ex's...........  

SexyTLC13 49F
34 posts
10/12/2005 7:06 am

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ex's...........

I come home this morning after doing the Mommy thing and taking the kids to school, and pull up in the driveway to find my ex, their father standing there as if he's waiting for me. I look at him, and know that I feel absolutely nothing for this man whatsoever! But I don't feel bitter. He starts to raise his voice and get that angry look in his eyes.... I go to turn the key in the door, and he reaches over with his arm, and motions his body as to follow me in. I start to scream.... All the physical abuse I took for years came to mind.... My heart was pounding. I looked him straight in the eye and said get the hell away from here. I ran in the house, and locked the door, and just started to cry.
How could this man actually think I would want him back? I've come too far without him. I work hard and take care of my kids on my own. In our home their is peace! We need that, especially after all their little eyes have seen.
Sometimes life gets hard, but my kids are my everything!
He must be crazy to think that I would want to go backwards.... I'm stronger today then ever before. Letting go is easy; theres nothing left for me to hold onto.


9Simon9 66M
292 posts
10/13/2005 6:40 am

Congrats on having the courage to get out of an abusive relationship. As you are aware, there are many women who are stuck in crappy relationships and won't get out, either because of fear or lack of strength or both. Does the Albany area have a women's shelter which offers services to women trying to cope with abusive husbands/so's?
Best wishes for a better life without your ex.
Take care.


SexyTLC13 49F

10/13/2005 11:09 pm

Thank you very much.
I've been in a shelter before, but actually all that is so unnecassary. He's the one with the issues not me.
Seems there are alot of men out there on control kicks not just my ex.
If a man can't be humble too a woman once in awhile then he'll find himself alone....... Many men don't know how to appreciate a good thing when they have it in their hands.


9Simon9 66M
292 posts
10/15/2005 5:33 am

Yes, too many men have control issues and are willing to get physical if things don't go their way; that's why shelters do serve an important purpose for those women and children needing protection from these bullies.
I also agree that many Americans don't appreciate what they already have, but, instead, are always seeking more. It may be a society thing.
I'm sure you'll find a man who can appreciate everything you have to offer.
Take care.


JoLeeS 40F

10/18/2005 2:34 pm

Hi ya Sexy.... Thank you for the post... Diesel is hot... About this post... I understand exactly what you are talking about! My ex actually asked if we could ust have sex whenever... I was like no way.. Piss off.... I mean hello... Not only did he treat me horribly, but he cheated on me(with my ex best friend of 19 years)to boot.... I love sex as much as the next person.... But it's not worth the heart ache again..... I am doing much better now that he is outta the picture... Good luck to you! Keep in touch.
Jo


SexyTLC13 49F

10/18/2005 6:26 pm

Girl I know exactly what you mean on this one....
He ended up getting his own crib, and actaully though I'd be stopping over to have sex with him. He's out of his mind.
He;s tried everything he can to keep me from money to even going buying me a house, but hell no I still won't give him none, and he is the lasy man I would ever be with!
As I told him money won;t keep me, and sex won't either. That a girl can get anywhere. I sure don't see too many women lined up to get with him either. You don't pick your ass as your fuck buddy, that's for Dam Sure!


SexyTLC13 49F

10/18/2005 6:29 pm

Girl I know exactly what you mean on this one....
He ended up getting his own crib, and actaully though I'd be stopping over to have sex with him. He's out of his mind.
He's tried everything he can to keep me from money to rings, to even going buying me a house, but hell no I still won't give him none, and he is the last man I would ever be with!
As I told him money won't keep me, and sex won't either. That a girl can get anywhere. I sure don't see too many women lined up to get with him either. You don't pick your ex as your fuck buddy, that's for Dam Sure!


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