Penis Envy  

Secrets733 43F
224 posts
1/24/2006 1:26 pm

Last Read:
3/26/2006 1:22 pm

Penis Envy

When I was young, 6 or 7. I asked my mother where babies came from. I remember this very well. She was in the bathroom at the time and I barged in...she was quite frank with me. She later explained that if I was old enough to ask, then I was old enough to know. What she said is something that will stick with me forever:

"Daughter, babies are made when two people love each other very much. When a man and a woman decide they are in love with each other they have sex, or fuck or make love it is called by several different names. This is when the man sticks his penis into the womans vagina. Then a baby grows inside the womans belly until it is ready to be born." And she continued to describe the man's genitalia and the womans. I asked, "Does it hurt?". At that time she said no.
I asked, "How will I know when I am in love?". She said "Honey you will just know. You think about the boy all of the time. You may not feel hungry, you might feel like you have tummy ache but in a good way and when you are with him he will make you so happy and he will feel the same way about you and both of you will never want to be apart from each other.

So this talk has always stuck with me. I have never been able to have a one night stand because I am hard wired to think that I must be in love to have sex. I just can't do it unless I am in love. Is this a bad thing? How many women have gone throughout life not enjoying sex for what it is....just sex. Why do I expect to have this grand emotion attached to it? I wonder if there more women like me?

Sometimes I wish that I were more like a man because I think they are able to remove their emotions from sex in general (not all men). So maybe this is penis envy...What do the readers think?

muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
1/25/2006 10:53 am

I think you want to have great sex and right now you are not getting it. You are looking for that feeling of passion and excitement of the sex to come with some one new. This is a feeling that makes lots of couples seek out side sex. I am sure there are lots of women like you, probably 60 to 75%, they are afraid to addmit it. For me I have to be physically attracted to them or I won't go for it!

Secrets733 43F

1/25/2006 9:31 pm

I think that physical attraction is a must. Not only in the beginning of a relationship but throughout the life but on the other hand I've also heard that your partner had better be a good friend because when you are old and your looks have faded all you will have between each other in old age is friendship.

P.S. I neglected to confess to the wonderful weekend I had in the bedroom...

Become a member to create a blog