Do you remember?  

SexAngel615 32F
142 posts
4/30/2006 11:50 am

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Do you remember?


Do you remember how it was when we were young? Not having a care in the world. Just being kids and having fun.

Do you remember when life was simple? When you didn't care what people thought of you. The only thing that mattered was who your friends were.

Do you remember the good times that were priceless? Like your first boyfriend or your first kiss.

Do you remember when things changed? When looks started to matter. When we had to be a certain size to fit in. When beauty wasn't skin deep anymore.

Do you remember when you met the man of your dreams? How you were so happy and in love. How you felt like your dreams came true.

Do you remember when you gave birth to your first child? The bundel of joy that was given life. A person that looked up to you.

Do you remember the first time he beat you up? How scared you got. How he hurt you so badly emotionally.

Do you remember how I told you to get out while you still could? How I told you it would only get worse. How you couldn't change him.

Do you remember how you didn't listen? How things kept getting worse. How it went from a once in a while to everyday.

Do you remember when time ran out? Now your gone and all we have is your memorey.

Abuse is not a joke. If you know anyone getting abuse help them. Don't just turn your head.

Djeeper1987 47M

4/30/2006 12:24 pm

Scary!!! I always quoted Ferris Bueller, "If you don't stop once in a while and look around. You could miss it."
That being said life is short stop and smell the roses or help someone that is in need.

Carpe Diem


LilSquirt_4mfm 67M/67F
3394 posts
4/30/2006 12:29 pm


u said it all .... ... cant add anything ... so will just say ...Extremely well said!!!!

LilJessicaSQuirt


rm_ENGBUCARO 38M
596 posts
4/30/2006 12:41 pm

wow ... very nice post... a lot of meaning and emotion to it.

I have never been able to understand some female friends of mine that have a crappy bf and we all ask them to dump this guys that don't treat them as they deserve and I'm talking emotionally and they stay with them, even defend and make stupid excuses for them sometimes.

read/comment/vote on my blog... I'm the first to comment on your post... be the first to comment on some of my 0 comment posts


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 1:02 pm

    Quoting Djeeper1987:
    Scary!!! I always quoted Ferris Bueller, "If you don't stop once in a while and look around. You could miss it."
    That being said life is short stop and smell the roses or help someone that is in need.
I couldn't agree more. Thanxs for checking this out please come back again.


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
4/30/2006 1:28 pm


chilling ....

sad, so true


waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

4/30/2006 1:41 pm

Thank you so much for posting this, I was in a physically abusive relationship for six years. I finally found the courage to leave and the day I left I met the man who is now my very wonderful husband.

Abuse needs to be brought to light and we need to give those who are being abused the support they need to leave before it's too late.

Thanks again


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
4/30/2006 2:02 pm

Very powerful. I hope you don't mind if I link this in my blog. Hugs.


Blue_eyes_smile 42F

4/30/2006 2:28 pm

Yes, sad but true, I was married to an abusive alcoholic dick head 9 years ago, finally I pulled my head out of my ass and took a good look at him, oh sure I was scared of him, I knew if I stayed with him I would die one way or another!
Atleast I got out, atleast I realized what was going on...now I have no desire to be married again thanks to my ex-husband lol...sad how one person can change something like that and turn it into something ugly.


lightswitch1963 68M/53F

4/30/2006 2:47 pm

Touching. But, oh so true. Some of us get lucky and DO get out and find Prince Charming.


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:18 pm

    Quoting rm_kelli4u2dew:
    Very powerful. I hope you don't mind if I link this in my blog. Hugs.
Thanxs Kelli. No I don't mind one bit. Take care.


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:19 pm

    Quoting lightswitch1963:
    Touching. But, oh so true. Some of us get lucky and DO get out and find Prince Charming.
Yes it is sad Light.


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:20 pm

    Quoting LilSquirt_4mfm:

    u said it all .... ... cant add anything ... so will just say ...Extremely well said!!!!

    Lil♥Jessica♥SQuirt
Thanxs Jess.


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:23 pm

    Quoting rm_ENGBUCARO:
    wow ... very nice post... a lot of meaning and emotion to it.

    I have never been able to understand some female friends of mine that have a crappy bf and we all ask them to dump this guys that don't treat them as they deserve and I'm talking emotionally and they stay with them, even defend and make stupid excuses for them sometimes.

    read/comment/vote on my blog... I'm the first to comment on your post... be the first to comment on some of my 0 comment posts
Thanxs Engbucaro. My mother went throu this but luckly she made it out. Some women think they can change the guy.

P.S.- I'll check out your blog and leave a reply


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:25 pm

    Quoting waerlookin4fun:
    Thank you so much for posting this, I was in a physically abusive relationship for six years. I finally found the courage to leave and the day I left I met the man who is now my very wonderful husband.

    Abuse needs to be brought to light and we need to give those who are being abused the support they need to leave before it's too late.

    Thanks again
Your welcome Waer. I'm glad you found the courage to leave. I'm happy also you found a great guy. Take care


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:27 pm

    Quoting Blue_eyes_smile:
    Yes, sad but true, I was married to an abusive alcoholic dick head 9 years ago, finally I pulled my head out of my ass and took a good look at him, oh sure I was scared of him, I knew if I stayed with him I would die one way or another!
    Atleast I got out, atleast I realized what was going on...now I have no desire to be married again thanks to my ex-husband lol...sad how one person can change something like that and turn it into something ugly.
Blue eyes, i'm glad you got out. Thats how my mother felt. Its is sad how one person can change a lot in another persons life. Take care.


SexAngel615 32F

4/30/2006 7:29 pm

Goddess it is sad. Hopefully more people will bring it to light.


DaveMan458 56M
12 posts
5/1/2006 10:41 pm

I remember when I was five my arsehole father beating my nother. For some reason, this time more than the others, I remember the temperature outside, the weather, how scared my mother looked, covering her naked body with my skinny 5 year old body to make him stop. To this day I don't like any sex that involves rough stuff, even if playacting. I wonder what would have happened if my mother had not left.

Chilling post.


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