Men: How To Tell If A Woman Is Into You  

SexyRycheBabe 45F
1292 posts
12/8/2005 1:55 pm

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Men: How To Tell If A Woman Is Into You

First of all, I'm wondering if I'm allowed to have multiple blog-posts in one day? Having said that, I don't really care.

Here's what came across my radar today in MSN little "more noteworthy info than others" square.

It was an article titled: "Guys: How to tell if she's into you." Maybe I'm paraphrasing but it was pretty close.

Do you know how many things they had listed?! Care to guess? Seriously. Pick a number!! And I'll get back to this in a minute.

I'm a woman. We, as women, are bombarded with TONS of books, articles, messages, short stories, paragraphs, and words that tell us how to relate to men. How to get them. How to keep them. What to do. What not to do. The don't-even-THINK-about it. What to wear. What to say. How to act. How to flirt. When to have sex. HOW to have sex.


So I'm expecting a BIG number for guys, too, right?


There were FOUR (4) listed on the male version of this list. Stupid shit, too, like:

1. How she dresses for you tells you if she's into you or not. If she dresses up, it means she's into you. If not, then no. Oh, but, be on the look out for the women who seems TOO WELL put together. She's letting you know that you won't ever measure up to her. (HUH?!)

2. She'll lick her lips if she's into you. (Another stunner to me because I lick or don't lick because of NUMBER of reasons that usually don't have anything to do with who I'm with.)

3. She'll flip her hair. (OK!!) Oh, and get this, if she flips her hair with her wrist EXPOSED it means she's really diggin' ya. (Now, I have long hair and I tried this supposed flip with exposed wrist thing and maybe I'm physically inept in some way but I can't manage to do it. Sorry guys I guess I can't do that to let you know whether or not I'm into you!!)

4. She'll point her FEET towards you. (I don't even know what to say in response to this.)

After all of the information that we women are fed, this is all men get?! I think they're being short-changed, quite frankly. Why do we need the info more than they do?! But, mostly, I'm wondering why men and women just can't be straight with each other?

Yes, I'm into you. No, I'm not into you.
I just want to fuck you.
You seem nice but I don't do nice.
I like you.
You want more from me than I'm willing to give you.
I love you.
I hate you.

whatever!! Why does it have to be so full of RULES?!

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
12/8/2005 4:30 pm

You really are getting into this new approach aren't you, its working well too. I think you can make as many posts as you so choose, I've seen some people make 17 posts in one day, while I can only make 19 posts in the space of two weeks, go figure.
As for the rules of men and women, I think its a whole heap of crap designed to sell books but means little at the end of the day. They overlook the fact that everyone is an individual. But that siad it made me think of a song by The Streets, a british rapper, he's really quite clever he picks up on things that most of us see but don't realise we are seeing it at the time. Personally I think hes more a poet than a rapper.

Cuz her last relationship f**ked her up.
Got hurt majorly, finds it tough to trust.
Looked at the ashtray, then looked back up,
Spinnin it away on the tabletop.
She looked much fitter than saturday just.
She worked in JD's with dan.
Back then I figured she was pretty damn rough,
But she was only wearin her work stuff.
And in these clothes she looked more than buff,
She stirred her straw, sat up to adjust.
I told her I thought it was important,
That you could get lost in conversation.
Chattin shit, sittin in, oblivion
With that person who's your special one.
She said she was the worst pool player under the sun,
But blokes go easy so she always won.

I saw this thing on ITV the other week,
Said, that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen
She's playin with her hair, well regularly,
So i reckon i could well be in.

She didn't look too bored with what I was sayin.
Her hair looked much better than the other day.
She had her fingers 'round her hair, playin'.
I Saw on the telly that's a good indication.
Stood up to buy the next drink though, "Nay."
Suppose that's just our girl's way.
Im tryin to think what else I could say,
Peelin' the label off, spinnin the ashtray.
Yeah actually, yes, she did look pretty neat.
Her perfume smelled expensive and sweet.
I felt like my hair looked a bit cheap,
Wished I'd had it cut back last week.
She kept givin me this look, cuz she would speak.
Was she only friendly, or was she a keep?
Asked her if she wanted the same again to drink.
Started to turn and get up out my seat.

I saw this thing on ITV the other week,
Said, that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen
She's playin with her hair, well regularly,
So i reckon i could well be in.

She said that her close mates all were
Always the most important thing to her.
I said I thought it was a bit more blurred.
She asked what I meant by that as she stirred.
I told her about the money and what had occurred
With it goin missing from the living room, so.
With my best mates all there standin by,
Right where I left it, under their eyes.
So surely one of them might have spied
What happened to my money at that time.
I felt like they were all smilin on the side.
She was like "fair play" she couldn't say why.
She didn't know what all my mates were like.
And I said she just might be right.
Wish I had someone I could always rely,
Someone to get lost chattin to all night.

I saw this thing on ITV the other week,
Said, that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen
She's playin with her hair, well regularly,
So i reckon i could well be in.

As I walked back with more drinks to our place,
She had her phone stuck to the side of her face.
I sat for a minute while she chatted away
'bout somethin with her mom and her birthday.
Played for a bit with the same ashtray,
Thought about things while i sat and waited.
It was nice to chat about the shit in my head,
Someone who just listens to you instead.
I looked at the barman, wiping down again,
Looked at the football on the tv set,
Tryin to look like i weren't just waitin there
For her conversation to come to an end.
I look at my watch and realized right then
That, for three hours, been in conversation.
Before she put her phone down, she switched to silent,
And we carried on chattin for more than that again.

I saw this thing on ITV the other week,
Said, that if she played with her hair, she's probably keen
She's playin with her hair, well regularly,
So i reckon i could well be in.

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/8/2005 7:50 pm

Hey Mr. Eyes (that's my name for you)... LOL ... I like that since your pic is all about the eyes and all.

I liked the line about getting lost in a conversation. It is important.

rm_sluggo992 52M
48 posts
12/8/2005 9:40 pm

How are they supposed to sell magazines at the checkout stand without brainwashing women into believing that crap? )

im_your_man77 39M
961 posts
12/9/2005 1:08 pm

I like Mr Eyes, gotta be better than dickhead.

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/9/2005 3:54 pm

I wouldn't call you a dickhead. LOL I don't know you well enough.

What I REALLY want to know is whether or not you downloaded anything by Queensryche or not. That's the important thing.

Plus, I find myself wondering why you don't just email me directly instead of posting on this? I have a gmail account. Same screen name as this.

Oh yeah, he DID read it and he is very intriqued but I think he would rather me be VERBAL than written. However, he is proving to be very good at giving me a swift kick in the ass when I need it. LOL (I'll let him figure out that I might need them fairly often.)

No hot plans for the weekend, tho.

docdirk 47M

12/9/2005 9:08 pm

"She'll point her feet at you???" That reminds me of those old tests in school that required a four-part answer, but you only had three memorized.

I wouldn't know if a woman was "into me" unless she knocked me to the ground and spray-painted it on my eyelids!

PS - Operation Mindcrime is my FAVE album of ever. Just saw QR with Judas Priest this past summer. Loud & Proud!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/9/2005 9:17 pm

I saw them too here in San Antonio. I wasn't even living here at the time. It wasn't the best show of theirs I've ever seen. They opened, after all. Have you seen this most recent tour where they did all of Mincrime with actors and everything. OMG, they told us who KILLED Mary!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (It wasn't what I thought either! ) I was a little pissed about that. I'm wondering how Mindcrime II will play out. Can't hardly wait for that.

As for the feet pointing thing ... I think its silly. I'm no scientist, of course, so my theory might is not based on any experiment but, still, FEET POINTING?! I hate feet so I don't pay that much attention to them.

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