Things I've learned so far  

SexyPortland 50F
8 posts
6/13/2005 7:01 am

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Things I've learned so far

There are tons of guys on AdultFriendFinder. Tons. I've learned you can basically put a guy into one of two catagories.

Catagory 1 - This guy wants a nasty woman. He doesn't care about her, what she likes, what she doesn't like. He wants oral sex, and anal sex, because it's nasty and impersonal and he'll call you a bitch or a slut and that gets him off. He has almost none of his profile completed.
He's usually single.

Catagory 2 - This guy wants a nice woman. He appreciates the nuances of her, her scent, ths softness of her skin. He likes the mating dance, the pull of attraction and the energy that creates. He wants to caress your skin, feel the warmth of your body envelope him. He'll treat you nice, and come back for more. He's got a lot of his profile completed.
He's usually married.

I'm desperately trying to find a single Cat2 guy. I don't know if they are out there. I'm getting jaded and mean and I don't like the feeling. I'm being honest about who I am, what I'm looking for. How can I create a friendship with guys from Cat1? There's almost no way I can. I love getting nasty with a guy, I've got no problems with that. But you have to establish a feeling of trust first. OK, really it's I have to establish a feeling of trust. Maybe there are girls out here who don't. I hope they are finding the Cat1 guys to their liking!

AmberSolaire 42M

6/13/2005 9:23 am

Dont tar evereyone with the same brush, doing sogets you nowhere.Instead go out and look for catagories four, five and six.Then report back.

In the meantime use these pages to let people get to know you.Who knows your man might come to you.

SexyPortland 50F

6/13/2005 5:09 pm

(sigh) Thanks for the input. I was pretty pee-od when I wrote that, and I did use a lot of qualifiers like "basically" and "most" LOL. I know there are more catagories... they are the grey zones between my black and white catagories. Today I felt a little better about things and my hope is on the mend. Can't wait to see what tomorrow brings.

Fallic40 53M
1858 posts
6/29/2005 7:55 pm

...........cheer up, there are single category 2 guys around. For whatever reason, we just never hear from anyone we write too. AdultFriendFinder just doesn't seem to be about "nice guys".

rm_findmyspot 53M
3 posts
7/26/2005 5:52 pm

I think I am both cat1 & 2 but I am not married

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