Why are people the way they are?  

SexAngel615 32F
142 posts
3/11/2006 3:54 am

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4/17/2006 7:18 am

Why are people the way they are?

I'm just courious about y people are the way they are. I just recently moved in w/ my girlfriend and a few of her family members. One of the people that lives w/ us is her cousin. He has a girlfriend but he has a thing for me. I don't have a problem w/ that at all. Its the way he acts around me. When his girlfriend is here he acts all macho. Like its gonna get my juices flowing or something. He lies to make himself look bigger. When he is asked if he likes me he denies it. But where I come from actions speak louder than words. Even his girl says hes has a thing for me. I've tried talking to him but i'm better off talking to my kitten cause she pays more attention to what I say than he does. You can say his actions are bothering me. I'm just concerned for him cause hes taking things to the point of no return. Hes went as far as chasing my kitten down just to aggervate her cause he knows i'll make him stop. Why do people do things like this to get others attention? Are they stuck on stupid or are they naturally stupid?

rm_zahuma2 50M
459 posts
3/11/2006 5:15 am

Well, It seems as if he likes you and wants a sex relationship with you but is afraid that you might not tell his family of girlfriend. My suggestion would be that if you like him, then talk to him secretly assuring that you won't tell anyone.
That might work.....
& and dude
life, afterall is for enjoying and it's too short.
Don't hold anything, talk to him and DO THE NEEDFUL...

Best Wishes


libgemOH 56M/52F

3/11/2006 5:59 am

it's because some people are afraid of the truth...Stuck on stupid is a good way of puttin it! -B

groomedpubes2 59M
106 posts
3/18/2006 7:37 pm

I think some of it is insecurity. He has to try and cover for what he sees as insufficient. Also many people are extraverted. Everything is directed outward and they really can't help themselves. If he is young and has all those horemones running through his body it makes it even more difficult. I am intraverted. I turn everything inward which makes it really hard to meet people. Its hard for me to socialize in a crowed of people.


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