Sassy's Thoughts.. Yes, I'm back...for a second...  

SaucyNSassy 39F
2021 posts
3/7/2006 2:05 pm

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Sassy's Thoughts.. Yes, I'm back...for a second...

I can't help but think that had I not quit blogging I would be looking at my name on that list of most popular blogs right now... lol. Vain? Conceited? know better. Just an observation. Once they made all the BS rules fair, I Even when they weren't fair, I was still there.
You know, I have gotten so many emails asking where I am or what I have been up to... My answer is....
I don't need to be on this site. I don't feel like I belong here. I can be a pervert w/ the best of them... of course, you have read my However, come on. I grew up in church and have gone religiously my entire life...right up until about 3 mths ago... Hmm... wonder what I started doing then? Heck, I used to be a Sunday School teacher but my faithful readers already knew that.
Thing is... I didn't come here looking for sex or for a better relationship. Now, had I found a man that was wonderful and made me happy, I would have left for him but instead... let me tell you what I have found here...

LIARS- Men who have lied to me in such elaborate ways that I can't believe I fell for the lies.
Men who have claimed they had sooo much money that they didnt know what to do w/ themselves. Sad thing here is, had these men not felt the need to lie, I don't care all that much about money. I'm not a gold digger. So, had they told me from the get go... I work hard but I don't make a lot of money... I would have liked them more.
Men who sent me pics of them from 10 years ago. lol.. when they used to be in shape or they used to have hair. AGAIN, why lie??? I like bald men, I love Nicolas Cage & Bruce Willis... so HELLO!!!Bruce shaves his head bc of his receding hairline and Nic shows off his receding
Men who say they are average and I meet them and they are not average, they are BIG! I mean, COME ON!!! I Have been over this in other blogs! WHY LIE??? I decided to put Ample when everyone I meet says I should put average... why do I do this? because I dont want to take a chance on misleading anyone... MEN LIE! I already knew that but AdultFriendFinder has just made it abundantly CLEAR for Pathetic, really.

FRIENDS I started blogging and I found a group of friends that I feel like I really got to know through my blogs, their blogs (if they have one) and comments. I have made 2 male friends here that are married. Have I had sex with them? Noooo because I am sure you have all read my Married Men Blog before, if not...find it.. its on the second page of my list of Anyway, these two men are great! both married, both cute, both sweet and I am lucky to be friends with them. I have also become very close to someone who lives over 4,000 miles from me. His friendship I will cherish forever. There are so many friends that I have made that I can't really begin to list them. The best friends I have made here, I haven't had sex with. lol.. go figure.
Point being, the only thing that has kept me here is this damn blog. So, I thought back on Jan. 30th after I wrote my second to last blog before todays... "I'm done... If I quit, I will delete my account and get off this trashy site" Then Valentines day and I had been putting off writing my 100th blog for almost 2 wks and I had to say something... it was Valentines day! lol. So, I did. Then, when I thought I was ready to delete my profile, I got bored one night and went in the Texas Chat room BAD idea. Now, I have made friends in that room and they have kept me here for a mth. Now, here I am today... doing what I do best... rambling on and on... I told myself after I attended my first AdultFriendFinder Meet n Greet Sat. night that I was definitely quiting Sunday.
However, as you can see... here I am ... again.

Okay, talk to me.. I've been gone forever. I know you have something to say. I've missed all of you!

jadedbabe78 105F

3/7/2006 3:13 pm

I'm just didn't mention me at all in your friends area....LOL.

Missed ya, girlie. You know you couldn't leave me all by my lonesome .

Just admit it, you came back for me (ok, all the men...back down, we're not *those type* of friends .)

Ummm....I have alot to say, just not the time to write right now, lol.


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
3/7/2006 3:24 pm

Well its about damn time you came back. And the rules are just as unfair now as they were before. Good to see you again...............

SaucyNSassy 39F

3/7/2006 3:43 pm

Jadey, honey you know I missed you terribly! You KNOW you are in my list of friends... I was just too lazy to list all of you. You are the first female I completely clicked on here w/ in a completely heterosexual friends way! lol... I know how that always disappointed the men. Inside they are praying we will become BI and meet and display it in person or at least on cam for Pervs, go figure. Gotta love em'

Saint, It's so nice to be missed. Especially by someone as popular as you my dear. LOL @ unfair rules. DAMN, if they still aren't fair, I will never be satisfied. Nahh... I don't care. As long as my faithful friends read my ridiculous blog thats what I care about.


p33c3y0 42M

3/7/2006 4:04 pm

i'm going to go with the lame and obvious. glad to have you back. and here i was, mere minutes from taking you off my watched blogs list.

no matter what you do, or how often you post, just do it because you enjoy it.

ArgosPlumyKooky 45F
3902 posts
3/7/2006 5:33 pm

hey you, i missed you! your blogging was great to follow glad you are popping back in. you do whatever suits you, just keep me posted kay?

mrgrimshade 44M

3/7/2006 9:21 pm


and a response to your liar post...hmmm my weight bounces between seasons, I still wish to be average/atheletic, no tummy droop, sag...I can still suck it in nice! I have money flow but never any money, must be why I work so much...and I keep my hair cropped short to hide the silver tinsel, the hairline is fine...and oh yeah...the pic I took just for this site...a year or two old?


still missed ya girlie, now where are all those boob pics?

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
3/8/2006 6:34 am

welcome back

I'm a

i'm here to stay

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
3/8/2006 8:10 am

Well the ladies on this site seem to get the brunt of the BS; The liars, the pervs, etc. Men get nothing in comparison but we do get some.
Blogging seems to be the best way to connect with decent people. You get to know folks a little at a time. How much can you really tell from a "telemarketing" e-mail from someone. I can't comment on getting to know anyone via chat since I have not really explored that part of AdultFriendFinder.
As far as blogging goes and whether to continue your account: Maybe for now this site has served it's purpose for you. There may come a time where your life changes and you will find a renewed purpose; things to share and discuss. It certainly does not have to be all about sexploits. For me, I have slowed down a bit but I know my life is entering a period where I may need to express myself and get support from the folks here. It is aways good to know one is not alone. That someone else is going through or has already gone through what ever is happening. So, that being said, I suggest not moth balling your account. Leave it, check in every once in a while; leave a comment or blogspond or two. Post an update so we all know you are well.
Thanks for stopping by.

SaucyNSassy 39F

3/8/2006 8:57 am

P33, Im just flattered that I was on your most watched blogs list. AWE! Heres a big hug! (((((((p33))))))
Match, hey girlie, of course I missed you too. You started reading my blog about the time I was tapering off and thinking about leaving. I will pop in occasionally.
Grim, I understand about the fluctuating weight. I gained about 15lbs over the holidays when I decided I was too busy and took 2 mths off at the gym. My body went from a loose size 8 jeans to a tight size 10 in a short time... grrr.. So, Now I am back in the gym religiously. 2 hrs a night. As for the boob pics? there arent any...not
Pap, Thanks hon!
S.R. I think I will keep it but just turn it off once I finally decide to let go. lol. That way on those bored to tears nights, I can still come check everyone out. Thanks for the kind words sweetie! Muah!

jadedbabe78 105F

3/8/2006 9:47 am

Well, sweetie.....I still have your #, lol....which I seriously need to call one of these days...I am so bad about the phone .

And then I can hop on my blog and lie religiously about what great phone sex whe had and then kill the fantasy at the end and let 'em all in on the big joke, HAHA.

My mind is on serious overdrive right now, ignore it.


rm_xxyyzz33 49M

3/8/2006 12:52 pm

Coming from your southern California fan club, welcome back, your wit has been missed. Hope you stay around.

SaucyNSassy 39F

3/11/2006 8:08 am

Jadey, dont feel bad. I'm horrible about calling too! You are in my phone though. So, eventually we will talk. They would love the lie... why ruin it for them? lol.. (phone sex)

XX, Hey sweetie, it's been a busy few mths and I keep trying to LEAVE this Glad you missed me! Kiss!

Macker, You are the worst tease ever. You know my dream honey. I can't imagine being blessed w/ living where you live. Grrr.. Texas, blah! You get Ireland!!! Good to be back Hon!


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