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many people become VERY uncomfortable when
attempting to maintain good eye contact, and it
deteriorates into something that either looks like
a prolonged gaze, a deceitful aversion... and at its
worst ... a psychotic stare!
Eye contact can be made a whole lot easier with
one critical tip ‒ LOOK AT THE PERSON'S WHOLE FACE!
To prolong your comfort with eye contact, scan
the person's whole face above the tip of the nose!
When the direct eye to eye contact becomes
uncomfortable for you (or when you sense it is
becoming uncomfortable for your partner), allow
yourself to scan the bridge of their nose, their
cheek bones, their foreheads, their hair (above
the nose tip).
Have fun with this and enjoy the person's face
as you might enjoy exploring a piece of art. On
a person's face is often written the story of their
life ‒ take the time to read that story. (Just don't
mention anything about it verbally or you will
seem totally and completely weird!).
The reason this works so well is that it can
give you the necessary ‘break time' from direct
eye to eye contact, but it turns out that if you
stay above the tip of the nose and don't dart
about too quickly, the person you are looking
at will actually PERCEIVE you to be continually
giving them non-threatening, prolonged eye
Be careful not to move below the nose however,
as lingering on the mouth begins to directly
signal mating interest. (Unless this is your
intention, of course).
4/25/2006 10:29 pm
What a great post...and timely!!|
My most recent post dealt with the eyes and the bloggers they belong to, check it out if you like.