My observations of women  

SexDragon777 35M
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12/9/2005 6:36 pm

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My observations of women


IN the last few weeks of my continued attempts to find women, and so on. I've been hearing the same thing from advice from women, that they want honesty. Honesty. Honesty. Honesty. They're always saying, "I want you to be honest. I want you to be honest with me. I want you to be honest with yourself. Just be honest and I'll accept it." Which is absolute and complete bullshit.

Men, women don't want the real us, they don't want the honest and true version of ourselves. What they really want is for us to make a lie so elaborate that they'll think that we're being honest about ourselves. That seems to be the truth about the matter. And I can prove it, I know that they're are going to be women who are going to come down on me for posting this blog, and I'm being honest already.

Not only that, but I do think that women have the better half of the deal. Women have all the tools of seduction at their disposal, from teh age that women are in high school on up, we men are trying to get at them. We men, when women offer themselves to us, we think "Wow! This really is my lucky damn day that this fine woman is offering herself to me." Not only that, but if we men gave up sex and all that, women aren't exactly going to start banging down our doors to get it back. More than likely every single night that they don't have to say to the man that their with "Not tonight dear", they'll be on their knees thanking God.

ON top of all that, no matter what us guys do, women will never, ever, ever be happy with us. I've never met a happy woman in my life. You coudl basically make a woman orgasim 100 times and shower her with diamonds and she'll still bitch at you. "Why'd you make me orgasim so many times? These diamonds aren't from Tiffany's!"

And that seems to be the reality of it, we men are teh true slaves, the slaves to women, because we need their companionship, love, and sex. And they don't need anything from us.

kats60 56F

12/9/2005 6:48 pm

i think then the word is faithful!!!!!!!!


SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 7:00 pm

Maybe so Kats. But then again, you ladies are so independant, you pretty much don't need a man for anything right? You can say that to our face, "I don't need a man for shit!" Becuase you don't need us to support you, you don't need us to have kids, and you definately don't need us for sex. But the side effect is, that we men still need women, and you know that which is why we can be made to look like absolute idiots to do anything.

Because a man's backed up balls are the biggest resevoir of hope that the world has ever seen. If you can make us men think we're going to get laid, you can make us move mountains. YOu can't stop from using a man's dick as a stickshift and driving around town on a full tank of our hormones.


KC_JJ 53M

12/9/2005 7:00 pm

I have too many problems with your post here to list.

You're not doing a thing here to prevent the senseless "war of the sexes". In fact your encouraging it.

You're playing the role of the "victim". Always the wimpiest position to take.

You appear to be a blame-a-holic.

You appear to be whining. Are you looking for a whiner?

I could go on but I won't but I would not be shocked if there are not a lot of women interested in you.

Good luck finding someone that's not complete bitch. You appear to be the male equivalent.

KC_JJ

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fantasia_shares 47M/43F
4164 posts
12/9/2005 7:01 pm

Honesty? Naw...lol...they DO want you to tell them honestly about how you feel...but they want you to honestly tell them "what they want to hear." LOL...isn't that as clear as mud? I want you to tell me what a great ass I have, but dammit, don't mention the extra 5 pounds I gained last winter Mention that I look more beautiful than ever, but don't mention that is because I finally look 25 rather than 18 and you don't think people are giving you the evil eye for going out with me...don't point out I aged 7 years in 2!

And of course, men ARE the true slaves of women...and if a woman is honest with herself, she needs a man who cherishes her and loves her too.

You might want to know who to watch out for around here: Are YOU a Dirty Bad Man or Woman? !

Please tell me the secrets of your sex appeal Primping!

And a MUST READ: [post 2294897]

Just shamelessly pimping my own damned blog!
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SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 7:16 pm

And I used to be such a nice guy. But what did being a nice guy ever do? What does being a nice guy ever do for any of us. Nothing. Nice guys finish sixth in a five man race. And that's the truth.


SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 7:18 pm

Yeah and tell that to all the women who turned me down after I had been the super nice guy all around. Which is why I've decided to give up the nice guy act, because being the nice guy hasn't does shit.


kellys011 56M/54F

12/9/2005 7:34 pm

I think you've just recently had a nasty breakup, and its time to vent. Being honest and straightforward is what anyone seeks in a relationship. Women need men..just like men need women. Consider a good therapist to work out your issues. It might help. Good luck!
Kelly


SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 7:41 pm

Kellys011, tried that and it's not helping. You know how there was that movie with Will Smith "Hitch" where he was this date doctor? They always make looking like getting a date or a girl is so damn easy. Beleive me man, I've been said "No" to so many times that I think I should be given a free day pass to a Nevada Brothel.


kellys011 56M/54F

12/9/2005 7:57 pm

Well for starters you live in Idaho...how many women actually live there? Kidding! Please don't get pissy...just an observation, as the only thing that comes to mind is potatoe farmers. Consider moving to a bigger warmer city, as we females like warmer climates. Your profile looks good to me though. I hope things go better for ya.
Kelly


KC_JJ 53M

12/9/2005 8:02 pm

One thing I think you definitely have hit upon that is tough to get but not impossible is....

You cannot directly transfer "male logic" to women as a means of trying to figure them out.

It just doesn't work.

And there are also women who can't seem to figure out that, vice versa, "female logic" also cannot be tranfsferred like that to try to figure out men.

Hope I didn't seem too harsh earlier. I didn't mean to but I was just being "straight up". I actually intend to be helpful.

Two common (exaggerated) examples of where this does not work.

Example 1. A guy sends a whoppingly huge "in your face cockshot" to a girl thinking it will turn her on and that she'll then like him. This is done with the standard "male logic" of "well I would like it if this girl sent _me_ a sexually suggestive image of herself so she should love one from me too."

The odds are that this guy will create the reverse effect of what he's shooting for with this behavior.

Example 2. A girl blows off and feigns a disinterest from someone new that she actually likes. With the "female logic" of "well, I would like it if this guy did something like this to me so obviously he'd like the same done to him." WRONG!!!

The odds are that this girl will create the reverse effect of what she's shooting for with this behavior.

Does this make any sense?

And I'm not implying that you would personally use this "cock shot logic" and these examples are merely commonly occuring examples that are somewhat exaggerated but I hope you get my general point.

What I love about this place is that you really have direct access into the usually "shrouded in mystery" mental spaces of a wide plethora of women and with a little research it becomes much easier to navigate what used to seem to be unnavigable territory.

There are lots of people to help you out with this here and this stuff ain't taught at no university anywhere!

So take advantage of it and start out now with a clean slate as if you knew nothing. Cause I swear it's all here if you look for it.

Sorry again if I seemed harsh at first but I'm really am trying to help,

KC_JJ

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SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 8:10 pm

Hey, it's alright. Then again, the frustration of my own failures does have that kind of effect. It just seems that I can't get women to become attracted to me. I mean I don't get messages from women, I usually have to send out dozens (if not hundreds). And I'm still trying to figure out what's wrong wtih this. I've spoken with guys that just send one message and the girl responds instantly. So, what's wrong with it?


SexDragon777 35M

12/9/2005 8:14 pm

Thanks Kelly. Though you're somewhat right that most of the women around here are already married. And that's with the age range between 18 and 24. And it is midly frustrating as well, which is one reason why I came to AdultFriendFinder, to try and find a woman. But once again, frustrated by pure failure.


fantasia_shares 47M/43F
4164 posts
12/9/2005 9:06 pm

So, there ARE lots of books n stuff about how to "attract" a woman. A fella who I think has it all figured out...is probably my friend brandobean on here. Also, ya know, you have good rudimentary looks, but you could definitely tone up that physique a bit It's really up to you, though. Brush up on YOU and a woman will want to be with you. Turn yourself into the most interesting attractive person on earth by becoming interested and attracted to many different things and people. Talk appropriately (forget the "oh I would love to fuck your pussy" jive, etc).

Good luck

You might want to know who to watch out for around here: Are YOU a Dirty Bad Man or Woman? !

Please tell me the secrets of your sex appeal Primping!

And a MUST READ: [post 2294897]

Just shamelessly pimping my own damned blog!
{=}


KC_JJ 53M

12/9/2005 9:16 pm

All I can say is stay hopeful and be persistent.

Also try blogging regularly and make an attempt to somehow subtlely give a good solid taste of what is unique bout you. Don't try to be like anyone else that you see. Somehow your uniqueness has to shine through. But that should happen quite naturally by you just being yourself.

My take on doing that has been to generally discuss my own interests in life. Not in a a really serious way, but more in a fun and relaxed way. I feel certain there are women out there who will dig who you really are if you can somehow show more of yourself in this way in a loosly conversational (and humorous) manner. In this way your blog will become far better of a vehicle for women to discover who you really are than a profile ever could be.

I recently updated the opening of my profile and directed women who might be interested to please read my blog for that exact reason. And I have seen a steady increase in real interest in me ever since I began to regularly blog.

Anyways good luck and I hope this helps!

KC_JJ

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SexDragon777 35M

12/10/2005 3:57 am

Yeah, that part occured to me just recently to try to write blogs about things that interest me and new events in those things as well.


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