Friend Finder Guide Book 101  

SerendipitysKiss 40F
33 posts
12/31/2005 9:48 am

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Friend Finder Guide Book 101

Sound familuar?

*truely laughs*

About a year ago, there was a new group built, it is called affbootcamp. I love this group, I've had my run in's with it, but I have also been a member since only five members were posting. I must commend the creator she has done an outstanding job running it. *Grins*

Now, I'm doing this to get it out there once again, there are rules and they should be respected. Mostly just common sense but hey what the hell, lets see what we can contribute to make this the peace love and sex on the rocks site that it should be.

I would love for you to post and add whatever comes to mind. I will give ya the first five...

(yes this has been done, I was the one who created it last time, so I thought we could use a refresher)

Rule Ah Numba One.....

If you can't read the persons profile due to membership status, then ask before assuming that you know what someone wants. The tasts on this site vary from very simular, to extreamly different. Something I find sexy may be vulgar to someone else, offenseive, or even trigger a bad memory. If we use the mannors we were taught as a child in PRESCHOOL, then people may not get the sarastic bitch slap or the verbal tongue lashing that is so common when approached sideways.

Rule Ah Numba Two.....

Sometimes people dont like to share, and if they dont, and you take it upon yourself to endulge, war will surely begin, and war on this site is downright dirty dirty, painful, and hard to mend once shreaded. So please do your homework...If someone has a testamonial about a person you wish to hook up with, confirm they are no longer involved. (common sense) BUT I've had this happen, and the outcome was painful, but a lesson learned. Ask, or watch, you will figure out if they are currently preoccupied.

Rule Ah Numba Three.....

Dont use peoples given names in the chat room. If you are a man then realize some of us have people we would rather not know our names, be it due to stalking, obsession, dislike, or whatever the reason. ITS DANGEROUS for us women to give out our names in the chatroom. Believe me, it's worth it to just take my advice on that.

Rule Numba FOURRRRRRRRRRRR...........

If you are a single woman playing with a couple...I dont care who found you and who brought you ALWAYS ALWAYS follow the woman. Gage her energy, her moods, and her comfort level. It's always the best and safest way to go. You might actually be supprised at the outcome....

Rule Numbaaaa FIVEEEEEEEEEEE...........

If you are sending a pic with your email, and there is more than one person in the pic, *makes face* Would ya puuuuhhhhleeeze let us know which one you are??? It makes life a bit easier. *smirks*

ur turn add something ya might like ppl to know.

SirluvsStorms 46M
684 posts
12/31/2005 11:44 am

Great advice from someone with the knowlege to do it. You are fun to watch and enjoy.

SerendipitysKiss 40F
17 posts
12/31/2005 4:27 pm

Well thank you....I saw what you wrote in bootcamp. *grins* I'm glad ya posted something here. I dont go in bootcamp much anymore but I still think it's a great source of information for all people on AdultFriendFinder.

Happy New Year,
Be Safe,

mister_1973 43M
41 posts
1/6/2006 1:26 am

hi there
good tips i will check the group
take care

rm_manlyforyou 50M

1/18/2006 11:16 am

Thank for the advise, I know you in a different way as a fellow friend from meetings. Only you would know me If I had my Caulking gun out. Talk to ya soon.. PS. I promise not to drip it on you. Lol. hee heee. Take care darling. Thinking of you darling. Scooter. discretion is a must!!!

rm_steve953769 33M

1/24/2006 9:38 am

Seren,,, thank you for the great advise.. I hope it will help in the future.( not that I haven't been polite) Just haven't gotten much a response from this site and I have been on it for quite a while. Id just luv to make more friends and it really doesnt matter what for... well you take it easy and thanks agian. see ya around

SerendipitysKiss 40F
17 posts
1/27/2006 7:23 am

OH MY GOD......

How funny that you would end up in my network....*truely laughs* I miss ya too Scooter....

Glad you came by

I know a lot of men who didn't start out that polite thinking that because the women are on this site they must be "insert whatever lable here" But that's not always the case. Sometimes we just need to realize that even tho the site is like this particular one is doesn't mean the people in it aren't human, with feelings. *smiles*

Thanks to all of ya

rm_curtchicago2 53M

3/20/2006 1:31 pm

    Quoting attwelvedancer:
    The Play it COOL Rule...

    For those of you who do not know...

    Women like to feel special. It does not benefit you to hit on every female in the chat room on the same night!!!
Am I alone in my belief that attwelvedancer is the most amazing woman on AdultFriendFinder?

SerendipitysKiss 40F
17 posts
3/20/2006 5:19 pm

lol she's surely a hottie *grins*


rm_Yknotme_69 52M
206 posts
3/29/2006 1:18 pm

I agree with the rules stated here and also with the post except, I believe Serendipity is also one of the most Amazing women on AdultFriendFinder along with atttwelvedancer..

WoodsThineTizzy 43M

5/14/2008 9:17 am

huh good post. This actually should be a part of the initial sign up, and should be a (sign to verify being read) a way to sway any potential (as they say in some forums) *trolls*... Thanks for the read... very informative.

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