Come on guys . . .  

SassyBlonde209 49F
172 posts
8/22/2005 6:59 am

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Come on guys . . .

Are you serious? This morning I was chatting with a very nice guy that I've been talking to for a few days from here. It's the same chitchat as always -- "when are we going to meet?", etc.

So, I'm feeling pretty good today and say... when do you want? He said we can meet for lunch today - see if there is chemistry offline. We decide on a place and time... exchange phone #'s in case something happens, etc.

All is good right? I had to go and ask ONE question that blew everything. And I'm SORRY if you dont think this is important, but to me it is!

Do you remember my name?

I would never have thought that question would be a deal breaker. But this guy, that has been after me to meet and "fuck like crazy", doesn't even remember my name.

YES, this is a sex site... but if you want anonymous sex... hire a prostitute. If you guys think that women are actually going to meet you and have sex with you - and you not even have the common courtesy to remember their name - you are out of your fucking mind.

It's not hard guys... it's called having manners or common courtesy. A little goes aloooooooong way - try it!

richelieu74 42M
1 post
8/22/2005 7:27 am

Hi! i couldn't agree more, i would never forget your name!

rm_Flash19642 52M
1 post
8/22/2005 7:34 am

all I can say is I'm sorry for being a male. I would never forget your name, hell I still remember my first girlfriend's name (I was a ripe old age of 8 ) just remember we are not all the same, and some of us really do act human.

kirtandbabs 47M/46F

8/22/2005 7:38 am

I agree, he cant remember your name??..


chronocrosst 31M
1 post
8/22/2005 7:48 am

I think youre right, many of us men think about only the sexual feeling because it is a sex site, but i think its better to know the person who im going to sleep with, maybe i can get ver lucky and find the girl of my dreams.

rm_gulmunthos 30M
105 posts
8/22/2005 7:53 am

ouch x.x That sounds a bomb of a meeting. Sorry to hear that he didn't remember your name I try my best to remember, but then again, i haven't met up with anyone yet ^^;

SassyBlonde209 49F
25 posts
8/22/2005 8:24 am

OK... maybe I shouldn't type when I'm so ticked - I do realize that ALL men are not like this.... but it goes back to my "one bad apple" blog.... One guy like that ruins the whole game - I'll do my best not to hold the whole species accountable =)

rm_Techie321 44M

8/22/2005 8:41 am

Granted, I've found myself thinking of people on here by their handle, not their name. After all, that's the name you see every day. That's expecially true in the chat rooms, where you see the same names every day. And if you're just doing some light chatting, that's all good.

BUT.... if you're connected with someone enough that you're willing to meet in person, you probably are on a real-name basis, and you need to remember that! Shame on him for forgetting.

redmustang91 57M  
8664 posts
8/22/2005 8:54 am

Good point! Shows the guy was not well organized or your charms overpowered his speech centers. Guys have so much to think about, names are not a high priority! Still all that effort and then it all blows up over one little thing! Sad. If the sex had been fabulous and he could not recall your name afterwards (hard to believe) would you still have blown him off and cancelled a repeat meeting?

Now what was your name?

LeEnchantress 55F

8/22/2005 9:34 am

Well.. i'm glad you wrote this sassyblonde.. for i feel the same way... Even if you are not going to meet.. come on now.. remembering a person's name is not too much to ask.
I've been chatting with this guy for a few months now.. Yes.. months.. I notice he always calls me sweetheart and stuff like that.. no matter.. just thought he was being kind.
Well.. the other night i was rather upset by something another guy did that i thought was heartless to my friend... She's driven herself crazy because of all the screwed up things this guy did to her head.
I was telling my male "friend" this... I said i wasn't in good mood.. so he should of understood.. Instead he got all defensive..
I said. "you know what? what is my name anyway dude?" I sure remembered his name.. cuz i always called him by it.
he couldn't even tell me my first name and we've been chatting for months!!! I think of all the HOURS i wasted talking to this guy and he is always saying he wants to get with me.. he'd love to fuck me. you know the drill, sassy! lol
anyway... after i realized he just couldn't remember my name i got rather sassy to him.. but you know.. i don't care!!! if you mean so little to a guy he can't be bothered to remember your name.. he's not worth my time.
so later for ya mr."sweetness"

SassyBlonde209 49F
25 posts
8/22/2005 12:02 pm

This is mainly to Red ... First - it's Tina =) and dont forget it.. hehe

Secondly, what does one truly possess in his or her life... one thing that a person can call his own? Your name. It certainly doesn't define you as a person, but it, above all else, is the one thing that remains constant in your life.

Thirdly, after a night with me I would almost expect him to forget my name, hell.. he might forget his name too!

I can definitely see while everyone seems to agree with me, women have been the most sympathetic... Is that because woman take the extra effort (if you must call it that) to actually personalize "this". It's sex... yes. But we are not animals. Trust me, I've had all kinds of sex from love making to animalistic fucking... I've even called out the wrong name a time or two <horribly embarrassed>. My point is... while the men outnumber the women EASILY 15-1 on this site at any given time, as a man - how could you forget the name of someone actually willing to meet you (and give you the fuck of your life!)

Grab a pad and pen guys... take notes if you must. You will get laid much more often by calling a woman by her name and not "baby"!

Now Red... do you remember my name?? (kisses!)

ChrisDaddy69 30M
2 posts
9/4/2005 5:40 am

That just means he wasn't worth your time. But hey, move on, theres plenty of guys out there that would love to have a chance to take you to lunch and what not....I know I would want to...((hehe)

exotik1over 39M

7/26/2006 12:25 am

There can be a different explanation for it. Its possible that you had such an effect on him that he forgot it. If I was in his place I would probably forget my own name.

fla4fun2006 48M

8/11/2007 10:05 am

Forget all the BS guys, he forgot because he was thinking with his 2nd brain. Show the dog a bone and it'll forget everything else!

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