What is in a blog?  

Secrets733 43F
224 posts
7/20/2005 7:03 am

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What is in a blog?


What is in a female blog, sugar, spice and everything nice? I've been reading blogs from other women. Some are so creative! The PRESSURE. I just wanted to go somewhere to vent but now I am having trouble just getting it all out there. I have alot to say but such a big audience! I'll start today with this story...

My friend took me to lunch the other day. She has hooked up with 2 married men. She feels bad about it but she has been single and lonely for a long time. I am married but I am not going to judge her. I have another friend who has been having a threesome with her husband and another man, now she and the other man are just hooking up together without the husband knowing it. Not to mention 2 other women I know who are cheating...

I used to think that people can get married and actually live happily ever after and never give into the temptation of cheating, but now I think that it is probably impossible to expect your partner to remain monogomous for life. I am beginning to think that cheating is just a fact of life that I will have to get used to whether I like it or not.

I personally have not cheated in a relationship, doesn't mean that I never will. I will try not to. It just seems to me that alot of women I know are having some fun on the side or down low or where- ever...I like to look but I have to do what is right for me.

rm_mieze626 52F
145 posts
7/20/2005 8:56 am

that is the most important thing that u r doing what is right for u. i work in a men's world and i always hear the stories about cheating. but i think if a man or woman is cheating, something is not right in the relationship/marriage. i'm the same kind of person like u. if i'm with somebody, there is no cheating. i rather break up with that person before i jump with another. a very close friend of mine was married, and his wife more or less closed it up. she did not fulfill his needs. i don't blame him at all that he had a bootycall. for all those women out there, take care of your husbands...but that also counts for all those men out there, take care of your woman. relationships can get boring, but only if u let it go to this point. u need to talk about it and spice it up...just some of my thoughts to this...


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