have now simply accepted that as part of my essential chaacter.

I feel certain you are getting much more respect now than you were at that point. Or at least I hope you are. But if you were not I doubt you'd be here anymore.

If you haven't guessed yet I'm not so hip on "crowds"



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ShyWhisper2006 53F
15175 posts
6/2/2007 11:02 pm

    Quoting KC_JJ:
    Ahh, Yet another relatively uncrowded post!

    Even when I may have wanted it to be this site has never been a good "fuck site" so I never really think of it as such for myslef anyway. But I lack much skill at all at "just fucking" and have now simply accepted that as part of my essential chaacter.

    I feel certain you are getting much more respect now than you were at that point. Or at least I hope you are. But if you were not I doubt you'd be here anymore.

    If you haven't guessed yet I'm not so hip on "crowds"


*smiles*..Yes there are a few such posts..
Yes I seem to get more respectful messages at least..then at the beginning. I was not one to get many messages like the g/f that told me to sign up..but then again..my photos are nowhere near hers in comparison...ie nudity
But she is no longer on the site and she did not start a blog..but she did find someone.
Yes I am not into crowds myself at all..so you would not find me at crowded malls at all.


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