One month and a half to recover...  

Sarahwilling 35F
193 posts
6/5/2006 9:41 am

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One month and a half to recover...

Dear Friends,
I left this blog to rest for one month and a half to recover from the overwhelming amount of messages, invitations, winks that I received upon signing on. I had one encounter (dick#1) which I was beginning to explain; the second (dick#2) was a little rougher that expected or desired, so I decided to take a long break.

The only thing I would say about dick#2 is that some mamas here should have taught a couple of things to some of the boys in here. But I suppose we all take a risk when we decide to actually meet someone. The only self-criticism I have is that as soon as you use a flirting tone, some of the boys might thing you are an easy girl, to whom you can try to do anything you wish. So I guess that's it for the flirting. And you would thing the weirdos would be unemployed, uneducated, unable to spell people. Dick#2 probably makes more than $100,000 a year and I would have not guessed how forceful he would be in the way he talked or dressed. But I learned something.

Well, for the some 500 people who have read this blog in my absence, here I am again -even though I really doubt I will get a similar audience from now on.


rm_mkeoldspice 59M

6/5/2006 9:45 pm

Welcome back Sarah...sorry to hear about your bad experience. Your right though, it's a chance we all take. A lesson leaned, and a book and it's cover and all that. Glad your okay!

lustfullytwo 44M/42F  
8 posts
6/5/2006 10:58 pm

Glad to see your back and very glad that you are ok! Sorry to see so many week minded man out their that need to show their strength to a lady! Just remember not all man treat woman like that and meet in a more popular place so you may leave if your not into it! This can be fun but very scary also! glad to here from you again!!

Bluto1965 51M

6/5/2006 11:57 pm

Weclome back Sarah, I am sorry you had such a bed experience. But its sad that there are such jerks out there who do not know how to treat a sweet girl like you. Having a profile on AdultFriendFinder doesn't mean that you are easy. You seem to be very sweet and deserve all the respect and should be treated like that.
I sure hope you will not have another experience like that.

SirluvsStorms 46M
684 posts
6/8/2006 1:13 am

Welcome back .. Judging a book by its cover is also an interesting task. Each cover has its shade of intrigue. Sarah don't doubt your self. You will have a large following if you write. Don't doubt the eager minds of the male.. we follow allot of shiny bright objects too LOL!

fmisvme 46M/36F

6/8/2006 1:59 pm

Sorry to hear about your disturbing experience, but you don't need to doubt yourself. The excitement in your first few blogs was obvious, maybe just slow down a little and get to know the person you pick a little more. You can't guess correctly every time, so try to take some of the guess work out of it. You are going to receive plenty of attention, don't worry about that. Life's a marathon, not a sprint. Take Care.

Rock Chalk Jayhawk!

Sarahwilling 35F

6/10/2006 2:40 pm

Thanks for all your meant a lot to me. Now, how do I respond to you? are they expecting me to pay?

rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
6/11/2006 8:36 pm

Sorry to hear about #2. Men need to understand that no means no. It doesn't just apply to whether or not you'll have sex, but also to anything that goes on after you've said yes. No means no. Perhaps pepper spray should go along on your next date.

To use the 'respond' feature, yes, they want money. Common practice for standard members is either separate comments for repsonses, or group several responses in a single comment. Look around, and you'll see how people do it.

wontknowtillutry 51F  
900 posts
7/9/2006 6:40 pm

I just found your blog today as I was following a link from another page to you. In fact this is sort of a response to several of your posts all at once. First off, I appreciate your candor and the articulate way that you share your thoughts and experiences. I'm sorry to hear about your unfortunate experience with #2.

I'm thinking, "you know, that could happen if you met someone through AdultFriendFinder, or any of the vanilla personals, or if your old Sunday school teacher introduced you." I'm not saying this to negate your experience at all, and you are obviously a wise woman.... so I'm just reminding all the boys and girls to play nice....on this site or anyplace. (go to ALT.COM if you are looking for the rough stuff)

regarding father what a if you saw him would you be a 'praying mantis' instead? : ) Seriously, I think there is a lot of difference between becoming involved in something like that where you are two consenting adults vs. the current crisis in the church which is dealing with the issue of nonconsent.

Thank you again for your posts and your insights. As one who has been a bit more talk then action on this site as I've been sorting things out here, you've given me some more food for thought.


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