A kiss.... Give me a little tongue...  

SaucyNSassy 39F
2021 posts
1/21/2006 6:37 pm

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A kiss.... Give me a little tongue...

You all know how I feel about a kiss... I hate to be choked with a mans tongue. I like a little bit of tongue and a little light nibbling. That is until I get really hot and then I want it full on deep and wet...However, I hate when he bathes me as if I were his kitten who needed a bath. However, I'm curious as to what you like... and what you dislike... So, here are a few curious little questions from me? Answer one or answer them all, it's up to you.
What do you like about kissing and what do you dislike about kissing?
When is the right time to kiss a woman on the first date/meeting? Right away, end of the night or you just dont kiss her at all. You just wait for the second date...
Do you like to use your tongue a lot when you kiss?
Do you like to nibble or bite her/his lips?
Would you like for her or him to nibble or bite yours?
How long could you or would you like to kiss someone without stopping?
If you could kiss me anywhere on my body where would you start and where would you stop?

"Sassy"


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
1/21/2006 7:11 pm

cheek and cheek (face, of course)


HORNYVIKING722 44M
1023 posts
1/21/2006 7:42 pm

==When it feels "Right"

==Not unless she starts w/ the tongue first, or I've been drinking.

==Yes I'd perfer to nibble or suck on her lips, varying from bottom lip to top.

==Yes, it's an even trade of individual desires!

==Until, the Gods themselves tapped me on my shoulder for my attention.

==From your forehead, just below your hairline to your toes above the nail maybe stopping somewhere midway for a scenic break, then back to the begining on your forehead, maybe stopping somewhere midway for a scenic break, repeat as needed. ^_^


rm_Pro_Boxa 59M

1/21/2006 7:44 pm

Kissing is about sharing and controlling intimacy, as fleeting or intense as you want. It should be right for the moment whenever that may be, first date, last date (maybe never).
Tongues? Well that depends where I’m kissing but I try and be as flexible as possible (no pun intended).
I prefer not to nibble unless it pleases her and we both sense when it’s time to pause briefly before re-entry.
Where would I start and stop if I could kiss you? Well assuming the lights are low, the champagne is on ice and we have a long unhurried night ahead of us, I’ll start on your eyelids and …..who knows where else?


LoveOralSex6 42M
22 posts
1/21/2006 8:02 pm

Hi Sassy . . .

I'd like to take a stab at answering them all:

1) When to kiss - It depends. I think both know when the timing is correct. A lot depends upon what we're doing and where we're doing it. Certainly by the end of the date . . . hopefully a lot earlier. By the second date, I'd hope we kiss as soon as we see each other.

2) Tongue . . . Not sure you'd call what I like to do with my tongue "kissing", but I suppose it could be called that. But when I AM kissing, I like to invite my partner inside first . . . I will meet her tongue as it enters my mouth . . . play with each other's a bit . . . and then, if invited in, I'll follow. I love to kiss and I love to explore . . . I don't like to feel that she's checking to see if I still have my tonsils though.

3)I typically keep the teeth covered with my lips. Teeth frighten me a bit if they are close to anything sensitive. I like to nibble on things that respond to nibbling (I can imagine your nipples would respond well to a little exposure to my teeth . . . but if I learned differently, I'd love to suck on them too . . . first one and then the other . . . giving a lot of attention to both.) . . . and I like to be "nibbled on" . . . but not too hard. I watch and see how my partner responds. I like it when I'm told how much is "enough". I'll do the same. Softly nibbling on ears and the neck are both fun . . . I like to do it and have it done to me, especially when my lady smells clean and sexy (no heavy perfume necessary . . . I prefer the smell of a wonderfully clean body to that of some strong perfume . . . the most arousing musk a woman can wear is the clean smells of her own body).

4) How long could I kiss? - I enjoy kissing a lot . . . and will do it until we both want to do more than just "kiss" . . . although kissing is a great part of sex/love making too. I'm not sure where one stops and the other begins. After wonderful orgasmic experiences, the kissing resumes, until both either want to go again, or fall asleep in each other's arms.

5) Where would I kiss you? - This is easy . . . I'd start very traditionally . . . lip-to-lip . . . then move to your face, neck, and your arms . . . (staying away from the most sensitive erogenous zones for a while) . . . slowly exploring all parts of your body . . . watching and listening how you respond to my kissing . . . I'm guessing the soft spots behind your knees, your inner thighs, and your breasts (My God what beautiful breasts!) would serve as points of stimulation . . . but again, I would watch and listen and respond as I sense is appropriate. I'd do this for as long as both of us could stand it, but if you think I would stop without moving from your inner thighs to my ultimate destination, you would be completely wrong! I would nibble and blow lightly on the lips of your vagina (or pussy, which do you prefer?) I'd slowly open your lips with my tongue . . . maybe use a finger or two to heighten the feeling. I'd focus on your clitorus eventually . . . lightly touching it at first and then getting down to business. If you let me, I would love to bring you to your first orgasm with my tongue . . . Then, I could also fuck the hell out of you if you wanted it that way . . . but when it was over, I'd work my way back (in reverse order of how I started) to your lips. I always like to end up back where I started.

Simply put, sometimes it is about me . . . other times it is about my partner. I like to focus on my partner the first time.


LoveOralSex6 42M
22 posts
1/21/2006 8:04 pm

That was post number 3, btw


rm_justsex646 52M
5 posts
1/21/2006 8:19 pm

What do you like about kissing and what do you dislike about kissing? When is the right time to kiss a woman on the first date/meeting?Right away, end of the night or you just dont kiss her at all. You just wait for the second date...

I would not initiate a kiss on the first date and possibly not on the second. On the second date I might hug her and give her a peck on the check or forhead, it would really depend though.


Do you like to use your tongue a lot when you kiss?

Not for kissing.

Do you like to nibble or bite her/his lips?

Not in particular.

Would you like for her or him to nibble or bite yours?

Not sure.

How long could you or would you like to kiss someone without stopping?

A minute or two.

If you could kiss me anywhere on my body where would you start and where would you stop?

Deffinately the lips, and I would end at the lips, with a lot of visits elsewhere in between.


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
1/21/2006 8:45 pm

Dear Sassy,

I know you do not intend to, but when you mention "kissing" you make it seem unidimensional.. like there is a focus on kissing and nothing else exists..

Please try to think of attraction as MAGNETIC.. affecting all parts of the body all at once.. heart, spirit, mind and BODY..

Namaste


jadedbabe78 106F

1/21/2006 11:56 pm

ok, girl---you know I'm gonna answer them all, LOL

What do you like about kissing and what do you dislike about kissing?

I love the intimacy of a kiss--it's the passion, the anticipation of what could come next---I don't like the slobber factor of it all if the guy just can't kiss at all

When is the right time to kiss a woman on the first date/meeting? Right away, end of the night or you just dont kiss her at all. You just wait for the second date...

End of the night---when the date is ending---IF the chemistry is there!

Do you like to use your tongue a lot when you kiss? I use it, but I don't shove it all the way in--I circle my tongue around my partne's, I trace their lips with my tongue, and I pull back gently and dart it back in

Do you like to nibble or bite her/his lips?

Nibbling is cool--bite, no thanks--I like to keep my lips from being puffy the next morning

Would you like for her or him to nibble or bite yours?

Nibble, mmmmmmmmmm bite---noooooooooo

How long could you or would you like to kiss someone without stopping?

Awww hell, I don't know--I can kiss for a very long time and be in heaven

If you could kiss me anywhere on my body where would you start and where would you stop?

Sorry girl, I'll have to pass on this one, LOL--nowhere!


SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
1/22/2006 10:22 pm

Alrighty then:

{=} What do you like about kissing and what do you dislike about kissing? The passion. The feeling goes right through me sometimes. Don't think I would like to be licked as part of the process.
{=} When is the right time to kiss a woman on the first date/meeting? Right away, end of the night or you just dont kiss her at all. You just wait for the second date... I had always assumed it would be at the end of the date but I did read in some on-line dating advice column that to take the pressure off the whole end-of-the-night first kiss that one should consider a quick kiss sometime earlier.
{=} Do you like to use your tongue a lot when you kiss? I like "French" kissing. Gentle though. Don't think I've ever jammed my tongue down a womans throat. Sometimes just the tips touching can be great.
{=} Do you like to nibble or bite her/his lips? Never tried it. I do like when a woman looks at me and seductively bites her own lip.
{=} Would you like for her or him to nibble or bite yours? Might like a nibble.
{=} How long could you or would you like to kiss someone without stopping? I have fond memories or marithon kissing sessions. I would love to have one of those again.
{=} If you could kiss me anywhere on my body where would you start and where would you stop? Now this isn't the first time the subject of kissing has come up. So to use your words, you'll have to wait and see.

S.R.


SaucyNSassy 39F

1/22/2006 10:34 pm

Everyone! Thank you so much for your detailed answers! You know me, I will faithfully respond to all of you... After I go to sleep and wake up w/ a clear mind.

Goodnight Sweeties,
"Sassy"


SaucyNSassy 39F

1/23/2006 9:16 am

Saint, back at ya'! (of course) lol

Viking... Can I just say that all I can think about now are those scenic breaks?

Pro, you sound like you know what you are doing. You seem to have the romance angle covered too...nice...

Love, If I have been talking to the person for quite awhile before we meet, I like to kiss right away get that pressure out of there.
No desire to ck for anymans tonsils...lol. Men do that to me though. ugh... I would never bite to hurt... only nibble to please. I could literally kiss someone for hours..first while standing then lying down together... mmm... Just kissing and kissing... Seems like you kiss a few mins and the man is RUSHING for the finish. It sucks!
Uhhhh.... Ummm... Okay, sounds good. When can we start that?

Just, no kiss on first date? Wow... Hmmm..not for kissing? hmm.. I wonder where you like to use it Only a minute or two? I like the lips and the visits in between! Thanks for answering my questions!

Namaste, I only focused on kissing tonight. I talk about plenty of other parts of the body and I have definately covered the emotional part of sex. Kissing was on my mind because I could really JUST go for a night of making out...

Jadey, yeah, the slobbering is a turn off. Chemistry is a must and if it's not there when you meet, I really hope he can make me laugh or has a great personality or dinner will be just something I have to get thru. I love to trace his lips w/ my tongue... As for biting..there was this one man.. (he knows who he is) and he left my lips puffy and sore..lol. ANIMAL!!! lol EXACTLY! long time!!! HEAVEN!!! Geez, no kissing Jadey... I'm so sad. lol

S.R., not even licking of the lips? Exactly, kiss right away if theres chemistry. Alleviate that pressure. Yes!!! the tips...dont check for tonsils, I don't have any! lol... I know someone who seductively bites her bottom lip. I miss the old days when you and your boyfriend could kiss for hours and he wasn't yet ripping off your clothes bc he was too shy...lol. (or he knew you would say no) Hmm..okay. (but I'm not patient! )

"Sassy"


SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
1/23/2006 11:54 am

Sassy, I was referring to face licking, kinda like a cat bath. I'd take a lip licking I think. Never had one. It's been so long since I have had a passionate kiss. I almost always get the cheek. I get more lip kisses from her relatives. Some of them really plant it. Strange when it is from a 16 year old. She takes after her mother.
I remember once a friend of hers came to visit. Her friend gave me the obligatory kiss on the lips hello. For some reason it sent a shock wave down my body. Totally unexpected. I wonder if she felt anything.
Waiting to be kissed for the first time again.
S.R.


SaucyNSassy 39F

1/24/2006 5:00 pm

S.R., as for the cat bath...lol...gotcha. Her friend kissed you on the lips??? hmm..thats not so common down here. If my best friend kissed my husband on the mouth I would knock her upside her head...lol.
Of course, she would hit herself. He's SO not her type but you get the picture.
"Sassy"


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