Feeling the "older woman" blues......  

SexySquirterGirl 50F
391 posts
2/17/2006 11:04 pm

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Feeling the "older woman" blues......

Age, why in the world am I so hung up on mine? In a little over 2 weeks I will be hitting a big 40. The thought of this depresses me, and I keep thinking of it like some sort of time bomb about to go off, and I will instantly wake up and be SOOOOOOOOO much older. I don't feel old, I don't look old, and I definately don't act old. But just knowing I am about to turn 40, I feel like I am turning into an old maid. I have dreaded age 40 since I turned 30. And 30 wasnt all that easy either. I keep thinking of my parents and when they were in their 40's and I know I am nothing like them. Not sure if this is good or bad! I think my biggest hang up is the fact that I will be 40 and still single, being single is bad enough but being old and single, that is downright scary. I know I just have this huge hang up in my head, and that 40 is going to be no different than 39. But that still doesnt make me feel any better. I should be thankful I look so much younger, and feel younger. I have never lied about my age, but now I can see why some people do... Okay enough of this already, not trying to bore you to tears, but I am curious if any of you out there, had a birthday (of whatever age) that seemed hard to accept???? And for the record, just because I am turning 40 that doesnt mean I am going to turn into an old lady. I am still gonna chase the younger men around and be silly and not act my age, because I really don't know how to act 40!!! *Sighs* I need to think about something else!!!! Have a good night!!! SSG

timberwolf6972 44M

2/18/2006 2:15 am

40 isn't old sweetie but I realize that women look at age differently than men do. I would pick an older woman for a lover before I would pick a younger one cause they are easier to talk to and they know how to enjoy sex better than the younger ones do. Don't sweat it just try to enjoy your life. I wish you luck in your search. {=}

SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
2/18/2006 3:29 am

Thank you Timberwolf~~I must agree that the older I got, the more confident I felt in the bedroom. Sex is so much better, and I am alot more in control than I was before. I know my body better than ever, and am not afraid to use it to achieve sexual satsifaction. I do enjoy life, very much so, and I will always be young at heart.. Thanks for note!!! Hugs SSG

rm_Datagg 49M

2/18/2006 3:49 am

Im almost there too. Yet it’s a mind issue. You’re as old as you feel in my book. I’ve never looked my age so im thankful for that, yet when the big 40 gets here ill try not to be too depressed. As with you sweetheart, it’s only what you feel inside and how you perceive yourself. You appear to be a real sweetheart and young in heart. Ill make ya a deal, I won’t stress on it if you don’t.

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

2/18/2006 4:43 am

SSG - Next week I will be turning 47. The best years of my life have been spent in these last seven years. This is the time that a woman comes into full season. Grab hold of this and suck every bit of life out of it that you can !


SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
2/18/2006 5:30 am

Data! You've got a deal.. You dont look your age at all, your quite a cutie!!

Huntress~Thank you sweetie, I needed to hear that!!! I plan on living it best as I can... and trust me I will certainly suck every last bit of it out.. (I love to suck, lol)!!! Thanks for cheering up!! Hugs SSG

ordnry_avg_guy 47M
2 posts
2/18/2006 9:31 am

Judging by the pictures you have here, you seem to have one of those enviable looks of indeterminate age so you certainly don’t have to worry about looking 40, much less old. I think if you were to poll people to guess your age, you’d find that most people would be guessing closer to 30 (but maybe that’s just me.) Maybe you’re approaching the upcoming day in the wrong way. How about making it into an epic celebration? How about writing a blog entry on your ultimate 40th birthday fantasy (besides winning that gazillion dollar Powerball lottery they’re having here in Arizona?) I’m sure you’ll get deluged by guys volunteering to help make that fantasy come true. Anyway, hope the day goes well for you.

P.S. Sorry no pic. I’m a brand new member and am still setting up my profile.

DesertWolfie 45M

2/18/2006 1:53 pm

Yeah SSG, don't sweat it. It's only a number. Just live & enjoy life as you have been & who cares what age you are. Besides, ever since I was in my 20's I always thought older women were the sexiest women out there - and I still do. Now get out there & have fun, just let me be a part of it .

borerze 51M
5 posts
2/18/2006 4:33 pm

hi I just turned 40 and I still fell 20ish and I just seen that 40 today is only 30and I'm sure you will find some one just as I feel the same hope and faith ,is whats keeps me going

rm_1Dick4You 53M
34 posts
2/18/2006 8:48 pm

Hi Sexy!
Yeah... I "stressed" when 40 approached, but guess what? It came, and it went and nothing changed!
You're sexy now, you'll be sexy when you're 40, and you'll be sexy when you are old!

And for what it is worth, it is better to be single and have some fun, than to be partnered up with someone who isn't much fun.


borerze 51M
5 posts
2/18/2006 8:58 pm

must say It is allways go to see you are on must say it put a on my face, ok maybe my tounge hangs out but I swear 40 will look good on you and and any one lucky enough to have you on thier arm (or any where on them you are > ) will have a smile on teir face fromm ear to ear, so don't worry you are like a fine wine getting only better with age.you are also reaching your sexual prime, I no you will get that valenteine next year ,and I like to ask now, will you be mine

SexySquirterGirl 50F
102 posts
2/19/2006 12:42 am

1dick~ Your the BEST!!! I havent talk to you in a while now, but you always know how to cheer me up and say just the right things!! We need to catch up! Smooches and tight hugs, T

tillerbabe 55F

2/19/2006 1:21 am

I just turned 45 on Feb 15th! I love getting older and I have never "tripped" about my birthday. You are beautiful and you shouldn't either. Age is a state of mind.. you are just psyching yourself out! Go look in the mirror and be happy that you look 10 years younger! LOL! Be proud of your age hon. Flaunt it even! {=}

MrNuttz05 49M

2/19/2006 4:38 am

To be 40 is an HONOR... I am 38(or at least I think I am!) & I can't wait for the day... Like 'TILLERBABE' stated, be proud about it. You seem to have it all together mentally & I am sure that you are pleasant to the eyes So, dread no more! Hold that head up & shake what ya' momma gave ya'.....

digdug41 49M

2/19/2006 10:32 am

hey sexy its just the beginning so dont sweat that I have missed this blog now I gotcha on my watchlist so I wont anymore your not getting older your getting better thats how ya gotta look at it and plus older women love sex or so I hear and if you like younger guys would that count guys 2 years younger?hehee I'll be seeinya around

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2/21/2006 3:39 pm

It's funny how people trip about age.If you can "still" enjoy the job and are still "Good" at it then what is the problem.I never had sex with age it was with someone who is secure with themselves.I am 52 and i could care less about age ,cause im interested in action If you fell old then you act old and i'm not ready to sit and read the paper and play lawn ball sorry not me.So in conclusion go out and do your "thang" and like a good actor ...leave em wanting more.....!!!

funkentjay1 55M

3/28/2006 5:21 am

Honey you are sexy now and will always be. You have a heart of gold and are the sexiest lady i have senn. Good luck in your search. I can see how marvelous you are. Wow what a ladyyy @};- roses and kisses and huggggggs Keep smiling and stay sexy Kent

rm_vikingshaman 67M

4/2/2006 3:11 pm

Age is a number. But as I am 56 I feel better than I did at 40 because I work at it hard. I also get satisfaction from looking at my younger competition.
If you but into it, your body will begin to decay and go to seed. The body obeys the mind.

Ragin1976 40M
2 posts
4/14/2006 5:53 pm

Age is nothing but a number whats more important is how you look and feel about your self. Don't forget with age comes experience and may be teach me a thing or two.

Stripper4Sale 39M

4/28/2006 1:29 am

So what about some intangible fun.

horny196364 52M

3/15/2008 2:54 pm

love your beautiful body

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