Settling in  

Senseyoualize 52M
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4/15/2006 12:24 pm

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Settling in

Well...when I started this blog, I was all alone in KC, living in an extended stay hotel, awaiting our house to be ready. So the house became ready and we moved and the family is all together again - and geez...time went out the window between unpacking and work and sleeping!

Still, I decided to put my ad back to looking for a relationship with one woman - the whole swinging thing is just as hard to break into as a guy without a partner as finding a single woman who doesn't think I'm lying when I say I'm in an open marriage.

And yeh - I completely understand when women think I may be feeding them a line about my wife being okay with me forming other relationships. The typical world view doesn't have a place for that kind of life - and there are a TON of guys apparently saying they are free to do what they like.

Had a couple contact me recently who wanted to do an MMF thing. But they noted that the woman had a latex allergy, so condoms couldn't be used. I didn't have to think a moment before I tactfully refused their offer, but I shuddered at the likely number of guys who would probably say, "Oh, no problem." And when I shuddered at that, it made it that much easier to say "no thanks" to that couple since I'm sure there were guys who said okay to them in the past. I wished them well and told them to be careful. Go figure.

rm_metalmama69 42F
3878 posts
4/18/2006 6:41 am

Yeah, go figure!
Hope you find what you're looking for

Senseyoualize replies on 4/19/2006 8:08 pm:
Right back at ya Metalmama. It is my experience with AdultFriendFinder that it just takes patience. There is fun out there to be had and wonderful people to be met. Eventually, I'll come across someone who can grok the idea of "open." Until then, I guess I'll keep blogging!

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