a boring blog about posistions  

4888 posts
3/28/2006 9:22 am
a boring blog about posistions

Last night as I was doing my " 8:30 pm under the stars. Meditating, praying, wishing. and I have made a point to also include a list of all the things I'm thankful for.
I'm so thankful for my friends and I think of ALL of you and send payers.. But I'm Learning to be thankful for the simple things in life that I have taken advantage of for sooooooooooooooo long..

For example how hubby and I sleep. has not changed in 12 yrs. I sleep on the left side of the bed on my side.. he nuzzles against me with his leggy over mine and cups my right breast with his hand.. I fall asleep to the sounds and feel of his breath on my neck after he gently sweeps my hair away.. feeling safe and loved every night...mmmmm even when he is mad at me for painting the house plum purple...lol

But a couple of days ago he hurt his back playing basket ball, so has been sleeping flat on his back.. it has made it impossible for me to sleep seeing his discomfort. We both have been tossing and turning... our sleeping routine has been warped...ugggggggggg and wow... how it plays with the moods through out the day

There have been many times we were away from one another and we survived and slept.. But to have him there, right next to me.. and no cuddling.. well it just spinned my world out of control..

So he called me this morning and told me the Chiropractor fixed him... wooohooooooo

So what position do you sleep in ???

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oldman1776 78M
3164 posts
3/31/2006 9:52 pm

I start out on my left side but I change several times during the knight from left to right and back again.

When my wife was alive it was always on my left sid cuddled to her with my right hand on her brest or belly.

SacredStarDance replies on 4/1/2006 7:56 am:
I bet you a great cuddler with that cold mountain air

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
3/30/2006 9:16 am

Hmmm... usually, when i'm alone, i sleep flat on my back, ankles crossed, hands folded across my chest. Slept that way since teenage years, at least. Mom said I always looked ready for burial, and just needed some white lily's under my hands. Used to freak her out half the time.

With somebody?? hmm... Sometimes i like lying flat on my back with him curled against me (usually if it's hot) or... if sleeping on my right side, i like pressing against his back with my leg over him and my left resting on his chest, belly, or cock. (ditto if he's on his back). if sleeping on my left side, i like him pressed against my back, legs tangled with mine, right hand on my breast (either one).

and on occassion i sleep with a stuffed animal... have a huge (3 foot?) teddy bear, that i can wrap around.

SacredStarDance replies on 3/30/2006 10:11 pm:
I use to sleep on my back the same way... one morning my mother did put white lillies over my chest and took a pic..lol.. thanks

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
3/29/2006 9:09 pm

I loved this blog Mrsmuffland.....so sweet! I sleep on the right side of the bed....my hubby on the left. We do cuddle...but once its time for him to go to sleep...he has to put on the mask for the C-pap machine that keeps him breathing and also NOT snoring all night long. I usually sleep on my right side....often inching over until our butts are touching....or my foot caresses his leg. I just like to touch him.

SacredStarDance replies on 3/30/2006 10:08 pm:
Thank you Angel,

Still have a chill from your story. Truly a wonderful read

ProtonicMan 47M

3/29/2006 6:35 pm

That is sooo sweet! I love to cuddle when I sleep, but I get too hot. Actually, too hot both ways.

When I'm alone, I typically start out on my side. I have to have a pillow to hug.


fantasylover_05 62M

3/28/2006 5:39 pm

Nice blog Mrs Muff!!!

I have a king sized bed... I sleep on the left side (looking from teh foot LO on my right side.. I sleep in the 18 to 24 inches along that side and my wife has the rest! LOL

We never touch... we do not cuddle... I am typically in bed and long asleep before she comes to bed and I am up and gone before she is awake.......

I am glad your husband's back is better!!!

SacredStarDance replies on 3/29/2006 8:30 am:
omg.. she has def. not read your storys... that bed would be on fire..lol thanks my friend

firestarter665 42M/39F

3/28/2006 5:02 pm

I have some major back issues. So I liike my hubby to be close while sleeping, but if he is partially on my OMG the pain!

SacredStarDance replies on 3/29/2006 8:25 am:
You poor thing... He is very active.. basketball,running,and his back is fine... then he will do somthing simple like tie his shoe.. and his back goes out.. very painful... hope you get better

rm_pagan380 64M
4405 posts
3/28/2006 2:32 pm

Pillows, lots of pillows. I'm sleeping alone these days and pillows sure help take the place of a cuddly lady, but sure can't replace one. When I do sleep with a warm body, I always take the left side too.

Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.


SacredStarDance replies on 3/29/2006 8:18 am:
Oh... and yes I have lots of pillows on the other side of me... love those pillows

libgemOH 56M/52F

3/28/2006 11:47 am

I am looking forward to the really good sleep I get when Jim is home this weekend. We spoon too, just like you and like you, I fall asleep to his breathing and feel safe and loved. It is the only time I really feel safe at night is when he's home. Otherwise...well thank God I sleep like a log because I HATE SLEEPING ALONE! -B

SacredStarDance replies on 3/29/2006 8:16 am:
lib..and thank God for blogs when we can't sleep...lol

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