Thoughts about this site ...  

SexcravingBBW 46F  
256 posts
1/27/2006 10:19 pm

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6/9/2006 11:07 am

Thoughts about this site ...

I had to write. I just was looking at some profiles. It is so interesting to see what men and women write on here. First of all, seems like some women think this is a dating site. They don't post pics of cocks on a dating site. It is a sex/friend site. If you are looking for love or your soul mate.. you should look elsewhere. What is up with everyone with the same statements - I'm not changing my life, just spicing it up, and Hey There!.. what is that for? I don't get it. Be original. Just kind of seems funny. Men write - I am very eating pussy for hours.. (yeah right).. women write.. love oral.. (hmm.. do they?) This is like a dating site.. lying to make you seem better. When I wrote my profile, I just said who I am. I figure since I do plan on meeting those that I'm interested in, I might as well, tell the truth now.. why bother lying? I just don't have time for that. Too old and too damn horny to waste time. I want what I want.. I have had an email from a rather upset male reader that told me that I was a picky bitch and if I was the last pussy on earth he wouldn't fuck me because all I would do is bitch.. He felt the need to email me and tell me that. Not sure why or what I did, other than read his profile but not email or wink at him. He just wasn't my type. Nothing wrong with that.

I do notice some can't read. And yes, I do have to pick on the men because they are the ones that are doing this to me so thats all I can talk about. I get cock pics and statements like hey wanna fuck?.. To me that is stating - Look I don't have a personality, but I have a cock.. will you please fuck me? I can't offer you intelligent conversation but can try to make you cum.. or at least I can get off. Sorry to those men that can read and are wonderful. This isn't about you guys. This is about those guys that think women just get so wet when you hit us with one liners like - you have big tits, wanna fuck? - I will make you pass out from cumming so hard..And most can't spell.. a few misspelled words.. ok.. but every other one? Do you think that is what women want? Oh the ones that send me one liners every day for the last 4 days and then send me an email asking why I'm not interested in him.. He doesn't fill out his profile all the way and if he read MY profile he would see that I said.. Seduce me.. Come on guys.. you can do it.. Seduce me.. Romance.. Seduction, Flirting, Attention, Affection.. You can do it.. and yes, I want sex top .. just like to take the more erotic route to get there. What is wrong with that?

Shelly_Marie 43F

1/28/2006 12:27 am

I have seen men saying men are looking for a relationship or at least open to one. some men do seem to think this is the nearest whorehouse though....

The 'hey there' thing and repeated lines on profiles, i found out was because of this thing called 'instant profile writer' on the second page where you write your profile, not sure if it is there when you update your profile, but it is there when you first register a profile....

sensually_4ever 42M/F

1/28/2006 12:31 am



like your sounds like you know what you want.. and are not afraid to spell it Too bad most men can't seem to read..


Shelly_Marie 43F

1/28/2006 12:31 am

oops..typo...i have seen men saying they are looking for a relationship or at least open to one....

rm_lj652005 51M

1/28/2006 12:52 am

Not a damn thing. Yes it is a sex site but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't want to get together with someone and still be able to have a good time even if nothing sexual happened and then see that person again some other time.

The_Succubus 31F

1/28/2006 1:31 am

Reading your post is like reading my mind. I have had a lot of reactions on my profile, mainly from much older men than me. They find me "arrogant" because I don't want men older than 28. I mean, I am 20, still a kid basically. But to tell you the truth? Lots of people just wink you or even send mail without reading the profile. I have a lot of rules; no men older than 28, no cock pics, no one-sentenced e-mails, and no men who have used the profile generator. No one seems to respect those rules however. I get crap everyday (and lots of phonenumbers, believe it or not). But hey, good luck and keep blogging!

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
1/28/2006 2:43 am

I have seen a lot of profiles that read the exact same way. This site does provide a service where they write the profile for you. Me, I wanted to use my words, not theirs. It took me somewhere between a half hour to 45 minutes to get my profile written. The rewrite took a little less time.

When I do write someone on here, and maybe I should stop coz no one writes back, I put a lot of thought into it. I read the profile top to bottom, left to right, I factor in if I'm interested in her, coz I tend to be a little picky. I'm a rare guy on here coz my emails never read, "Wanna fuck?", and I have no dick pics at all. No nude pics, either. All G-rated. I have a rule: if you wanna see me, you gotta meet me.

Yes, I do understans the frustrations of this site.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

timberwolf6972 44M

1/28/2006 2:51 am

i like your straight up way of speaking, it reminds me of myself

zoopc42 47M

1/28/2006 4:34 am

You say this with a picture of your tits hanging out of your top. And you criticize what we say. I understand but as you know in the real world when sex is offered or even just advertised. We get into fantasy mood. Last for about as long as we can type the message. We are thinking this is the one.

You don't understand fully what we are up against.

Let me list them for you

Have to say a good opener so they notice.
Have to be every damn fantasy they have ever had.
Have to have a nine inch fire hose of a cock.
Have to have rock hard abs.
Have to be sensitive, caring nurturing
Have to like to go antiquing, shopping; saying that you don't look fat in those pants
Have to be adorable, charming, and handsome and make her girlfriends jealous instantly.
Have to be six foot four, rugged, masculine but not too much
Have to know how to color coordinate
Can’t be crude, lude, socially unacceptable.
Can’t want strings but also don't want to make you feel like a whore.
We want sex but have to be for it but when you want it we have to be in the romantic mood instantly and make every time more special in the last.
We have to be like every other guy but stand out
We have to fuck you hard and make you cum fifteen times before we do it once.
We have to enjoy eating you but you don’t want us to comment if it is seems a little unclean and not so fresh (who can keep up on that)
We have to give you all the attention but not seem like we care so we seem desirable.
We have to be the perfect romance, marrying type but with out the marriage.
We have to instantly treat you like you are the only one there has ever been and ever will be.
We cannot mention bad experiences or tell you were we learned those tricks that made you cum so much,

we have to get this all on the first message or you will not write us back, responded to us or even reply making us think you didn’t get it, weren’t interested, or even repulsed by us.

We have to be quick because your mailboxes get flooded with other average guys trying to be everything in thirty seconds or less.

All we want is some good guilt free fucking. What we get is an ulcer, a lot of NOs, a lot of wasted time and a lot of flak for doing what we do naturally.

In short we get fucked, which is what we set out to do, so why am I am even bitching.

We should just lie down and take it and be grateful that we are even allowed to live after mating unlike the black widows mate.


And they wonder why we are addicted to porn and masturbation
//sorry but I am just through apologizing for everything I do

fun4allin2006 53M
1583 posts
1/28/2006 4:56 am

Not a thing. I actually look around this site and it amazes me with some of the views or pictures. I believe that some men and women see this site and figure it is another bathroom wall-for a good time call Joe big Cock at xxx-xxxx. Well good luck on your quest, there are plenty of great guys out there, just keep sifting through the chaff.


GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3038 posts
1/28/2006 5:11 am

It is a dating site , those have have postes on Passion com,
a dating site, will find their profiles on AdultFriendFinder too, as AdultFriendFinder and some of their sister sites share the same server:

Which to some will be annoying because they do want to find a life partner and not a sex partner

redmustang91 57M  
8572 posts
1/28/2006 6:05 am

You are perfectly justified in demanding your own way to sexual satisfaction. Guys are just lazy or dumb. Men don't want to put out all the effort to romance you and then be left out when you are fickle and say no, so they give up at the start. Sad, but it is an energy conservation strategy. Arranged screwing and relationships make more sense. We whisk the two (or more!) people off to a desert island for a few weeks and say get to know each other and have fun! I think this would work. Know any good desert islands?

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