Mr.Muffland needs your sympathy  

SacredStarDance
4888 posts
5/4/2006 7:16 pm
Mr.Muffland needs your sympathy

The poor man.. He really needs everyones support here.. He is married to me.. Bless his heart..
He walks around shaking his head alot lately, and I have noticed a nervous twitch.. hmmmmm He slowly peeks around a corner before he enters a room.. I have also noticed he changes his sentence real quick if I just only mean to give him loving eye to eye contact.

Its not that bad really.. But I think I baffle him now and then.. I'm defiantly not the same woman a few years ago..quiet..laid back.. letting everything just slide off me like butter on corn.

I'm not the girl he married.. now I say what ever is on my mind.. can talk about anything.. and now I will debate.. argue.. stand up for myself.. and saying sorry to a woman you have been with for 13 years and 1 day... does not mean a bunch..

I use to accept sorry..Not any more.. Now I want to make sure you understand the reason why I got up-set .. perfectly !so you know I'm not over re-acting.. or being bitchy.. and omg.. don't ask if its that time of the month...pleeeeze

You can buy me flowers.. beg for forgiveness.. but I'm just not happy until you perfectly understand what got me up-set..and validated..lol

I 'm not an individual that likes to push buttons.. no way..I don't want to make anyone mad at me..so I don't..and that means My Husband, I live with him.. Don't want him mad..But if it takes making him up-set so he understands why I'm up-set.. well here we go

Point is.. it really takes sooooooooooooooo much for me to get up-set.. I mean you can slap me and I will smile.. I'm still the girl that will think it over.. ponder a bit.. really wonder if I do indeed have a right to be up-set.If i reach the count of 100 and I'm still up-set.. I have reason and "WE NEED TO TALK" He hates those words. But I will say he does listen and and trys to understand my view..well today He gave me his view...and all I have to say is....

Baby.. I'm sorry... its that time of the month


under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat



goodguysneedit2 56M

5/10/2006 7:19 am

psssstt... VALIDATE ME WILD, WOMAN!


goodguysneedit2 56M

5/9/2006 7:28 pm

LOL...what a nice twist at the end!
So...ummm... (tip-toeing on eggshells here)... is it possible you may be saying that as much as a woman desires to be understood, sometimes it may not be possible?

Tell me I didn't hear that!
Do we need to talk?


SacredStarDance replies on 5/9/2006 9:42 pm:
shhhhhhhhhhh I'm not telling.. do you understand.. i want you to understand me ! VALIDATE ME !!!!.. thanks for stopping in..I'm honored.

seek_my_flame 40F
465 posts
5/6/2006 6:48 am



Question: how many times in a month are we allowed to have?


SacredStarDance replies on 5/6/2006 10:51 pm:
As many as we want.. huggsssssssssss

libgemOH 56M/52F

5/5/2006 5:40 pm

No wonder I love you so much!! We are TOO much alike!! -B


SacredStarDance replies on 5/5/2006 5:56 pm:
aint that the truth !! miss you..love you

SpaceRangerNJ 55M
4687 posts
5/5/2006 8:55 am

Say hello to my little "friend".
Ya know. Maybe most guys think that way but I never, ever thought to myself, oh, I'll bet it's that time of the month. And if I did, to say it to a woman, how rude.

I like people to understand my viewpoint as well. I get frustrated when I know they don't based on their comments back. They think they have got it and don't understand why I want to continue discussing it. The want to leave it as agree to disagree. How can you do that if you're not even sure you do disagree.

Takes a while for me to get mad as well. Went through a phase where I would knee jerk react to things. Got me in a heap of trouble. Got past that.

Sometimes I know I have been wronged but really can't put my finger on why. It takes some time for me to get my thoughts together. Which is tough because some things need a more or less immediate reaction.

Well, I guess since you are at 13 and a few days he answered the question in the positive.

As long as he is willing to work and grow with you thats all one can ask.

It is always good to let people know if you have over reacted. For whatever reason. Be it PMS or displaced agression or being over tired or not feeling well. All good reasons to temper ones responses or wait until later.

Best of luck, The ever verbose,
SR


SacredStarDance replies on 5/5/2006 10:34 am:
wow you have much to say on this subject..... very impressed and well written.. thanks...
btw... it was 13 yrs that we met.. our 12 yr wedding anniverasy is in July... so we will see if he takes me back or not..phew... this is gonna be a touchy one..lol.. Maybe I should not ask... maybe I should start a pool will he or won't he??

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

5/5/2006 7:20 am

I can relate Muff. Can't wait for menopause. Hugs to you both.


SacredStarDance replies on 5/5/2006 7:25 am:
lol.. thanks.. He needs it

MaggiesWishes 59F

5/4/2006 10:09 pm

*shivers everytime someone mentions the Red Dot Special*
You both have my empathy on this moment in time
warm huggies & {=}
If my schedule permits would love to see you for the Gala this month.
I'll send you contact info soon.
The title suits you


SacredStarDance replies on 5/4/2006 10:15 pm:
wooooohooooooo that would be great

angelofmercy5 58F
17881 posts
5/4/2006 9:26 pm

Mrsmuffland.....I totally understand. And after tuesday....no more monthly crap! lol I like the new blog title by the way!


SacredStarDance replies on 5/4/2006 10:13 pm:
Thank you sweetie.. I almost missed the stars cause of the skatter brianed, silly twit stuff..lol but I caught your star

docdirk 47M

5/4/2006 9:12 pm

It's hard for me to feel too sorry for him. After all, he gets to come home to you every night!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...


SacredStarDance replies on 5/4/2006 9:19 pm:
That was so nice.. thanks.. but I think he is starting to have that gag & rope fantasy.

caressmewell 53F

5/4/2006 8:13 pm

Awwwww, I hate that time of the month! Everything seems so much worse than it really is at times. I think its great that most of us are not the same was when we married...gotta grow and change a bit.


SacredStarDance replies on 5/4/2006 9:17 pm:
I agree with you 100% thanks

SacredStarDance

5/4/2006 8:01 pm

wooohooooo Thank you..I guess we will never be the same..just better btw.. they don't give you much room for a title...

under the stars
We choose to write
you choose what you comprehend.
read twice and be nice
every key stroke... has a heart beat


firestarter665 42M/39F

5/4/2006 7:39 pm

OMG you are too funny! Hell, I am not the same girl that Mr. Fire met years ago. I can totally relate to this!

And love the new blog title!


SacredStarDance replies on 5/4/2006 8:05 pm:
lol.. we will never be the same will we. Thanks and btw.. they don't offer much room for a title do they..

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