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rm_SexyBBW382 51F
2862 posts
1/25/2006 9:49 am

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4/7/2006 1:45 am

Why


I wonder this alot why people would join a group on AdultFriendFinder just to park their profiles and not even ever speak to anyone. I have a BBW group and so many people men and women dont participate in the group what so ever why join a group if you can't even say a simple hello? I would think most people would join a group to get to know someone. I know I started this group to help people find what they were looking for and, to help me meet the one I was looking for. You always hear people on AdultFriendFinder say they can't find anyone real well maybe if they would try to participate in groups they would find real people.............Lori

piamatter 44F

1/25/2006 10:49 am

You re so right Lori,
I have a friend that started the Shore Area Sex Assoc. (SASA) in NJ. Look it up, its not that far from you, there is an upcoming M&G Feb 18th I believe.

Pia


Koffla 60M
55110 posts
1/25/2006 1:26 pm

Lori ~ I am adding here a link to your group so if there is anyone who is really interested in becoming an active member all they have to do is click on the name and it will take them directly to your group ~ BBW's and the men that love us.

It is a mystery why people join groups and refuse to participate. I believe it has to do with fulfilling fantasies. Most people feel comfortable sitting at home chatting and watching a webcam than an actual face to face encounter. It is also why some dont post pics or use pics stolen from websites. They are actually losing out, there are great people out there who are serious about developing great friendships.

Kofla


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rm_SexyBBW382 51F
2224 posts
1/25/2006 11:43 pm

    Quoting piamatter:
    You re so right Lori,
    I have a friend that started the Shore Area Sex Assoc. (SASA) in NJ. Look it up, its not that far from you, there is an upcoming M&G Feb 18th I believe.

    Pia
Thanks Pia I just might look it up thanks again...........Lori


rm_SexyBBW382 51F
2224 posts
1/25/2006 11:47 pm

    Quoting Koffla:
    Lori ~ I am adding here a link to your group so if there is anyone who is really interested in becoming an active member all they have to do is click on the name and it will take them directly to your group ~ BBW's and the men that love us.

    It is a mystery why people join groups and refuse to participate. I believe it has to do with fulfilling fantasies. Most people feel comfortable sitting at home chatting and watching a webcam than an actual face to face encounter. It is also why some dont post pics or use pics stolen from websites. They are actually losing out, there are great people out there who are serious about developing great friendships.

    Kofla
You are right Kofla people feel more comfortable just talking and never meeting then they can be anything they want to be behind the screen and no one will ever know the real them. It's sad because they are missing out on something good...........Lori


bob24533 63M

4/7/2006 12:51 am

It's just not this group that has that problem. The same thing happens in the groups I belong to on meetup.com. People join our groups, don't post any introduction on their profile or participate on our message boards. We never hear from them again. For my group I
borrowed a rule from meetup.com.and if they are not active on the
boards or visit the site at least once in 6 months I delete them from
the group. At least then I know that the people I have in my group are real and they participate in our group activities.
Bob


rm_SexyBBW382 51F
2224 posts
4/7/2006 1:45 am

    Quoting bob24533:
    It's just not this group that has that problem. The same thing happens in the groups I belong to on meetup.com. People join our groups, don't post any introduction on their profile or participate on our message boards. We never hear from them again. For my group I
    borrowed a rule from meetup.com.and if they are not active on the
    boards or visit the site at least once in 6 months I delete them from
    the group. At least then I know that the people I have in my group are real and they participate in our group activities.
    Bob
I remove people if they can't say hello and go a few weeks not posting a comment I am just tired of the games people play if they don't want to participate then they need to join another group.............Lori


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