A Note to AFF  

SexyRycheBabe 45F
1292 posts
12/14/2005 11:11 am

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A Note to AFF

Why can't we pick our own mood? Why must our moods be defined by someone else's adjectives?

Today I feel playful. It's not on the list.

Some days I feel slutty. It's not on the list.

Some days I feel a number of things that aren't listed so I have to pick the closest feeling.

Maybe some days I am playful AND slutty. Why can't I be both things? Why must I only be one?


rm_captcha3 43F
35 posts
12/14/2005 11:31 am

i hear you im never one way im always acouple of things at once like right now im sick and horney

rm_Bct2Esi 51M/50F
1375 posts
12/14/2005 11:50 am

I believe its their way of letting us know that some of us pay for their service to tell us what sort of mood we should be in.

Its no different then them telling us what we can and cannot say. Think about it, your profile and all of your posts are "previewed and approved" through them before they go out? Then they let some post advertisements, photos by professional photographers and others cannot? So we have again given them the idea that its ok for them to tell us how we feel...ughhhhh

Just like once a month or so they decide to do "updates" which screws this entire system up and its out of whack, becuase they feel the need to drive us all crazy to see how many more will give them money, take their money and go back to standard, or continue giving them their monthly payment. They always feel the need to fix what they see as broken the minute we think its just fine.

I am glad that I only have a standard membership, and my husband's is silver. They are not going to get anymore money for telling me what I can and cannot say or how I am suppose to feel. After all they didn't wake up with me, sleep with me, or live with me. How can the tell me how I feel?

Good luck on trying to get them to change this. Maybe in 07 they will, when the finally find an "I.T." person that truly knows what they are doing when it comes to things like this.

Have a great day and thanks for giving me the chance to vent

smiles and hug

rm_sluggo992 52M
48 posts
12/14/2005 12:05 pm

Because everyone must be in a "box". And you can only be in one box at a time. So says society at large. The good thing is that anyone who reads this doesn't go with that flow anyway! You are not alone! Continue to feel how you feel and speak of it as loudly and often as you please!

keithcancook 60M
17856 posts
12/14/2005 3:38 pm

Why? I dunno.

I do know that the world is not a perfect place.


SexyRycheBabe 45F
820 posts
12/14/2005 8:18 pm

I think what I'm going to do is start dreaming up my own "mood" when a "boxed in" one doesn't cut it.

fridayyyyyy 48M

4/18/2006 2:33 am

b whatever u want 2 b baby... we supporting u

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