Beauty is only skin deep but Ugly goes all the way to the bone  

Secrets733 43F
224 posts
9/1/2005 1:31 pm

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Beauty is only skin deep but Ugly goes all the way to the bone

To anyone who is reading this blog. Have you ever heard of that saying before? I believe that this is true. Sometimes even a good looking person may appear ugly because of their personality or negative outlook on life.

With all of the trajedy going on in the world today. I have been counting my blessings. I am thankful for all the wonderful people in my life including my husband. Maybe he isn't sexually attracted to me as much as he used to be because of all the arguements we have been through together. We both don't want to go to a marraige counselor. We both feel that our life together is private and intimate and we don't need a referee.

Along with working out and taking care of my appearance. I am going to try to be a better person emotionally too. A better listener, friend and wife. Maybe as an improved woman my husband will find me more attractive.

We used to have so much fun together and we still do just not as often as I would like. I'm still hopeful for us.

FubarDelta 106M

9/1/2005 3:55 pm

Hi Secrets733, I wish you both the best. There is no perfect solution. I do not know the full pic only one side. However, life is way to important to let it slip away. I am sure that your guy is OK and things just happen. Love is great when in sync and a burden when not. I live here in Dallas, a friend called me asking if I knew a happy couple, I must admit I could not at that moment. She was in dispair, but as I said to her life is yours to make what you will. No one else can make you happy. Happiness within exudes and attracts others. Hey I have been through the wringer, but it is my responsibility to get back up again. My ex she feels the same we are better apart than together, tough as it is. Take the best shot, give it your all. Then decide.

rm_Idawa2 68M
2 posts
9/3/2005 2:25 am

'Secrets'... There is a 'Secret' Ingredient in love - i.e. lasting, invigorating love. Everyone knows it, yet it remains a 'Secret' because no one really recognizes it's importance so to their misfortune they don't really step forward to apply it. Would you like to know what it is?

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