Not Sticking to the Plan  

SexyLady20075 51F
113 posts
3/7/2006 11:37 pm

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7/29/2007 9:56 pm

Not Sticking to the Plan

Well, hello, hope everyone one is fine...and that each and everyone one of you are keeping your hands and mouths off each other...(smile),

Well Monday, March 6th I turned 41 years of age..whoopie...and now a year older then I was Sunday.

Well, I have a confession to make, I said that I was not going to meet anyone else off of AdultFriendFinder,

Well, unfortunately that plan fell Thur..I meet someone, Yeah I know against my better judgment, but Hey I did..

I know, you are saying what is the problem, well the problem is that, damn, I cannot believe I am about to type this, but here goes, after all no one reads my blogs anyway...

Well the thing is that the person that I meet we have been chatting for couple of weeks or more over lets say a month, and the conversation was good.. I mean Really Good..

Well I found a connection with the person and hoping that he did too, which later found out that he did..Except I think in a different way.

To make a long story short, we meet and well we...) had a very long conversation, it was nice..even though he was not feeling good...
but it was nice...

Least to say I think I fell for him, I know, Again against my better judgment, I did, So now I am always thinking about him and really finding myself missing him..

Which the problem is, Is that I do not want to feel this way about him, So my question to you: "Should I just take what we did and call it a good time? or should I act on my feelings and really let him know how I feel?"...

Now I know my blog is not really making any sense but its all kinda mixed up but there..and so when I am typing it comes out as for as how I am feeling, so if you can understand somewhat I am thinking, then let me know...by commenting on what I asked..

I would really like to know your opinion, I know that no one can really help me because it is based on how I truly feel but I would like to know if it was you how would you handle it.

Well, until then...have a nice morning...


choclitlover72 44M  
89 posts
3/8/2006 12:09 am

Congrats on making a connection with someone on here, its not impossible, but its hard sometimes. I would say depending on the context of how you met on here and what your discussions have involved I think you can get a feel for what he may be looking for. You could approach the subject in a less than obvious way. Hope it all works out for you, lucky guy in my opinion. Stay sexy!!!


rm_natebaby 63M

3/8/2006 12:13 am

That is a lucky man and you should let him know how you feel and if he feels the same way. I don't see a problem. But in case he was just out for a good time, then what the hell/ Write it off as life and move on. You will meet someone who love and repect you and then your life will be whole. If he feel's the same about you, then My Dear you are doing good and hold on to what you got.


SBMLooking4u2 48M
4 posts
3/8/2006 3:56 pm

So sorry to hear about your one and only AdultFriendFinder meeting. All I can say is this. Let me make it up to you. How does dinner at pappadeaux's sound for this Saturday? You know how to reach me.


marcusgerald 43M

3/21/2006 9:10 am

It seems you are stopping yourself and feel guilty about enjoying yourself. Just give in and enjoy because everything won't be revealed at one time with that person. The next date may not be as good or later on that person may not be what you wanted after all. Stop depriving yourself so much. You're torturing yourself. I think I said that right.


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