Love Online - What do you think?  

SaucyNSassy 39F
2021 posts
3/18/2006 9:13 am

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Love Online - What do you think?

What do you think? Do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you have never met? I do. I have... and it is a relationship that though it ripped my heart out, I wouldn't take back.
You sit at the computer for hours talking to this person. They sit at their computer talking to you endlessly about everything. When you meet someone at a bar/club/etc. you don't tell them about your dreams, goals, the embarassing thing you did when you were 6. You just don't... unless your drunk in which case, for me, there is no telling what I will say.
Moving on... you get to this person from the inside out instead of vice versa. I believe 100% that you can fall in love with someone you have never met face to face...
Catch here is you both have to be 100% honest in all that you tell eachother. Then, when you meet, there will be nothing different between you... You just won't be able to keep your hands off eachother... It's great! You finally get to do all those naughty things you have talked about online or on the phone.
What do you think?


"Sassy"

BTW, I keep getting complaint or comments about how people miss my pictures... heres one....


Dallas_Male_35 47M
255 posts
3/18/2006 1:34 pm

When you start talking to someone online, you have no choice but to dedicate blind faith into the person you type to.

You have to believe that the picture is them. You can only trust that it is recent.

You can't hear their voice. You can't tell anyting by voice tones. You can't see the look in their eyes.

It's just blind faith.

When you give so much of yourself that way, after such a long time, you almost can't help but develop very strong feelings for someone.

Can it be love? You have to decide that for your self. I think it can. As long as you have a solid foundation for it.


rm_ricop1379 37M

3/18/2006 5:12 pm

I have recently (a few months) met a great girl online and I plan to visit her this summer. It is wonderful. Talking online is a great way to truly get to know someone.


jadedbabe78 105F

3/18/2006 10:02 pm

I think that there is definitely a type of connection made online with someone you talk to on a regular basis.

The key is, I also believe there is a difference between real love and online 'love'. You grow close to someone, you share your mind before, if ever, anything else. The mind connection can be deep. BUT, after many experiences with 'feelings online', I don't know if I would classify it as love. Infatuation, intrigue, a confusion as to what it could be if you ever meet.

If you ever meet the person, you'll feel if that connection you had online. Or you won't. And if you don't feel it...was it really love then? Or just what you had hoped it would be? For me, personally, I have to have the physically chemistry, too. Otherwise, it's just a deep care of a friendship.

That I do believe. Friendships can be forged online. But love...I'm on the fence over that one. ONLY because of my past experiences through the years. I've had the 'oh baby, I love you blah blah blah'...only to meet and it just wasn't there or the other person lied or covered up who they truly were. And that's just such a let down.

SO, I go into it with the fact that I'm making a friend....I may come to care about themmmbut won't be love for me.

Of course, it is also easy to get wrapped up in the fantasy of what could be. And that can suck, too. It happens...I just have to snap myself back to reality when that happens.

And awwww, look at those boobies ....hey, you made a comment about my ass!

~Jadey


bardicman 50M

3/19/2006 2:08 am

The hopeless romatic weighs in..

Yes it is possible.

Its all about the honesty as you said though. Then there is only the small matter of physical chemistry.



I am not dead yet


mrgrimshade 44M

3/19/2006 8:50 am

what?

Now I have another reason to take you out and get you drunk. Yes, I love all of your pics, my favorite was the one of you smiling and "falling out" of the car window

Grim


Vick_Demise 44M
2431 posts
3/19/2006 11:19 am

Yes, this has just blew up in my face within the last week or so, hence, my change of title. She kept saying that everyone complained that she was too much of everything, but what killed "US" was that I guess she figured I was not enough of nothing or something. Oh well her loss, like Bard said about physical chemistry, it's not everyday that she'll find a 232 kilo sex machine such as me


You can shine your shoes and wear a suit
You can comb your hair and look quite cute
You can hide your face behind a smile
One thing you can't hide
Is when you're crippled inside


funky69z 36F

3/19/2006 12:24 pm

I totally and uterrly fell for someone at my computer desk... and after 9 months of chatting we met and it ripped my heart out as he wasn't what I had expected. I was so in love with the person I thought he was the one lol ...oh well you live and learn I guess xxx


DrLoveEsoterica 62M
219 posts
3/19/2006 8:30 pm

Hi Sassy! Hmm, an interesting question . . . I know from experience that people can connect at some level via this site. It happened to me . . . . . . but I tend to agree with what Jaded said above. I think there is "attraction" and there is "love". I've only been in love a couple of times in my life. I've been attracted to many women. I've "made love" to some that I wasn't "in love" with . . . and I've also just "had sex" with quite a few . . . While I can easily find myself lusting after half of the women on here (you and Jaded included) I don't think I could fall in love with someone I'd never met face to face. While I can learn a lot about someone by reading what and how she writes, I still want to meet her before I start hearing wedding bells. (Well, actually, I doubt if I ever hear wedding bells again, but that's another story for another time.) However, I must admit that sites like this add an interesting twist to the concept of "meeting someone" . . . It has almost "reversed" the normal way people meet. . . In a normal world, two people meet face-to-face and have a physical attraction (what you call chemistry). . . then they pursue one another and form an emotional attraction . . . and then comes the closeness where they tell each other their inner-most secrets, like what they prefer in a sex partner . . . how they prefer to be awakened in the morning, etc. I suppose that as long as people are "truthful" in what they say on sites like this, it could actually "speed up" the process of falling in love . . . but I have no experience to back that up yet.

Regardless, I like this site and I've met a few nice people on it . . . I will reserve my final judgment until a later date . . . but I still plan to have fun along the way. I hope you do too. - R

BTW, like my new profile?


SaucyNSassy 39F

3/19/2006 11:34 pm

Dallas, I agree, it takes a blind faith to believe what a person says is true. A LOT of people get online and lie to women/men to make them believe they like you or want things that they don't really want. I think eventually people like that will get what is coming to them. I have a bad habit of being too trusting in people. I need to work on that.

Ricop, aweeeee!!! I think that is wonderful sweetie! I hope that you really enjoy eachothers company as much in person as you do online. It's very possible, believe me.

Chin! Hey honey! I agree w/ you 100% and I missed ya too!

Jadey, I agree w/ you too hon. Now, my boobs and your ass could make one VERY HOT Woman! lol

Macker, you still have that spot on the hill ready for me? God, I would love to be there right now. Honesty is the most important thing in a relationship to me and I really think that it's easier to be honest online than face to face. (Heck, I am perfectly fine being brutally honest anytime but for some its easier online)

Bardic, You just started coming to my blog (that I know of) and I already have this sense about you. I think you are the sweetest man! If only there were a few more "hopeless romantics" in the world. I swear I am just surrounded by assholes. grrrr...


Grim! of course your comment is about my boobs, my pics or getting me drunk! lol


Vick, Vick, Vick, one day I will write a blog and explain why I have a thing for you. Definitely, her loss... BTW, I've been looking for a hot and sexy sex machine... hmm...what a coincidence..

Funky, I have never waited 9mths after talking to someone online to meet them but I did talk to a man online and on the phone for about a mth and then when I met him I found out that 95% of everything he told me was a lie. It realllly sucked. I had invested so much time and space in my heart in him just to find out he was a liar. Sorry you had a bad



Dr. LOVEEEEEE!!!!! OMG!!! I just realized who you are!!! I missed you!!! I'm so happy you made a profile of your own. I knew you didn't love oral sex THAT much. j/k I prefer making love over "fucking" anyday. I agree w/ you that it could speed up the process of falling in love. It did w/ me.
experience.


"Sassy"


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