crazy ranting ... and its long..grab somthing to drink  

SacredStarDance
4888 posts
3/9/2006 6:58 pm
crazy ranting ... and its long..grab somthing to drink


This is my second blog, I usually just enjoy all the wonderful ranting, stories and poems. So much talent in here in AdultFriendFinder blog world and so many incredible new heros to me...
Anyways I have decided to join in and get some things off my chest.Beacause of a handful of AdultFriendFinder folks I was forced to make a decision to quit AdultFriendFinder or just blow them off...I have decided not to let these closed mind, two faced, hypocrites get to me any longer.. kiss my a__..I love AdultFriendFinder and will continue... and I figure these are the folks that probly go home and kick there dogs and abuse there kids and spouse to no end... I will say they did however make it uncomfortable for me to go into the chat room... NOT NO MORE... MRS.MUFF IS BACK .

My husband and I have parties...AdultFriendFinder parties. The first one started on Christmas 2 years ago beacause some fellow chatters were going to be alone... Mrs mother to all here can not stand the fact of anyone being alone on Christmas.. so we invited them over..45 friends showed up... it was wonderful..I finally got to meet so many in person that I had been chatting with for almost a year. then a month or so later.. we are in the chat room on a saturday morning... everyone is trying to find somthing to do for the rest of the weekend... Mr & I looked at one another... and smiled.. then typed..PARTY AT MUFFLAND.. TONIGHT.. About 100 showed up.. again.. we had a blast.. singing, dancing and loving life.

So we continue to have Parties and have met wonderful people, true friends, we have had couples get married and engaged from meeting here..
The problem is... before the parties and long after.. I will get trashed in the chat room and get nasty emails from people that don't know us and have never been here...It just blows me away that people can be so judgemental. Now I will say I can understand why one would think we have mass orgies from some of the pic's... but we dont. I can also understand why they would think we f---- every thing in sight and we dont.. as a matter of fact me and mr. dont play... well we do alone, not at a party.
and I Loved this one... Im a Bi-sexual wanna be..
hmmmmmmmmmmm Ill leave that one alone for now.

Just today I got an email from a Man that I had to dis invite because he is married and I did not know this.. we do not provide a place for married people to cheat on there spouses.

for every party Me and Mr. stay sober and pay attention to everything that goes on, and we also have security and at least 1 person for every 10 people that are here that helps us host and keep everything happy.

All the woman know to watch out for all the woman.. and if we walk by them and say " check list g/f"... we are saying "Girlfriend are you about to do somthing you will regret in the morning"... and all the men make sure they stay cool and keep it that way.
Everyone knows... No means No and no grabbing, no yelling... and good attitude is a must.

And for the email that read somthing like we are all sluts.. to me there is no such thing.. I say "sexually aware of ourselves"..

lets see what else... oh loved this one.. Im a fake bitch... hmmmmm by someone from Ohio that has never been here or has met me... Because I dont play. Well my choice. I sing, dance, and live life to the fullest because I can,Thats playing.. right ??? because Im open minded and Blessed with a warm heart and never judge anyone for what ever makes them happy as long as they don't force it on me...Im a fake bitch... hmmmmm
We can go to a corner, smokey bar with peanuts on the floor with a toothless waitress or dance the Tango at a yacht party.. We just enjoy people.

oh and...... we do not invite complete strangers to our home... We have either met them at a Meet and Greet.. or another party or another AdultFriendFinder friend has a new love in there life they want to bring.we are very careful who comes to the partys...

Banned from the partys.. yes we have banned people from Muffland
yes, Its sad but true.. Only because they went into the chat room and told everyone who was with who and so on..and create so much drama and negativity... just not needed in our home or life. what goes on in Muffland stays in Muffland and they knew that when they first walked in the door.

so thats it... Phewwwww.. that did feel good.The partys will continue

see you in the chat room

under the stars
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you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat



SacredStarDance

4/7/2007 7:26 pm

Rock... your a sweet heart so glad we met you your family now

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


Rocinit 62M

3/14/2007 2:12 am

Muffy
Before you opened you home to me, I was very much a loner since my wife I brought over from Ireland hauled ass because she finally got legal status. (figures). You opened your home to me and I have met and made friends that I never imagined. A few have come to me for help. One I wish I could have. One I did help. have done brake changes, oil changes for those who didnt know how and coulnt afford the labor, and in return an endless friendship, worth more than a lottery win. I have Hit the jack pot.
Thanks HUGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Rock.


SacredStarDance

3/11/2006 10:06 am

Hottie,
Its because of people like you with caring personalities, and zest for life,thatlove people and just know how to have a good time !
You and our friends like you make the parties wonderful. We only open our home......its for friends like you that THE PARTIES WILL CONTUNUE
love you girlfriend

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


SacredStarDance

3/10/2006 11:31 am

mzhunyhole... thank you soooooooo much

fantasylover_05.... MY HERO your comments means alot comming from you huggssssssssssssssssss

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


fantasylover_05 62M

3/10/2006 4:26 am

You are indeed a very generous and caring soul!!

It is just such a shame a few can spoil things for so many others! I am glad to hear you will continue your parties and will blog!!

Don't let a few idiots spoil YOUR fun!!!

Thank you for sharing this! Hopefully it will open a few more eyes and show people the real you and what you do for others!!

PARTY ON!!!

BLOG ON!!!!!


SacredStarDance

3/9/2006 8:16 pm

thank you mizzkitka sooooooooooooooooooo much

I need to Change somthing... Someone reminded me we do have married people here arriving solo... Because thats there life style and we know them.. and thats how there marriage works..The email was from someone we knew and we know the spouse,I dont need anyone chasing me with a frying pan...lol I guess what I meant was We dont want to encourage or be envolved in hurting a healthy... traditional marriage...or take a chance of a mad spouse showing up.. Like I said We don't judge anyone ok I'll shut up now..I'm getting stupid

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


SacredStarDance

3/9/2006 7:59 pm

Thank you Angelofmercy5... I so much apprieciate your comment

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
3/9/2006 7:45 pm

It sounds like you are incredibly generous with opening your home and your lives to others. I like that you and your husband stay sober and kind of watch over the party going ons. Don't let narrow minded people...who are probably just jealous of you...change who you are.


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