What am I looking for ?  

Scott_in_Tulsa 44M
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5/11/2006 4:03 pm

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What am I looking for ?


In an email correspondence with a very attractive women i met on AdultFriendFinder, she asked me "just what exactly are you looking for ?"

That question caused more soul searching then i was prepared for. Many answers ran through my head, including in no particular order:

You, baby !

To find "the one"!

To get laid !

That sound you make when i've pleasured you to orgasm.

Your phone number and home address would be a good start.

I'm looking for Ms. Right, but I'm happy with Ms. Right-Now.

What i actually typed back was this:

That's a hard question to answer, and I致e given it a lot of thought. You don't make it to 34 being unmarried without pondering why all your friends have been married twice and you have never even gone ring shopping. I could say I知 looking for "the one" you know, you and her see each other, and it's love at first sight, and all that tired clich馘 crap.

I was involved with one woman in my early 20s who I thought might be my soul mate, but my own immaturity at the time screwed it up. Many of the separate issues that she I were dealing with made a parting of the ways seem the best choice. She's now happily married, living way up north and spits on the ground at the mention of my name.

As I say in my profile "I知 looking for fun and possibly more" which is a fairly accurate description of my current status. I haven't met anyone lately that I知 interested in becoming serious with. Don't misunderstand, I've met many great women, just none have made me think "i could settle down with this one". I'd like to meet her someday, but I知 content to be single and free as well.

Between work and my hobbies, I keep myself plenty occupied. My work is very demanding of my time, so that tends to become an issue every time a relationship becomes serious.

It would be great if I could hook up with a bisexual woman who was interested in 3somes and swinging. It'd be great if I won the lottery too. I知 not sure which option has the better odds. I'm well aware that in the swinging world, you can generally have what matches what you are offering. Single guys find themselves masturbating at home a lot.

The whole swinging thing is not a requirement, but it would be nice. I'm content with a monogamous relationship as long as it's a healthy one. In such a case, my swinging fantasies would remain just that, my personal masturbation material

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill


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