Totally friggin aggrivated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  

SexyT12078 48F
138 posts
5/6/2006 7:11 pm

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6/8/2006 5:41 am

Totally friggin aggrivated!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The nerve of this man who once claimed to Love me, and his children...
About a half hour ago my phone rang. I didn't bother to look at the caller ID as I normally do. I picked it up and it was my ex's voice asking if I will accept his call from jail.
The only way he could get the number is through his sister, who I spoke to a few days ago. She said she missed the kids and wanted to see them. but then accidently told me that their father wants to speak to them from jail. I told her that his daddy days were over, and that if he did speak to them I would violate the order of protection I have against himn and he'll sit there longer. She called me a Bitch and told me to grow up! Guess what, I did grow up!
Anyway, I didn't accept his call.When we split up I didn't have a dime. My kids were hungry and I struggled like hell! I asked for his help and he told me to sell my ass. I was told he was out in the bars buying rounds for everyone while his kids were hungry. He was nothing but a dead beat, refusing to help or pay support.
My kids call him a loser and want nothing to do with him. So who the hell is he to think he can bounce back into their lives especially from a jail cell?!
I'm the one who wipes their tears and heals their hurts. I am Mommy and Daddy all rolled into one. I am strong, and will protect them from harm even it is from their own poor excuse of a father.
As Tupac said in his song. I will keep my head up and be strong.
Any man can pump a baby into a woman, but it takes a Real Man to be a father!

9Simon9 66M
292 posts
5/7/2006 7:53 am

Hope you're feeling better after venting your frustrations.

I have a friend who experienced the same situation. Many years ago, her ex abandoned her and the kids, leaving them with squat. Now, he'd like to again be a part of their lives; but, get this (I can't believe this guy's arrogance), he'd rather have them maintain contact with him, than vice-versa.

What ever happened with that relationship to the married man? I was going to suggest you continue to see him on an "as needed basis" (in order to fulfill your physical needs) until Mr. Right comes (no pun intended) along.

Good luck.

SexyT12078 48F

5/7/2006 10:32 am

My married friend and I are still friends, but I haven't been sleeping with him. As far as a as needed basis, I can reach in my drawer and pull out my toys. lol I know it's not the same, but it caused too many problems having sex with him. Guess being a passionate soul as I am, it makes it difficult to just get a booty call.

rm_abutoo2 44M
1078 posts
5/12/2006 5:23 pm

your situation sucks ass. Even a good divorce sucks ass. All I know is that eventually we are called to account for our actions. Either a reward or a punishment will come. This I believe as a truth. Good luck to you and may you stay strong, continuing as best you see to do right by yourself and your children.

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