SassyChrisls 113F
413 posts
8/4/2005 11:29 pm

<~~ comic: "On the Internet, nobody knows you're a dog."


From: BIGDAD1000
Date: Aug 5, 2005 1:34 AM EDT
Subject: ???

Go To AnOtHeR sItE aNd No OnE wIlL tRy (Alright enough w/ the fucked up lettering) to have sex w/ you.

Ur the idiot to come to a XXX site and expect to not have men approach 4 sex.

Instead of telling them off - tell urself off 4 being stupid!!!

------ Profile Attached -------

My introduction title pretty much tells you what you need and want to know (this is a 3x, adult site after all. I have other hobbies and interests but I'm sure that is not what you're interested in, if so you would be surfing a dating service that is not an "adult" site, right?). I could tell you what I'm into but that would take the surprise and excitement out of it. So leave your personal email or im add and we can talk about it. Not necessarily looking for a ltr, pretty busy these days, but if that's the direction it goes in - hey? But other than that, friendship is good for now.

Ok - umm, did anyone notice the last line of the attached profile??? "friendship is good for now". I thought he came on for SEX - Interesting contradiction he had made.

What if i'm simply here cuz "friendship is good for now" myself???

One thing I'll tell you, as well as everybody else, right now is I'm not looking FOR sex - sex will go with the package of a MAN. And btw, in fact, I'm not even really LOOKING for anything. When creating a profile, it's required you choose what you're "looking" for.

Which brings me back to one of the points in my blogs - Some of women on here do not want to be just another one-niter.

If I was (actually) "looking" for SEX - I highly doubt I'd have a problem getting laid everynite.

Even if RIGHT NOW I was looking for sex- I'm not interested in alot of the men A FF has to offer...

I do have a right to have criteria(s) as to who I'd be willing to lay. I can assure you - being a DOG isn't one of them.

Just because you don't fit my criteria(s), doesn't mean I'm "stupid". You, along with quite a number of men on this site, are the obviously dumb one if you're thinking women should fuck anyone who offers/wants it without a further thought.

Seriously- have any of you noticed how men behave on here? If you haven't, read above copy/paste.

greatnsexy69 47M

8/29/2005 10:50 pm

I'd have to say that at least 70% of the profiles I've viewed so far mentioned are of the following variety:

*Just want friend with benefits*

*Not looking for attachments right now just sex*

*If you have a big one I'm yours!*

Sassy criticizes men quite a bit, but when you see SO MANY female profiles basically stating the same thing what do you expect us to think. Some of us learn from our mistakes and others never get a clue. I'd really like to think that the ones that stick around are starting to smarten up.

tamethytension 54M
2320 posts
8/10/2005 5:54 am


well said.

a couple of points ...

the fucked up lettering is often a code to bypass A.F.F.
Entering the CAPS into one of several instant messengers
and this will be a surreptitous contact for the indivdiual.
I encounter this on about 10% of female profiles, generally
the call girls and the website mis-directs.

To MissAnnThrope
As to missing profiles. I see a lot of people reading much into this when any number of issues come into play. Increasingly, with A.F.F. crackdowns on abuse, these profiles, especially those in mid-stream of a paying account, are those removed by AdultFriendFinder. This occurred only just yesterday to a dear friend when she was informed that her blogging was in violation of the rules.

As to the competition, yes the ratio of men-seeking-women to women-seeking-men on A.F.F. is a fairly consistent 12 to 1 across most US states (was 8 to 1 three years ago). Consider that a fairly high percentage of the female profiles are duplicates (I know women with 4 profiles) and/or frauds (anywhere from 20-40% in some urban locations in the northeast). In reality, there may be 25-30 men for every realistic female prospect, and given that there are female profiles that are geared toward the crude and terse approach* that you have discussed, it is little wonder that so many men use a telemarketer strategy by flooding members with emails. Of course, I share your disdain for such a mentality as I have come to see it chase off a great many women from A.F.F. over the years. I have shared this disgust online ... see my rant men of AdultFriendFinder...dial 911 but really do not think it will bring about change any time soon.

keep fighting the good fight
and thanks for blogging...


PS> * for all the lame emails from guys, I can tell you that there are 100's of female profiles that would appear to encourage this approach. I seriously doubt they are real and have to wonder at their propagation. They seem to be a deliberate enticement, perhaps even a marketing ploy. It may be seem very strange to get an email stating little more than "wanna fuck" but you need look no further than these blogs to find women stating bluntly the same thing on a daily basis.

rm_TallPAGuy73 43M

8/9/2005 7:00 pm

Sassy, it just goes to show ya that most of the men on this site (and quite a few in real life, now that I think about it) will say anything to get into your pants, and they don't really care if they contradict themselves - they just hope you're not smart enough to notice it. That guy thought wrong though. Too bad for him.

nietchze 43M

8/5/2005 10:15 pm

I'm just looking for someone who understands the finer things in life. A chilled 40oz Malt Liquor on a football sunday afternoon, a heated game of hamsterball, biting yet friendly sarcasm, and of course mom's potato salad. (No offense to my online though, as i have never had her potato salad.) why doesn't AdultFriendFinder have a box for that??!?!

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
8/5/2005 4:53 pm

hmmmm.... I hit the link for his profile and it says it's been removed by member. I guess he couldn't find anyone worthy enough to have sex with him. Or, his wife found out. I can't imagine a paying member would remove their profile mid-stream.

pseudohippie 49F

8/5/2005 3:30 pm

huyund2du2: it's a little hard to read your posted comment since I am distracted by the larger-than-thumbnail cock picture right next to it. Considering what you typed, I find the juxtaposition of such a photo to be highly ironic in its discrepancy. Woohoo! More men acting like morons on AdultFriendFinder! (special bonus points for being self-righteous about the rest of your gender and still getting an opportunity to show everyone you have a penis)

huyund2du2 43M

8/5/2005 1:42 am

I myself wonder what the issues are on this site. Although it is true that this is an adult site, and it is also true that the vast majority of men here would simply like to cram it in, pump a few times, and move on to the next victim of B.S., some of the men on this site aren't necessarily looking for JUST sex. I have checked the one on one sex box, but more importantly I want a woman to have fun with, and that doesn't mean sex. Having these things in mind, it is SO much easier to simply be a little bit forward as well. So for all the married men on the site, ADMIT YOU ARE MARRIED. Save the women on the site some time! Lastly, I would like to apologize for the behavior of some, don't let it change your opinion of us all. PLEASE.

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