Sexual Ethics  

SampaguitaMoon 51M/58F
9 posts
1/25/2006 7:19 am

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12/6/2007 11:21 am

Sexual Ethics

My wife is currently away on business and one of our rules is that we only play separately when we are far apart. There is a woman that we were getting ready to meet prior to her going on an unexpected trip. While on this trip, she decided she'd rather not meet this woman but gave me permission to play with her while she's away on business.

I told this woman about my wife's change of heart but that we could still get together. Even though she still wants to play with me, she's concerned that she may cause a rift between me and my wife. I've assured her that's not the case, but now to be fair I told her that if she's not comfortable anymore, that's ok.

I know she still wants to get together and I still do also but it is only her worry that has come between us. I also know that if I put the smallest effort into seducing and convincing her, we'd be in bed soon after. Yet I won't because she needs to make the decision herself so she won't feel guilty or regret it later.

It is very frustrating when being honorable means walking away from some really great sex!

SoulFeeling 39M

1/26/2006 10:42 am

Sounds like you value that honour is a virtue and virtue is its own reward 0

rm_snoophound 57
8 posts
2/21/2006 11:37 pm

You are doing the right thing.
Every woman is scared about causing a rift in the relationship,by playing alone with a married ,committed partner.

2cookies4u 57M/53F

4/5/2006 4:15 am

Being honorable and honoring your relationship means that your behavior is above reproach. Better to have missed out on some great sex than having to live with a wrong decision forever.

rm_mixusacpl 42M/42F
1 post
5/5/2006 4:11 am

Its hard being the one that can say no to a given situation. I think that having full concent from everyone involved will lead to an even better time. Besides you never know if your wife will change her mind by the time she gets home and everyone can have a good time.

rm_nascar8806 43

5/28/2006 1:21 am

yes always leave it up to her, The man must obey her wish. do not loose what u have

sshwfgd 46M
33 posts
6/7/2006 5:09 pm

You made the right choice. Sex or meetings should never be forced upon someone who has doubts. Good man

rm_MrMrsSwirll 51M/42F

11/19/2007 9:52 pm

Yes I Think you made the right decision. Hold on to your wife, at the end of the day. You will have more fun with her then without her.

beancount69 57M
33 posts
7/19/2011 3:22 pm

good move!

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