The undefined marriage double standard  

SexJuggernaut71 45M
3 posts
3/9/2006 2:03 pm

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The undefined marriage double standard

First of all, I am a married man - let's get that out in the open for this topic. I'm not looking to get crucified here, but based on information i've seen on this site from actual female and male members (this is not opinion and i'm not making it up), in their own words, there seems to be a double standard when it comes to being married AND on this site looking for sex.

For example, most married women, on this site without their husbands (as a couple) and without permission from their husbands say that they will NEVER have sex with a married man because the MAN is cheating.

Well what about the woman, is she right in what she is doing? Can a married woman cheat and not a man? Why would their attitude be different if they were cheating with a person who is single? Is there really a difference?

Now for single people or couples that do not want to "get involved" in someone else's relationship, they have a valid reason to feel that way. They may not know the circumstances under which a married person may look elsewhere and may not care, but that's their perrogative.

For most men on the other hand, married or otherwise, most of them just don't care - i'll be honest. They want sex and they don't really care with whom they have it with - married or not. The older the guys get, the more conservative they get though so most guys over 50 won't go down the "married lover" path, but mainly because they just don't want to deal with any drama anymore, not because its "wrong" in most cases.

So what i would like to know, from men and women alike - why is the response or reaction you would PERSONALLY give to a married person different than what response you would give if someone said they were single?

Of course there are plenty of liars that say they are single and are really married, but i want to know what kind of response you would give to a married person if they asked you to consider having sex with them.

Leave age, features and everything else aside. Let's just say they were everything you've ever wanted, except the fact that they are married.

How would you respond to them and more importantly, WHY would you respond that way? Would you even consider asking why they want sex from you or would you just blow them off because of the fact that they are married alone?

Please answer only based on the fact that they are married, not with any other reason (like looks, features, etc.)

rm_Kissmystuff 61F
1435 posts
3/14/2006 7:25 pm

Don't really know about other people on the site. nightlady...I'm not going to judge what other's do. I don't know what someone else's situation is. They may have a good least to them...for going outside of their marriage for sex...affection...whatever. It would depend on the situation for me to have sex with a married man.



SexJuggernaut71 45M
34 posts
3/19/2006 4:28 pm

2 diamonds in the rough i see. For the most part, i've seen on most women's profiles the words "NO MARRIED MEN", but at the same time, the next paragraph describes how they wouldn't mind married women and how many of them are even married but yet its ok for them.

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