Where Has Romance Gone to...  

SexyLady20075 51F
113 posts
1/16/2006 1:17 pm

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Where Has Romance Gone to...

Well, hello AdultFriendFinder people how has it been.. Fine I hope, well It's that time again for me bored...really bored, but u know while I was being bored I tend to do alot of thinking, and one thought that came to my mind was, What has happen to the romance in relationships, I mean where has it gone too, nothing is the same anymore..Has it became non-existing. Oh, and this is not just sent out to the guys this is for the ladies as well..

What has happen to the sending of flowers just because, and a card just because, no reason just because. And the nice time of holding each other and touching each other caressing, desireing, each other not just to have sex , but just to be so into each other..that the feel was just so natural that you became as one...

I mean , I can remember when a guy would call you, and the both of you would talk on the phone for hours and then you would be like really tired both of you are sleepy and then fall asleep on the phone..and then wake up next morning...lol..Yeah..remember that..Also when you went out to have fun just to have fun and I am not talking about just to the movies or anything I mean like going to the lake or beach and just enjoy each others company, and talked about everything and anything and sometimes it did not make any sense but hey the two of you where together..

But then again like I said when I get bored alot of things come to my mind...I guess one day it will come back...

bigrich1962 54M
5 posts
1/17/2006 10:30 am

I do agree with you SexyLady. Courting and romance has left the building.... I love to talk on the phone into the wee mornings and falling asleep, then waking up hearing the other person breathing hard or in some cases...snoring loudly...LOL.
Sending my lady a card or flowers. Inviting her over for a lite dinner, but have a trail of rose pedals sprinkled leading to the bathroom. I remember all of that, but now everyone is in a hurry.....Foreplay is now (forpla) because we are more interested in getting busy with the intensed sex........ That was the day.....

choclitlover72 44M  
89 posts
1/17/2006 6:17 pm

I feel ya too, seems as we get older and busier and busier with career, kids, and other responsibilities in life the time for romance or the time spent thinking about romance gets shorter and shorter. I remember doing all those things with the girl in my life at the time and I do think of doing things like that today, but just seems like we have no time to really do it.

magicman4fun2 57M
4 posts
1/18/2006 8:02 am

Romance is about patience, about maturity, about taking to time to really know and understand somebody, and most of all showing appreciation for that person. However, we live in age where "Hit It And Quit It" and "Tap Dat Azz" are prevailing themes in music, movies, television. You get caught up in that hype then there simply is not room or reason for romance.

That to me is kinda sad because it doesn't have to be that way. Of course it all starts at the central question "What's you motivation for being with another person?". If you really want somebody that you care about and appreciate than taking the time, effort and attention for a little romance is well worth the effort.

Personally I think one of the great joys in life is having somebody you care about and cherish enough to take the effort and show them how special they are to you.

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