Sexysluttylady 48F
532 posts
9/25/2005 2:07 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


Ok, the art of flirting.........

Should it be subtle or obvious

rude or innocent

direct or indirect

Would be interested in hearing views cos I keep getting told that I am not very good at flirting lol!!!

rm_CuriousnHB 64M
2 posts
9/25/2005 3:15 pm

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iluvjbsinaz 55M

9/25/2005 3:22 pm

All of the above. Seriously, it depends on the type of person you are, the setting and who you are flirting with. Some guys don't get the subtle, others can't stand the obvious. Sometimes one guy gets the subtle, the next time he doesn't.

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
9/25/2005 3:27 pm

If a guy is a hottie it should be subtle, innocent and indirect.(use the eyes and the smile) if hes a hottie who cant read body language it should be obvious, semi-aggressive and direct. Sometimes its take being obvious to make some men take the hint that you are flirting with them.

That is usually how I proceed, and it works 90% of the time unless the man just isn't into me.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

sexymermaid6956 63F
26393 posts
9/25/2005 3:44 pm

i fell a good flirt has all of the depends on so much and who your flirting with...either you are born that way or????or you can adopt it as an art


Seduce my mind and my body

someonelikeithot 50F

9/25/2005 3:56 pm

I do not think there is a set formula...each person has to use its own personality and has its own way of "flirting".
I have a friend , who is not what one could define a stunner, she is really short and she is quite round (beautiful eyes though) and yet she pulls man like bees to honey. She flirts big time and she is extremely direct and a lot of open annuendo! It works for her, because she is very open..I could not try her lines even if I wanted to... I would be far too embaressed! Yet I can flirt, but I am more subtle... I can be flirty only with the man that I like... I can tease, and still be quite innocent in my approach! There are no rules and your way of flirting might not be suitable to everyone (mine is not!), but it is you! The one that will understand it and fall for it is probably the one you are more compatible with!

Priapeo 46M

9/26/2005 3:14 am

quote Straightten: if hes a hottie who cant read body language it should be obvious, semi-aggressive and direct

I fear I am not good at reading, but experience tells me that I can write it pretty well.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

rm_ballsout7 43M

9/28/2005 8:33 am

to your answer of flirting everybody above is right! to me i like a womans flirting to be subtle because it makes me feel at ease with them, rather been direct and wanting to dive straight into you pants.

pauls337 50M
11 posts
9/30/2005 5:58 pm

Well SSL I read this and thought I could contribute something that could be right up your alley ( now that was obvious flirting ). Only about 5 - 10% of communication is verbal, the rest is body language and tone etc.... so its not so much about what you say but how you say it. flirting is about sexual attraction but for me being sexy is about attitude rather than looks. I also believe the net doesnt help cos you dont interact the same, its not spontaneouse and there is no body language to read. every body reacts in different ways to flirting and it is how you read the reaction that determines how good at it you are. Attitude, practice and reading response is the key to it all. And I should know I am single !!! Ignore everything I said it must be bollocks !!

barabond 42M
13 posts
10/3/2005 8:51 am

so any chance of been flirted with then hehehehee

rm_Aorman 66M
3 posts
10/8/2005 5:49 am

I'm slow at reading that sort of thing. It takes me ages to realise whats going on. Although I am observant, sometimes I can't see past my own nose. So for me it would have to be direct, hit me in the face kind of thing.

provost1957 63M

10/22/2005 9:42 am

Hello SSL,everyone so far has contributed worthy comments.Mainly it seems to prove that there isnt a single formula to follow.And also i would endorse the view that one flirt understood by one man is totally missed by another.So the thought that you "arent a good flirt" may not be as accurate as it may seem.So that should make you feel better,lol.The non-verbal flirt is also the hardest to figure for us guys.I was out myself recently and i seemed to me that the female pal was holding 'eye contact' longer than normal and watching me more than the others we were with.Now was that a 'flirt' or my misread?See what i mean...down to the perceptiveness of the recipient.

fannyfiller2005 31M
6 posts
10/27/2005 5:40 am

HEY sexysluttylady im a new comer n i also have some problems with flirting!! I thought maybe if we flirted wed get some much needed practice n u never kno where i could lead! Id like to start by saying ur pic is hot and I wouldnt mind seeing that top on a heap in my room!!

rm_luggage2005 46M
1 post
11/15/2005 12:50 pm

Depends on your mood, the situation, the person.
If ur being told ur not good at flirting - it just means the chemistry isn't there with those ur flirting with. I'm as shy as they come - but can flirt like the bes tof em with the right person

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