Oh no! She didn't go there! Part 2  

Scott_in_Tulsa 45M
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8/21/2006 11:28 am

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8/21/2006 3:45 pm

Oh no! She didn't go there! Part 2

(continued from previous entry)

There is no way in hell I am going to allow those two to have sex in my house. Being that they are both 15, I don't think my son would be prosecuted for statutory . But i have no desire to be a grandparent before i'm 40. There’s also the consideration of child support. It'd be coming out of my pocket since my son is a minor. I also have to wonder if there wouldn't be legal grounds to sue me for negligence for allowing it to happen. So since she failed to be a parent to her daughter, i had no recourse left but to stay up and cover my own ass.

I do find some ironic amusement in the fact that as a guy, i had to cock-block my own son.

Time passes, it's close to 5AM, J wakes up and wanders into the kitchen and gets upset that i am chatting with a friend from AdultFriendFinder. The conversation was completely platonic in nature and i was also playing Realm. It's not like she walked in and caught me making dates or having cyber sex.

So we go back to the bedroom and have a minor spat about this. It's about an hour from wake up time so we lay there and cuddle.

We get up and head on out, for most of the ride down there her and my son are goofing off, constantly badgering me about my bald spot and calling me Santa Claus and other such crap. I tuned it out as best i could.

We get to Dallas, load up and head back home.
I took a few short naps here and there, but more then anything else i was running on caffeine and will power. I'm exhausted, annoyed and not feeling well when we arrive back at my house.

It's about 10 PM. I send her home because at that point all i want is to be left alone. I'm asleep less then 30 minutes after she leaves

The next morning i wake up around 8 am, get up and putter around on the computer for a while. Sometime around 10AM she messages me saying she wants to come over after she finishes her errands. I told her that was fine, but expect me to be in bed as i am going to take a nap. It's my day off and Sundays i usually spend sleeping and recharging myself for the next workweek.

She comes over and wakes me up. I tell her she looks nice and then i drift back to sleep. She wakes me again. As i am still laying there foggy from sleep she starts in on me about how i'm ignoring her and she is going home. I don't take emotional ambushes very well. I tell her "see ya later". She starts trying to pick a fight.

I have been pushed past the point of endurance here, i'm sick of making her happy at the expense of my own happiness and i tell her how it is. We're not a good match. For me to be the man that she wants, i'm forcing myself to be someone i'm not. And the reverse is true as well. For her to be the woman who makes me happy, she would have to be someone who she isn't.

She starts to argue protest and scream, and is bringing all kinds of other issues into the argument. I stay focused on one simple fact. We are not a good match.

She gathers her stuff and leaves.

(Continued in next entry)

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill

Scott_in_Tulsa 45M
1328 posts
8/21/2006 3:45 pm

at J's request i have deleted her post, but I am not deleting the message:

I didnt scream, i told you i was upset and mad. then you blindsided me with the fact that you didnt want to see me after i had just asked you if everything was ok to which you replied "yes babe everything is great."

"We are all worms, but i like to think of myself as a glow-worm" - Winston Churchill

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