Just How Long Does It Take?  

SeaMist1966 50F
845 posts
3/3/2006 5:55 am

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Just How Long Does It Take?

I was posting on a friends Blog and now im wondering the answer to this question..Just How Long Does It Take To Love?...Is there such a thing as Love at first sight?..Is it possible to Love someone from a distance?...Can sex be confused for Love?...They asked Sharon Stone if she Loved the murdered man in Basic Instinc...she replied.."I Loved Fucking Him"

Guess Love can be confusing to confused people huh?


WolfXavier 41M
123 posts
3/4/2006 4:54 pm

As "love" is hard to define in the first place, how fast it can happen is even harder to define.


BBSOUTHERNGURL 45F
62 posts
3/4/2006 7:08 pm

Ya Gurl of All people you know how confused I am!! I think about it all the time...I have questioned myself that do I really know what Love is... or do I go about it the wrong way to be LOVED...How do you know... AS person that strives to make you happy and pleases you in every way...in return you do the same for him.. is that LOVE??...or lusting.....to accept someone and all there Flaws...I know that is Love...nothing like it...True Friends Develope that and it takes time...Connecting in the bedroom...haveing sex not just FUCKING!! feeling as one....feeling so phenominal...is that LOVE?? or lusting...a kiss so passionate as though you are just giving your selves to each other...no boundarys no holding back...pure PASSION!! is that LOVE?? or lust.... who knows sister...you know I am as confused as the next and maybe because I question it so is why I don't understand it.... I really think that Love is not ment to be understood... that it comes in so many forms...that its ment for individuals that....never second guess it...they just FEEL IT!!!


SeaMist1966 50F

3/6/2006 10:38 pm

WOW...Thnxs you two..


SeaMist1966 50F

3/7/2006 8:31 am

Ive been thinking hard on this one...Im thinking Love is something we dew feel inside us..Kinda like seeing that special person and feeling your breath leave ya body for a split second..and thats when you get that warm feeling like oh my I feel tears welling up in my eyes and im not sad...The kicker for me is..does he feel his breath leave his body that second he sees me? Can he feel warm inside and feel tears well up in his eyes like i can? Hearing their voice on the other end of the phone..is like a madness you cant see them but you know that their there...wanting to touch that person and not being able to,makes ya feel like ya heart will jump outta ya chest Love comes in many forms and colors...I have a poem I wrote called the Colors Of Love...I seem to have lost it but I have a friend that has a copy...ill have her send it to me and ill post it...maybe Love is a different feeling for everyone...The Love of a friend is something wonderful...But having love for a member of the opposit sex..and feeling like you can be the bestest of friends and the greastest Lovers and Partners for life is something that cant be explained..or maybe even understood like you two have said...But I want that in my life...Stace you know ive never been one to express my feelings of love for a man...and sometimes I should...but its like opening up and taking that chance of being hurt...thats a scary feeling for me...haha belive that as much of a LOUD MOUTH I am...I juss feel love for a special man..I know its Love,but im still scared to have my heart placed in someones hands..a broken heart is a terriable thing...I KNOW...hes awesome,funny,sexy,sweet,smart,and takes my breath away for a split second..makes my heart race to hear him on the other end of the phone...fuck wats am I to dew????


SeaMist1966 50F

3/9/2006 5:44 am


rm_Cadae 61M
9 posts
3/14/2006 12:07 pm

The best discription of love I've ever heard:
"When another persons happiness is essential to your own."

Chocolate:
Nature's way of making up for Okra


Jayferjoan 51F

3/18/2006 6:22 pm

    Quoting rm_Cadae:
    The best discription of love I've ever heard:
    "When another persons happiness is essential to your own."
Well said Cadae....I have to agree with you on that one..
Kisses to you

jayfer

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(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`• Jayfer


Jayferjoan 51F

3/18/2006 6:23 pm

    Quoting SeaMist1966:
    Ive been thinking hard on this one...Im thinking Love is something we dew feel inside us..Kinda like seeing that special person and feeling your breath leave ya body for a split second..and thats when you get that warm feeling like oh my I feel tears welling up in my eyes and im not sad...The kicker for me is..does he feel his breath leave his body that second he sees me? Can he feel warm inside and feel tears well up in his eyes like i can? Hearing their voice on the other end of the phone..is like a madness you cant see them but you know that their there...wanting to touch that person and not being able to,makes ya feel like ya heart will jump outta ya chest Love comes in many forms and colors...I have a poem I wrote called the Colors Of Love...I seem to have lost it but I have a friend that has a copy...ill have her send it to me and ill post it...maybe Love is a different feeling for everyone...The Love of a friend is something wonderful...But having love for a member of the opposit sex..and feeling like you can be the bestest of friends and the greastest Lovers and Partners for life is something that cant be explained..or maybe even understood like you two have said...But I want that in my life...Stace you know ive never been one to express my feelings of love for a man...and sometimes I should...but its like opening up and taking that chance of being hurt...thats a scary feeling for me...haha belive that as much of a LOUD MOUTH I am...I juss feel love for a special man..I know its Love,but im still scared to have my heart placed in someones hands..a broken heart is a terriable thing...I KNOW...hes awesome,funny,sexy,sweet,smart,and takes my breath away for a split second..makes my heart race to hear him on the other end of the phone...fuck wats am I to dew????
HHMmmmmmm...sounds to me like your INLOVE doll.....best of luck with everything

kisses to you
jayfer

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`*.¸.*´
¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨)
(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`• Jayfer


SeaMist1966 50F

3/19/2006 8:11 am

Joannie I think maybe ur right woman...Its driving me crazy...btw...niccccccce new pic...they getting better woman..*winks*


RoyalPurpleRose 51F

3/31/2006 11:20 am

Love is impossible to define. It can happen in the wink of an eye, or over decades. Love makes you so crazy, and angry, and blissfully happy. There are many different kinds of love. Yes, there is love at first sight ... Yes, it is possible to love from a distance ... Yes, sex is often confused for love. We will never stop seeking love. Love will never cease to exist. Thank God!

Love your blog!

~Kisses, RPR


SeaMist1966 50F

3/31/2006 3:08 pm

Thank you RPR...nice handle....This Love is really getting to me...

Ima kick back and chill....maybe have a beer or 2 or 10....whew



oralpleezeru2 53M

4/17/2006 9:45 am

LOVE, I wish I knew what it was, for maybe later it will be with Tater


SeaMist1966 50F

4/17/2006 2:47 pm

oralpleezeru2...where da hell have you been???

I thought you done traded me in on another model!!!

Always great to see you


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