Should I or Should I Not????  

SexySquirterGirl 50F
391 posts
2/16/2006 1:46 am

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4/28/2006 10:57 pm

Should I or Should I Not????

I log on tonight to check my mail and find one from a guy I met on here quite some time ago. Close to 2 years ago. When we hooked the first time, it was great sex, but always about quickies. We saw each other for a few months 3-4 times a months. Always started with a late night call or IM if I was on the computer. I always went to his house. The sex was good, but after a while I got tired of it only being about the quickie. I like cuddling as well, and will admit it isnt something I get a lot of. I also like LOTS of sex, slow, fast, hard, sensual, start with a quick hard, pounding, then rest a bit only to play some more and more. But with this guy I was never around longer than a half hour. So I eventually stopped communicating with him, until 6-8 months later, when he IM'ed me again and I deceided to go see him again, and it was pretty much the same thing, meet me at the door, making out the second we see each other, fumbling with clothes, ending up in the bed, a good satsifying romp and then clothes back on and being walked to the door. Well for whatever reason I wanted more. I wanted to stay longer, have more fun, but the few times we got together after that it was only more of the same so I stopped talking to him. Now its been another 6 months or more, and he sends me an email and the first thing he starts off with is he has more time to spend with me, and we always had a good time, and would I call him. Part of me wants too, but part of me says it will just be more of the same, and for whatever reason, I am not sure I just want to be used for the fuck, although I have nothing against quickies. I think I just want to see him put more effort into it, let me stay a few hours, heck spend the night even. We do have awesome sex together but it's rare when I have horrible sex with anyone. I know my body and what I like. I dont believe in awhole lotta hoopla prior to getting laid, but something in me is hestitant to be his personal booty call again.. I'm confused, and don't even know why! What do you think? Hugs SSG


__Huntress__ 55M/58F

2/16/2006 4:24 am

This is what I think ... in the end ... it is completely up to you whether or not it will be the same old thing all over again ... if you're not getting out of it what you want ... why bother ?

One of the best things about being here, as a woman, is that you don't have to settle for someone else's same old thing ... having a "booty call" friend should be about mutual pleasuring ... if you're not getting this from him ... move on ...

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SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
2/16/2006 4:57 am

Thanks Huntress and I agree with you... Okay the sex is good, but that's it and I can get that and more somewhere else, so why waste my time with something that is only settling when I want more. I dont need to settle. Thanks sweetie, you help me see it the way I needed too. SSG


zachaz72 29M

2/16/2006 7:43 pm

SSG i say u forget about that guy and get together with me, i love to just lay in bed with a beautiful woman in my arms.


__Huntress__ 55M/58F

2/17/2006 3:02 am

I'm glad I didn't offend you ... I go through this with my girlfriends all the time ... I spent twenty years in a marriage that was virtually sexless ... we don't have a whole lotta time here ... and I don't want to waste mine on someone else's selfishness ... it doesn't matter how hot he is or how much you're attracted to him ... if he's selfish in bed ... I want no parts of him ... go for the creme de la creme, sweetie ... when you're seventy years old pondering the wonders of your youth ... his mediocre sex should not be the highlight of your memories!

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__Huntress__ 55M/58F

2/17/2006 3:06 am

I just saw your profile pics, fellow Pisces girl ... are you crazy? Kick him to the curb !

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rm_1Dick4You 53M
34 posts
2/18/2006 9:09 pm

Sexy... You knew the answer without having to post the question. We're here to agree with you. You know it "might" start out being a little longer, but eventually he'll call when HE wants some action and be back to the wham-bam, thank-you ma'am routine again. Find a guy who'll appreciate you for all that you are and enjoys your company and doesn't want you to leave! They're out there!


SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
2/19/2006 12:25 am

1dick~Big Kiss to you!!! You know I did blow him off, cause I am waiting for better, and I must say your ass is looking mighty damn HOT!!! Hey the weather here right now is beautiful, 70's for a high, upper 50's for a low.. I think it would be a perfect time for you to catch a plane west!!! Missing you like crazy! T


Stripper4Sale 39M

4/28/2006 1:31 am

So what about some intangible fun.


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