Til Death Do Us Part  

Serenely_Yours 117
10210 posts
3/4/2006 1:25 am

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Til Death Do Us Part

Im have been thinking of him whose father died recently, about three months ago. I see him everyday but he works at different level.
We chatted abit here and there whenever we met. He is a nice chap and I wonder why he is not married or attached. He is not gay too.
I just feel that he is not the same like before. As a bereaved person, he seems to be more withdrawn. It has been three months and he is still grieving I supposed. I guess his father's death is not an expected event. Too sudden for anyone to accept or believe. Just worried that he could sink into depression.
Everyone has his perception of death. I have dealed with it many times in my live. I wonder again if it has moulded me into a person who has indifferent feeling about it. Oh my... have I become a less sensitive creature? Nah Nah Nah...
I am not a negative person alrite. Just these thoughts have been in my mind lately. Too many deaths. Ive seen many people with depression. Causes from multiple reasons. Deaths, broken families, ageing, relationships...
Have you ever thought of who would want to leave this earth first? Would it be yourself or your spouse?
Would you be able to take it if your loved one who had spent many years by your side and leave you just like that, unexpectedly?
It is good to ponder about this as it helps a person to get prepare to deal with death. It is definitely not being negative but to strengthen your emotions. Afterall human beings are weak creatures.

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justforfun22007 52M
4 posts
7/7/2007 7:18 pm

what is death, my mum just pass away, 2 years agao she was found with colon cancer, and since then my family became 2 gangs, one gang agreed to operate and the other group don, the fighting go on for 2 years until previous thurday, my mum pull the pluge. Somethings when you are misery, you wish that you were death but your surrounding wanted to keep your angony for as long as they want. On the last for days of her death, she couldn't eat, even on the drips. So the doctor only have to give her morphine injection, to let her feel less painful and die slowly.....she was in coma for 3 days, maybe already death except her breathing. After all this happening, i will when i am death, it must be sudden, not to go thru' all these suffering before I die...

Serenely_Yours replies on 7/7/2007 11:34 pm:
Everyone wish to die without suffering. Everyone hopes for an easy death. But its not up to us. I just hope I would not die solitarily. I wish my loved one would be holding my hand when I die.

bringmehome69 48M
68 posts
3/7/2006 2:55 am

yap life is short so be happy dont worry....

wake up every morning say this to urself...."is a lovely day todau and i can hv it all"....

btw...since life is short...try not to use ur butt chatting with ppl.....lol.....

rm_wenchang1966 46M
404 posts
3/6/2006 5:14 pm

Serene, you are a easy sad lady, yours blog is really sad. Yes, live is short, and golden time is more short in one's life, treasure it, to live well.

eternal1969 47M
1634 posts
3/4/2006 7:32 pm

Death is inevitable. Once you can accept that fact, the best thing for us to do is to treasure our living years with our beloved and make everyday seem like its the last

mr_simply_me 45M
842 posts
3/4/2006 3:17 am

A Well written blog...

Death.. Many says that he is not afraid. But one is.

To get rid of all emmotions, it is not possible either!

Sinking to depression is MAN creation... How deep you want to sink? It is always a question!

Who I hope should leave earth earlier? Depends very much on circumstances. Given a choice... I would like to watch the world pass by at a higher level....

There is no right way to deal with death.. But I see it that one need to know that you need to move on... A dead person cannot help u much and u need a closure and move on.

Death is not one seek.. Joy is...


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