Interesting unpdates on my original frustration  

Sensitive512 62M  
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2/23/2006 6:10 pm

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Interesting unpdates on my original frustration


My original blog was based upon a great deal of frustration in finding a partner (or partners) on AdultFriendFinder. After posting the blog I have joined several groups (Younger women seeking older men, Friends, and a couple of others that a specific to my local area). I made a post similar to my blog on one of those. The replies were very helpful (as well as interesting). I incorporated some of the suggestions in my profile, etc.

First I want to recommend a member joins a group that interests them. You can find many others there who have similar interests and, in turn, possibly improve the chance to meet the kind of person being seeked.

I have found many men have had disapointments using this site. With that said I have found at least as many (if not more) men who have had some very positive experiences finding partners on this site.

The bottom line seems to be; Keep Trying, and having a positive attitide makes all difference in searching.

Again, If you are woman readding this I would like to hear from you. Doesn't mean we have to "get-it-on." I just don't think I can have too many friends!

historynut132 36F

2/24/2006 4:47 pm

Well, yes good men are still wanted. They are coveted (did I spell that correctly?), at least in my mind. The whole on-line dating/looking arena can be very frustrating. Do keep trying and have a positive attitude. Even the bad experiences have taught you what you don't want and what to be aware of in the future.


Sensitive512 62M  
9 posts
2/24/2006 6:02 pm

    Quoting historynut132:
    Well, yes good men are still wanted. They are coveted (did I spell that correctly?), at least in my mind. The whole on-line dating/looking arena can be very frustrating. Do keep trying and have a positive attitude. Even the bad experiences have taught you what you don't want and what to be aware of in the future.
Dear History,

I have really liked your replies to my posts. I like the way you seem to think. I agree in your suggestion to take the negative experiences as a learning experience and simply keep at it.

I do have to say that being involved with the groups is VERY useful while trying to do this online dating thing. The support, and useful feedback, from others experiencing similar difficulties is very encouraging. In short, it is better than being alone in a vaccume doing this by yourself (so to speak). Being alone with the process can get discouraging. I guess that is why are here seeking company/companions?
Benjamin


historynut132 36F

2/25/2006 6:55 am

Thank you for your compliment. Not to be too personal, but know from a younger woman, you are the kind of man I am looking for on AdultFriendFinder. Girls/women like me are out there. Don't give up, really. I can imagine just by having your blog and post thread out there, you will catch some woman's eye (or women's eyes) in your area. Good luck.


MONA_14 29F

2/25/2006 12:38 pm

I enjoyed reading your blog and proud that you are our Friends


Sensitive512 62M  
9 posts
2/25/2006 2:15 pm

    Quoting MONA_14:
    I enjoyed reading your blog and proud that you are our Friends
Dear Mona_14,

I am honored by your reply to my post! I asked to find some good women and by expressing my frustration publicly (and being open minded about what answer I was going to receive) I have been blessed with the responce I have been seeking all along!! I have been hearing from some wonderful women all of a sudden!

I came to AdultFriendFinder to find someone (or some others) to share my love with. I don't mean being sexual with everyone I contact either!! Sometimes the most loving thing to do is to tell someone they are making a mistake or telling them off (as friends and mentors have so graciously done for me in my past)!

just the warmth I am feeling from the responders (especially the women) is so meaningful to me. Even if some of you are half way around the world from me
Much love,
Benjamin


Sensitive512 62M  
9 posts
2/26/2006 12:46 pm

The process of find companions (sexual or not) is turning out to be a wonderful experience here on AdultFriendFinder. Some of the tings I have learned in the past months of being a memeber:

1) Be a Gold or Silver Member. It is the only way to really take full advantage of all the benefits the site has to offer us seeking relations.

2) Don't try and do this alone. Meaning join some of the "Groups," post a blog, Introduce yourself on the groups you join, join the chat room (if you're into that), etc.

3) Keep at it. Don't take lack of responce personally.

4) Report all members who post requests that you send them your e-mail address for them to reply to you. Do the same thing when your send an e-mail and they reply asking for your e-mail. These folks are mostly scammers Phishing for your credit card information (their e-mails will lead to them asking you subscribe to a "Their Free Personal Website" using your credit card).

5) Keep at it! The more you are available (online or emotionally) the better the chance you will be around for the time the right person(s) is on the site to contact.

6) Keep a positive attitude about your search, chances, and personality.

7) Keep At IT!

Much Love,
Benjamin


giacomo690 67M

5/7/2008 2:03 pm

Hi Benjamin.............Thank you for directing me to your blogg. It is very interesting and One gets to know you better. You sound likea great guy. One who would be proud to have as a friend. Since we are in the same general local maybe we can develope a friendship. It would be great to talk to someone of daily situations and what ever may come up. I do hope we can begin a dialogue as I am being truly honest about friendship.
Jim


giacomo690 67M

5/7/2008 2:08 pm

Hi Benjamin.............Thank you for directing me to your blogg. It is very interesting and One gets to know you better. You sound likea great guy. One who would be proud to have as a friend. Since we are in the same general local maybe we can develope a friendship. It would be great to talk to someone of daily situations and what ever may come up. I do hope we can begin a dialogue as I am being truly honest about friendship. There are good men out here who care,honest and sincere, but we are here
Jim


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