Players, bitches and backstabbers  

Sexysluttylady 48F
532 posts
10/23/2005 9:34 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Players, bitches and backstabbers


Someone shed some light on this mystery for me will you please

Why do so many people play mind games with others?

Why do some many people bitch about others?

Why do so many people talk nicely to your face and stab you on the back when you are not looking?

Any ideas? Time these sort of people were exposed in my opinion

pauls337 50M
11 posts
10/25/2005 11:24 am

Every now and again I pop onto to your blog to see whats going on and see what mood your in !!!

Seems that some people have let you down a little....

I think the internet can be impersonal and this behaviour is easier to carry on with because there is little accountability, you dont have to actually face people. These people may be like that in real life of course or the net may just give them an outlet for their darker sides.

Also because Pass ion is linked to AdultFriendFinder which is a sex and swingers site you are going to have players, after all AdultFriendFinder is designed for that purpose in a way.

I think TAG is probably more at 'home' on passion than AdultFriendFinder and moderating it must be a nightmare sometimes. You can only do what you think is right and act on information given and there has to be a certain amount of trust that the information is correct.

I would have never joined this site if i had know what it was and TAG is all that stops me going. I wouldnt contact other people in the group although i talk to Jo and others can contact me if they want to. There must be others like me and you should be very proud of TAG. You only have to look at the number of threads and posts to see how popular it is.

xx


rm_T_A_B 37M
1 post
10/25/2005 3:04 pm

I genuinly think that there are people who just don't care that their actions have a direct and hurtfull action upon others.
Having been guilty myself of 'choosing' to be vindictive for the sake of it I have to say that the feeling of empowerment is not ilusory but very real. And often its this feeling that encourages the further propagation of the actions. The "getting people on their side." isn't defence mechanicism, far from it. They need the support of those others in order to bolster the feelings of superiority that are a result of the initial stabbing. I don't think its a matter of fear of life or moral cowardice. I love life and indeed so do they or they would target all not the few. I also have a very strong morale standard, its just not the same as yours. I completly sympathise with the target of abuse, hence the use of the word guilty before. But do feel that what does not kill you only makes you stronger and that your better of stabbed than never knowing.

PS. I may have misinterpreted backstabbing. I'm not sure. And its late and freezing cold so my mind and typing are suffering.


rm_wellshouldi 53M

10/25/2005 4:07 pm

The other thing to remember is that most people who play"mind games" are just bullies.A word can often hurt more than afist


rm_reisaree 42F
611 posts
10/29/2005 4:20 pm

HI Sexy ... I can say this to you in all sincerity: I know *EXACTLY* what you mean... Wonder if we are dealing with the same trifling bittys?!?? LOL..

I actually came into your blog to tell ya something that might give ya a smile... I was looking in the most popular members... Clicked on the women...and guess who I found?? *nodding* yeppers.. YOU!! You're in some good company... TexasMermaid is in there with ya...

So.. today...go ahead and take your mind off those trifling bittys and focus on something fun.... MS. MOST POPULAR ~! *SMILES*

hEy...I bEt ThOsE tRiFlInG oNeS aReN't On ThAt LiSt!!!


greeneyedsexpot 42

11/2/2005 12:36 am

backstabbers, bad mouthing,i get it all the time hun, especially from men who i dont mail back,to be honest i think they do it to get a reaction an hope you will respond
dont!!!
we would only lower ourselves to there level..
ive been called ugly bitch, slag,cock teaser,thick cunt,etc,an for all those who said it, YEAH I FUCKIN AM,lol
just be yourself and block the bastards,or report em,hehe
anyway have fun girl an keep up the good work,you are who you are.an while there backstabbin you there leavin someone else alone.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sonia


Brucie17 35M
1 post
11/6/2005 4:22 pm

hey whats up i want to slam you so hard email me at AdultFriendFinder


rm_Mobile239 68M

12/2/2005 5:24 pm

YOU FUCKING STARTED IT ALL YOU MOANING SLAG


nescafe41 54M
2 posts
12/8/2005 1:57 am

hi - there are three harrians of gossip in our neighbourhood,so the other day i said

i saw your 3 names and photos linked to a comp in the Chronicle,there were some great prizes 1 a car 2 a holiday 3 £250 High street vouchers etc all i had to do was match the name to the correct picture,i put you down as Hubble Bubble, cut her dead and walked away

Her reply ##### #'## # # ### ## # ###########


nescafe41 54M
2 posts
12/8/2005 2:13 am

ive just joided, as you know,but what ive observed so far,there is a lot of support,love and friendship from all the other members, please don't let one bad apple spoil your fun,their loss, is everyone elses gain, beee haapppy !

cheers,thanks,tar,


rm_Just_Tracy 55F
6511 posts
1/10/2006 4:50 am

I have just read this blog. I have to say that I agree with the comments. I will add, however that it is getting onto the most popular list that causes all of these problem. I was having a great time until I got on that dumb list, which incidently I have found doesn't mean a thing. I am sure if you endevour to stay on the list you will find out what I mean.

I for one want to slide down off the most popular list and leave it all behind.

Love and Kisses
Tracy

Q. What's the last thing that goes through a fly's mind when it hits a windscreen?
A. It's arse!


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rm_Just_Tracy 55F
6511 posts
1/12/2006 3:42 am

SSL, I have been having more than my fair share of many types of abuse on this site and have wroten blogs about it too. What I do want to say is there is a smple answer to all of this.

When certain types of men try to make you weak with their foul words, it only to try to make themselves feel more manly and strong. The poor deluded fools don't know what a real man is.

People only try to make others smaller in the hope of feeling bigger, ya get me.

Q. What's the last thing that goes through a fly's mind when it hits a windscreen?
A. It's arse!


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