Gorgeous Men Everywhere...  

Secrets733 43F
224 posts
2/2/2006 7:15 pm

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3/20/2006 1:37 pm

Gorgeous Men Everywhere...

Why are there gorgeous men everywhere I go?
When I am at the grocery store, a red light, the bank, gas station ....I can't escape from them! And it gets worse, there are gorgeous women out there too. Oh how I am tempted by beauty! I imagine my husband is tempted by beauty as well...There is nothing wrong with a little eye candy now is there? But does he have the will power that I have had all these years? Still if he has not, he has always come home to me...And I must confess that is my will power is fading...Beauty to me now is like cryptonite to Superman.

rm_KnowStuff 56M
240 posts
2/3/2006 1:33 am

Well hun I can't be everywhere at once (hands on hips ... strikes classic superhero pose) and I don't stalk so maybe it's just coincidence hun! Yes, us semi-retired superheroes have pretty big egos.

And yes, there are some really gorgeous people out and about.
Try looking away with xray vision some time!<-- sorta redefines eye candy.

Hun, believe me when I tell ya that beauty is in no way like Kryptonite to Superman. For starters, Kryptonite is lethal (not just weak in knees hun). And it is so painful it repels where beauty attracts, inspires, and arouses. I've never been repeled by beauty.

You picked the right word in beauty. It's primary definition has little to do with looks too. Beauty has to do with "the qualities that give pleasure to the senses." You have it full to the brim in you and it's easy to see it (without my special powers) from here.

It tells in your writing out here (heartfelt is not something that can be faked by the heartless over the long haul). Your man has the will power or he is a fool. I suspect no fool cuz he comes home to you. That's attraction hun.

Of course, much of what you write here could be worded and love noted to him couldn't it? You could tell him how much you want him when you're (was it topless in the morning) getting ready for work?

Anyway, gorgeous is not the same as beauty becuase it usually only speaks to the visual form. And I think everybody knows of at least one truly ugly persona wrapped in a gorgeous package.

It's not your will power fading hun. There's plenty of other things pulling on you than will power -- and perhaps him too. It takes effort regardless of direction your life takes and you don't have so weak a constitution to blame it.

Love does not die easily.
It is a living thing.
It thrives in the face
of all life's hazards,
save one--neglect.
~ by James Bryden ~

Neglect hun is kryptonite to Superman

You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. I know -- easier said than done.

Secrets733 43F

2/3/2006 7:18 am

You really weren't kidding when you chose the name "know stuff". I think that you do. And I also think you have the ability to read between the lines. Thank you for reading and commenting on my blog. My husband isn't such a bad guy that is why I am still with him...but sometimes I am tempted to jump the fence. For now, I am just peering through a knot hole in the fence looking through to the other side, like a peeping tom.

muscles4u2have 54M
1642 posts
2/3/2006 1:39 pm


Knowstuff is right on! Just one thing though. If you do tempt for the eye candy, besure it does have the inner package. In other words, know the eye candy before taking a bite. You are in one third crisis. You can't be in a mid life, because you are not old enough. Do you feel like you love life is like putting on the same pair of shoes every day? That is a mid life crisis. I know I have been there and done that. It takes passion from both sides to get through it. It also takes some new approaches to love making than the standard ones. Mix it up and be adventuress in your sexual escapades. Have a great weekend!

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