drama mama turns out to be a beautiful woman  

SacredStarDance
4888 posts
6/29/2006 4:51 pm
drama mama turns out to be a beautiful woman

This blog is for a new person in my life.. I will leave it up to her if she wants to identify herself by leaving a comment..
My past post " the difference between freedom of speech and ignorance "
I learned a huge lesson in my advice that I always give.. DON'T LISTEN TO A THIRD PARTY ... In other words .. Don't let it get to you when you have not heard it for yourself.
This lady has contacted me.. We talked forever on the phone.. she explained her side of the situation and felt she did not owe an apology and I had to agree..
She is very intelligent and was speaking her mind.. she just wished she would of been better prepared.. and used better terms.

All and all she was not the hateful person I thought she was and I found her to be very sincere.. as she was not saying she was sorry..But she helped me understand how it all got out of hand..well I already new..(chat room ) and I made the mistake of letting it get to me.

We both gave each other advice on situations in the future.. we had a wonderful conversation.. and she is someone I would loved to have lunch with and chat.

so sometimes.. going through hell will get you to heaven..
I just thank my lucky stars that I answered the call and was adult enough to listen and learn. I'm also thankful she was woman enough to call me ......... pure class..another woman that will not tolerate being misunderstood.. I applaud you.

thank you

so the question is.. are you open minded enough to find out the real truth and open the communication to keep from being misunderstood ???to learn you were wrong???

under the stars



under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat



SacredStarDance

7/7/2006 6:53 pm

Very well said.. thanks

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


florallei 99F

7/5/2006 9:53 am

Hello,

It is unfortunate that as human beings we seem to have the tendency to jump to conclusions and impute wrong motives to those whose opinions or views differ from ours. It is a skill that needs practice and more practice and pretty soon when one gets older and wiser it becomes second nature to say to one's self..."how interesting...what he or she said...I hadn't thought of that"...for after all everyone has their views...the important part is to keep an open mind...for it is easy to like and love someone who has similar views to ours but very difficult to like and love someone whose opinions and views differ from ours...It is a lesson I try to practice and need a reminder from time to time.
I am glad you both had the courage to talk and discuss and listen not only with your ears and mind but also your hearts.
Florallei


libgemOH 56M/52F

7/2/2006 4:34 am

Drama mama is still one of my favorite lady's!! Really glad you got things worked out! NOW GET YOUR SEXY PICS BACK ON!! I miss looking at you!! -B {=}


nikid_64 52F

6/30/2006 7:04 am

Mrs Muff

I always learn so much from you. Your kind heart and soul are a blessing and I too want to be a better person and learn from my mistakes and I hate to have bad feeling toward anyone. Thank you for being you.

Niki


SacredStarDance replies on 6/30/2006 5:13 pm:
thank you... wishing you a very happy birthdays

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/30/2006 3:49 am

MRSMUFFLAND replies on 6/30/2006 603 am:
you just keep writing those sexy stories thats are building character and make all of us feel sooooooo good.
Yes it is tuff and there are situations when things just can not be worked out.. and when you do try to be civil and it just slaps you in the face.. Its best just to walk away.. you got to know you tried and be satisfied with that
now go write


*smiles wearily...then disappears back into the shadows, back to his Dark Tower to write some more...*


SacredStarDance replies on 6/30/2006 5:14 pm:

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/30/2006 12:57 am

I try to be open minded and understanding...but damn, it's tough at times. I tend to be a bit vengeful at times...call it a character flaw...

I think it is admirable that the two of you were able to talk it out like adults and turn what could have been a bad situation into a good one...my compliments to you and your unknown caller...

NG61...quietly disappearing into the darkness...


SacredStarDance replies on 6/30/2006 3:03 am:
you just keep writing those sexy stories thats are building character and make all of us feel sooooooo good.
Yes it is tuff and there are situations when things just can not be worked out.. and when you do try to be civil and it just slaps you in the face.. Its best just to walk away.. you got to know you tried and be satisfied with that
now go write

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/29/2006 8:56 pm

I know I have to work on this myself because I let people get to me too sometimes. When it shouldn't bother me at all. Good post and I am glad you where able to get closure with that issue as I know it bothered you for quite sometime. Love ya

Juicy


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 9:08 pm:
thank you.. anger and hurt is a good thing.. just as long as you leave room for forgivness and understanding and recognize that we have options with are feelings..no one owns them but us.. so no one can control them but our selves .. I choose to be happy and so did she

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
6/29/2006 8:38 pm

Mrsmuff....you are an inspiration to many! I'm so glad that you are the kind of person who is willing to talk a situation out. So many people just close up and hold the bitterness inside! Thanks for dancing under those stars!


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 9:05 pm:
its because of beautiful people like you.. I can dance.. thank you my friend

stonerandsea 48M/50F

6/29/2006 7:52 pm

Like I've said before.........I only hope to become the kind of amazing woman that you already are!!! Your openess and honesty, sweet spirit and forgiving soul.....I strive to be that kind of woman myself.....

So from me to you......THANK YOU! For being not only an inspiration, but an amazing example as well!! You are loved!

{=}


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 8:02 pm:
wow... coming from you is such a wonderful compliment.. I thank you so much.... you both are truly amazing..together and as individuals.. a perfect example of fate

firestarter665 42M/39F

6/29/2006 6:18 pm

I am happy for you that you got to work through the issues.

I have always been open minded. Sometimes the truth hurts, but I always get over it and talk it out.


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 6:51 pm:
yes it hurts.. this is why I'm happy when things get resolved..I don't like having bad feelings with anyone..

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
6/29/2006 6:18 pm

I try to be open to communication but it is not always that easy. I seem to have a problem with anger and holding a grudge. I can also be vindictive and cold-hearted when involved in an argument or unpleasant situation. I'm usually a nice person but don't cross me. That's when things get ugly. It seems like lately this has gotten worse. I don't like being like this and don't know what to do about it.

I'm glad things worked out for you and the other party involved. I applaud you for being able to settle the situation without a lot of drama. Maybe I can learn something from this.

Peace


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 6:50 pm:
Blog it babe.. No joke..

when someone really gets me down or upset or hurts my feelings.. I tell myself that it is only I that can allow myself to get upset..

If someone does not like me.. I can't take it personal.. its there prob.. its not me.. they have a right to who and what they like .. if its not me..I move on...

I hope you do get help and work this out.. I know its hard.. its just a re-birth type of thing with lots of labor ... but well worth it

oldude1946 70M

6/29/2006 5:22 pm

After I retire next year and come to Fl I'll call ya


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 6:44 pm:
well ya better.. will be waiting.. and have cocoa and will take you to are lil race track for the school bus figure 8 races

MaggiesWishes 59F

6/29/2006 5:21 pm

I always appreciate someone who steps up and can talk/compromise over a situation that might have been unfavorable.

I love your tender and kind soul. YOU shine among the stars.

warm huggies 2ya Sis
c'ya soon


SacredStarDance replies on 6/29/2006 6:42 pm:
thank you sister... you are a beautiful soul yourself

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