SexcravingBBW 46F  
256 posts
6/24/2006 11:45 am

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8/28/2006 9:12 pm


What is the deal with men? I just don't understand. A man goes thru the trouble of writing a profile, emailing, talking to someone and meeting them only to "feel bad" because they are cheating. HUH??? But the issue isn't cheating on their wives but cheating on their girlfriends that they are cheating on their wives with. Does that make any sense?

It would seem to me, if he went thru all the trouble of putting the profile on (by the way, its still on), that she isn't giving him everything he needs. Wouldn't you think that?

Men can be so frustrating at times. They want to talk and want sex but when they get either or both, they back away. What gives? Are they just not able to handle finally getting what they want? Or is it that they are confused because they usually have to beg and plead to get sex and here on this site women are willing to have sex and that just scares them?

I don't know what it is, to be honest. I wish I did. Sometimes, it just doesn't seem like men are really ready and able to deal with a woman with a high sex drive. I mean men have had the market on sex cornered for centuries and now they need to stand back because women are coming on strong and want sex just as much and sometimes more than a man does.

Move over Boys.. women are taking the lead...

Dis_fly_papi718 35M
1 post
6/25/2006 4:39 pm

Wow this is deep! I hear alot of people on this site are full of shit - But I don't know why any man would turn away a woman for sex! That shit is crazy, I know I sure wouldnt!

bogart732 43M

7/1/2006 12:45 pm

Sounds like someone who was a bit confused. Or maybe wasn't expecting you to be the strong, confident individual you are. (Though how he could have missed that is beyond me.)

If he couldn't handle you, that's his problem. Having a wife, girlfriend, and looking for someone else makes me wonder. Sounds like there's other issues there, and ones to steer far away from.

Sigh - eventually I'll catch you online. I'm at wolftickets45 on the exciting e-mail, if you are interested in connecting. Ya-hoo!!

Hope to catch up with you soon.

SirMounts 102M

7/15/2006 5:05 pm

Well, Men tend more toward wanting a variety of relationships, while women more seek quality in theirs. That's why women are confused when Men sometimes give are willing to give up a quality relationship, when given the opportunity for a new one. Both inclinations are sort of... in the genes, for both sexes. *smiling*

6emalerascal 56M
18 posts
7/16/2006 8:27 pm

Some people are funny, they think they want something and when it's right in front of them, they won't grab for it. Personally I like agressive women who know what they want and aren't afraid to grab for it.

2daycowboywanted 45F

7/17/2006 2:27 pm

You go girl - even though you should a bit ticked - you go!

Sweet_Sinsations 56F

7/28/2006 9:52 pm

I think men are always looking over the proverbial fence at the green grass on the other side. They jump over the fence, and turn around, and there's another fence! And doesn't that grass look greener over there...

heretoserve585 41M
34 posts
7/29/2006 1:28 pm

I woudl have to agree. We want sex with many women. I think most of use fall into two groups those who have desire we don't want are spouse to know about and thsoe who are pigs. Pigs just don't want to get caught . The first group just want to fufill there desire and hope to find a women who is the same way. But emtions get going and one "cheater" wants more then the other and it all hits the fan

rm_pashun4u585 46M
26 posts
8/4/2006 5:12 am

The thing I have learned is you cannot based everything on appearances. Appearances are great for initial attaction (and making money) but that's about it. I've had a couple very attractive girlfriends who were lame in bed. I've had a couple of girlfriends who were average looking but awesome in bed. Me personally, if I can find that woman with who I can connect and openly communicate with, I'm sold!

rm_pashun4u585 46M
26 posts
8/4/2006 5:18 am

And oh, by the way, I was talking to and seeing another woman behind my wife's back. We talked a lot but never fucked; we did fool around in other ways. Did I feel guilty? Not really because we made each other happy and we were there for each other; isn't that what all of this is about?

rm_ORB486 56M

8/28/2006 9:53 am

It's called conflicted. And it's common in people of both genders. If you never experience it, then you are fooling yourself.
And women aren't taking the lead. Contrary to popular myth, women in general were always interested in sex and able to be assertive and aggressive. And Men in general are still more interested in sex and more often able to be aggressive than women are. Neither is it good or bad, weak or strong. And for men, especially, but for women as well, the line has always been true: "watch out, you might get what you're after."

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