question for the broken hearts  

SacredStarDance
4888 posts
8/31/2006 7:51 am
question for the broken hearts

Do you wait for time to heal your broken heart ??

or do you take that time to find all the love and wonders in the world to lead you to yet another true love??


under the stars


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__Huntress__ 55M/57F

9/14/2006 3:54 pm

I've done both ... but I've learned I need to take that time to heal ... you gotta pick up those pieces again and put them all back together ... and hopefully when you do, you've learned a lesson or two along the way ...

The only thing I know for sure is that when the time is right, and with the right person, my heart will still be open ... I know no other way to love ...

{=}


SacredStarDance replies on 9/14/2006 6:21 pm:
there you go.. an open heart goes so far.. thanks for stopping by

MOfunNOWWOW 55F

9/4/2006 12:19 pm

heal
but I am looking now and ready


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


SacredStarDance replies on 9/5/2006 7:06 am:
wooooohooooooo opened minds leads to a beautiful loving heart

Djeeper1987 47M

9/4/2006 11:13 am

My hearts been broken so many times, I don't have one anymore. The pieces are still own by the pass lovers. They will not give it back as they will not give me peace of mind.

So I am not taking anymore chances as I have no more pieces to give. I might as well be 50 and alone as I am now.

Carpe Diem


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 8:45 pm:
you may have giving all your heart.. You allowed them to take your peace of mind.. and it will return..

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

9/4/2006 9:01 am

Once your heart has been truly broken...you guard what little you have left.


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 10:44 am:
I can understand that.. sometimes the right one will make you forget about that gaurd and heal all your heart

florallei 99F

9/3/2006 10:07 pm

After my 20 yrs. of marriage dissolved I waited a few years to heal and to learn and find out who I am...I was content not to have a man! However the men never left me alone but each relationship has taught me much and was better each time...lead me to my soul mate!!!
hugs,
flo


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 10:39 am:
wonderful.. and the time to know ourselves is very important..love yourself first

elusive_angel 53F

9/3/2006 1:15 pm

You take the time to enjoy all life has to offer........and before you know it, life will offer you something in place of that "BROKEN HEART"........and that's a heart that's ready to "LOVE AGAIN" !!
Hugs,
T


Kisses,
Elusive Angel

elusive_angel


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 10:38 am:
you got it g/f

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
9/2/2006 7:41 pm

Well, my expeiences have been spread apart so I guess I don't wait but I wait. Kinda getting started before the other is over this time but not really; it's already over.
Went through the grieving already. Got over the it's all my fault thoughts. And the who would want me stuff. Not closing up shop.
And not bringing baggage in to the future. Only positive thoughts. Will try not to assume things since everyone is different, and what meant one thing before doesn't mean the same thing with a new person.
And stuff like that there.
SR


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 10:38 am:
always under the stars

wolfghst 50M
86 posts
9/2/2006 1:27 pm

i'll take it slow and i'll also becareful.
see ya tonight..


SacredStarDance replies on 9/4/2006 10:37 am:
like i said slow is always good...and it was great to you y'all this weekend.. woooohoooooo
under the stars..

wolfghst 50M
86 posts
9/2/2006 1:11 am

i wait until i find another to fall in love with but i always take it slow.


SacredStarDance replies on 9/2/2006 5:34 am:
well that can be smart..just take it slow driving up here.. the cops are everywhere

cougarprey4play 40M

9/1/2006 9:39 pm

I'm grown up... omg.. just don't take my bucket away or shovel.. many sand castle to be build...
I think i will be posting more on this.. why not.. its my life and many more also..there many types of marriages and relationships and to much room for negative stuff that is really pointless..I will email you soon with some thougts after the weekend
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Hey, I still have Crayolas!! Plus I'm not the only one I found out!!!

Okay, well I should have taken a shower & got to bed due to the early day but I had to catch up on a few more replies It's almost 10:40pm!!

Have a good weekend otherwise,
Coug


docdirk 47M

9/1/2006 9:23 pm

I wait it out. And wait... and wait...

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


SacredStarDance replies on 9/2/2006 5:31 am:
you will be worth the wait

cougarprey4play 40M

9/1/2006 7:03 pm

love your comments.. unfortunatly sometimes we go on thinking it will repair its self and along you just hold on to resentment that always comes out when your no where near what is actually going on .. or even with the person you are with..and it digs a deeper hole where your still upset.. but at what ?? you don't remember.. it not even important but repair needs to be done.. with a new love or the present..and hopefully put the past in the past..
tired and rambling now..but do I sound half way grown up ??? lol
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Thank you, with my work lately I wonder if I make any sense - I'm getting burned out but making it.

Oh my do I know that feeling. I hate the waiting but I try to work things out with people if it's possible or at least get back to level ground so I don't feel like I'm neither digging a hole nor making a mountain out of a mole hill.

What's weird about all this - on my ride home I started to things about this in general, not just loves but people who have hurt me or angered me as well as those I've "harmed". Really, what's the point of holding onto those negative things; it does no good. There are limited times or reasons why it could be considered okay (like when someone is truly & purely evil with no regard for what they do & harm people for "the fun of it") but otherwise we are capable of forgiving but some just choose not to.

Yes you do sound grown up thanks!
Coug


SacredStarDance replies on 9/1/2006 8:20 pm:
I'm grown up... omg.. just don't take my bucket away or shovel.. many sand castle to be build...
I think i will be posting more on this.. why not.. its my life and many more also..there many types of marriages and relationships and to much room for negative stuff that is really pointless..I will email you soon with some thougts after the weekend

cougarprey4play 40M

8/31/2006 8:30 pm

I've learn to keep things clean - I can talk about my past relationships & dealings but I don't want to be focused on them, as to ruin any potential new one. To "edit" a quote: What happens in the past, stays in the past.

Exactly - why can't people realize what you said about marriage - learn from it! That can be applied to everything in life but so few think about it.


SacredStarDance replies on 8/31/2006 10:32 pm:
love your comments.. unfortunatly sometimes we go on thinking it will repair its self and along you just hold on to resentment that always comes out when your no where near what is actually going on .. or even with the person you are with..and it digs a deeper hole where your still upset.. but at what ?? you don't remember.. it not even important but repair needs to be done.. with a new love or the present..and hopefully put the past in the past..
tired and rambling now..but do I sound half way grown up ??? lol

cougarprey4play 40M

8/31/2006 7:17 pm

i believe I've used the first usually over the second growing up but found that sometimes that "waiting" takes longer than expected so it's easier to appreciate what is around you to lead yourself to another love. It's far better - even if people say "take your time", sometimes it's easy to get over the last love if you allow it to happen naturally & move on enjoying what is in your life instead of what you "lost".


SacredStarDance replies on 8/31/2006 7:30 pm:
percisely.. thank you for your comment.. I have just have singel friends that let the negativity in old relationships into the new potential relationships.. and that is not good.. its a different person with different ideas that had nothing to do with the past relationship...

just as in marriage.. you have to work with the past you both created with in the marriage.. and try not to bring it back into the marriage.. learn from it.

under the stars

1eroticjoe 56M
3776 posts
8/31/2006 3:20 pm

I took the time to find all the love and wonders in the world to lead me back to the one I originally truly loved! I must be the most fortunate man alive!


SacredStarDance replies on 8/31/2006 5:36 pm:
I read your blog.. I swear you wrote all that we have learned in our 12 years together..so percise and so clear.. We always had it in us to survive.. just the communication got fogged. things are better then ever..it was just needing to get back to the basics.. respect and love..
thanks for stopping by
and congrats on your re newed happiness..

rm_Benkai7 55M
2358 posts
8/31/2006 11:50 am

Dear "Muffy".

... 愜uess I扉e made experiences as any other ... some time and my friends have been the the best "cure" for me ...

... hugs to you ...

T Benkai7 T ... just my opinion & experience ... T Z


SacredStarDance replies on 9/1/2006 6:26 pm:
friends play a very important roll in healing

under the stars

ZZ_Todd 59M

8/31/2006 9:53 am

Time and time again, time has proven to be a good band-aid for me. I don't change what works.


SacredStarDance replies on 8/31/2006 11:12 am:
as long as its a good bandaid..thats a good thing...Have just been talking with many singel friends that will not allow there selves to trust again..and feel they will never have a true love again..

I say you will have true love again.. will be different.. not better.. not less.. but as true and a stronger love ..
but if you keep looking down at the ground as your walking.. your true love may have just walked on by.

under the stars

JuicyBBW1001 54F

8/31/2006 9:27 am

I wait a while only because it is not fair for the next man to compete with my memories of the last love, especially if the last one wasn't a happy ending. Now if it was a happy ending then I jump right in with both feet. Oh and I think I solved my dilemna go look please.

Juicy


SacredStarDance replies on 8/31/2006 11:06 am:
its good to wait.. just not to long.. and on my way over.. if a.f.f will let me..lol

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